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Glad you're doing well man. I may look into the book also, although Im not the greatest reader. Self improvement as a man is something we should always strive for. In a relationship or not. Stay strong.

http://youtu.be/GU6dDqlETFw I think "I" made a song about this..

Thanks bro. I must say, after that **** yesterday, I feel damn good. I know I handled it well, and I can see what she's trying to do. Seems like maybe reality is beginning to hit her. Thats why she cancelled the cs order, and thats why she tried to give me a card. What woman asks for child...

This chick is crazy. The other day, I received papers in the mail for a child support order. I call the head office about it to check into it, they said she had called THAT very morning to cancel it. So then today, at pickup, two weeks after the whole fiasco, I've truly bricked myself off to her...

Thanks bro. I feel really good today. I've just made a conscious decision that I will no longer be this way. I'm getting my **** together and I don't care what she's doing or how she's doing it. I only care about my daughter. I read a quote last night that really resonated with me. "The best way...

Marriage for her? If she marries him, good for them. I'll take custody of my daughter and keep it moving. You're right. Business. No more and no less. What I will do now is only respond or react to anything related to our daughter. I sincerely wish at times I could be heartless, like Christian...

I just want this ***** out of my life. I don't want to feel a thing for her anymore. I dont want to be bothered with anything pertaining to her. Like I am tired of my thoughts running in circles and the feelings being there. I know time heals all, but this crap seems to just linger on. I need to...

Read my post a few days back, from last Sunday. I really ****ed up. What do I do now? She played with my heart. I feel stupid. I've gone back no contact but jeez...

I was doing light years better. I was doing awesome, but then I slipped, thinking I was over it, and in a moment of weakness, she fooled me. Now for me, I've realized it's goin to be like building a wall up to her. Brick by brick. I have to become hardened to her. Her grandmother came to my work...

True! I dont know if I should continue seeing the girl I am right now because I dont feel like Im giving her my all, even though Ive been seeing her for an entire year. Sometimes I find myself thinking of my ex when Im with her...not cool. Not normal. I love my gf, shes great, dont mistake it...

So, daughter is with her mother this weekend, and before she screwed me over, she had agreed to let me take daughter to an event for a little while. Exs grandmother was going to bring daughter for a bit and take her back to her mom. I know this may sound crappy of me, but ex text and asked what...

Thanks for your kind words about my situation. As for yours, it sounds like you're doing awesome. Like you, pushing the thoughts of her out and focusing on her flaws is best. Kicking them off of the pedestal.. Spin all the plates you feel like. You'll know when enough is enough. A few here and...

Awesome bro! Just ignore that bish! You're above that. Let her deal with the consequences of her actions.

That is exactly what I intend to do. Gonna relax this weekend, do some organization with my life. Some soul searching if you will. Begin to really propel my life in a more forward direction. The ex is on her own. She'll cry wolf eventually...and there will be no one to save her. "You see a cape...

Dang, I'm sorry about your situation bro! It's crazy how that works. Women will chose the crappy guys then complain when they treat them like crap...go figure!? I'm moving on. **** this ****! She doesn't deserve me anyways. Those things I mentioned above will be the hardest things for me. I'm...

Mauser, please help me man! I'll listen, I promise. Nothing is worth feeling like this.

I'm being a pansy about this. This isn't me. I hate it. I'm bigger than this. I should feel relieved she doesn't want to be with me. She is no longer my concern. I just care...and I have to let go. What karma gives her is on her. I really have to pull my heart back and not give three ****s what...

Just hashing it all over again in my head. Sunday I thought we were getting back together. I was getting my family back. And then..nothjng. She says "I'm in love with him" I fear custody battle. I fear for her safety, and my daughters. I don't want her back after this ****. I'm just worried. I'm...

This ****ing sucks! That is all!

It just sucks. I was doing sooo freakin good! Im still doing okay, but I feel like that was a set back. I mean, I got some insight, shes struggling and clearly not happy(which felt good, not going to lie), but the cost and this aftermath just wasnt even worth it. I know Im a good man with a lot...