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I appreciate your input man. I'm shifting my sole focus to being the best father possible. That's always been my goal, however things with the ex will no longer play a part in anything. It's over and done. I've buried her in my mind and heart. She's dead. No more. This has gone far enough. I'm...

It's become clear to me that I really have to no care about her. If she's in hell, it's the hell she created. Yesterday felt like a huge setback, but at the same time, I know it was wrong because I've seen the other side. I'm not exactly dependent on the new gf, she's stuck by me when I almost...

Mauser, boy did I ever screw up yesterday! Wish I would have read this beforehand. She came for pick up, I wanted to make sure her boyfriend wasn't there and that she was respecting our wishes. She and I argued and because I was letting her have our daughter back early, I told her to leave and...

Mauser? Could you please chime in?

Man, this **** gets crazier and crazier! There was an incidence between my mom and the ex at drop off the other day and it just snowballed. I have been completely no contact and can say that I am truly moving on. I feel better and am definitely on the mend. Have my days but, it's natural. The ex...

My daughter bought a new Lego set this weekend while she was with me. So the ex texts today and says out daughter would like her Lego set, could she get it? I said okay, I'll run it to her at daycare. Ex says she's not at daycare so I said, swing by on my lunch break and she can run in here and...

You're right. I just need to stay NC completely, however, its such a fine line of whats NC when it comes to our daughter. Thats really my only concern. If she is withholding information that pertains to our daughters health to get some kind of rise out of me, thats her own problem. Thats just...

I just think it's common courtesy to let the other parent that our child is sick and isn't going to daycare? She text back and said she didn't think it was a big deal! It's just a cold, but in the future she would let me know. She asked to yalk at drop off about summer school but I got it worked...

I text her and asked her "Is there a reason you're not communicating with me about our daughters health?" Probably will get no response. This is starting to piss me off...it's like she's trying to NC me but I always commuicate about our daughter. For someone who is "happy" with yhis other guy...

Anybody?

So...our daughter has been sick for two days...I've been strong nc and feeling damn good. But...I feel like she should communicate to me that our daughter is sick, I'm finding out from the babysitter..wtf? How do I approach this? Is she just looking for a reaction?

Spoke to my daughter this weekend, she says she just misses me. Her mom doesnt let her come see me at work like she used to, doesnt let her call me, etc. I spoke to her mom and asked why and she said it wouldnt be fair to her boyfriend, etc. It was in that very moment, in that conversation last...

I like that approach. I think I'll go with that.

I've communicated with her about our daughter only. She's ignored me, like she's trying to NC me or something. I'm simply respecting her decision. It's like she's bitter because I'm using limited contact and giving her what she wants. So lines of communication are kind of blurry and unclear? I...

Mauser, I need your advice..again. I've been full nc on the ex, feeling great, and living life. Dating and haven't felt great in a long time. She did the whole birthday card thing "from" our daughter..whatever! Our babysitter says there has been strange behavior from our daughter. She says she...

Truth! Mauser, do you have any experience with the ex sending things from the kiddos? Any advice on that?

I know, youre right. We really start to over think these things, but at the same time, it makes me wonder. I am simply giving her what she wanted. I havent bothered her, I've only communicated to confirm plans with our daughter. I wonder...I posted pics of me and the other lady on FB, who is...

No, just expected a simple...I will...Im back to silence though...beginning to feel like SHE is trying to NC me?

Silence...I shouldnt have said anything back. I did what you said. "Please tell our daughter thanks for the birthday card" and her grandma was very chatty, but the ex..yeah...have a feeling this was a breadcrumb tactic.

Okay, so I get home from my awesome weekend(seriously f'n amazing) and I have two happy birthday cards....one "from" my daughter, which obviously her mom did...and then one from the exs grandmother....saying she wishes me a happy birthday and hopes things change....not sure how to approach...