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I think youre right. Any tips for this meeting tonight? Ive got an agenda written up...should I even address her in a friendly way? Ask her how she is? Or just be myself minus the feelings I have for her? Treat her like meeting a client at the gym for the first time?

Getting really ****ing anxious about this meeting. Wtf was I thinking...idk if I should have called this meeting but things need to get sorted out so I don't have to have any contact with her. What if she tells me she's getting married? Wtf...idk how well I can hold it together. Ugh...after...

Any way you can get out of the event? I think weather we date other women or not, the biggest component is time. People need to heal. We can't force healing. Stay strong Loz. Just go NC.

It's hard to fathom right now, but you have no idea what life has in store for you! You can't dwell on the what ifs and hypotheticals...what's done is done. Learn from it and don't make those mistakes in the future. What if you guys were still together? Grow and learn from it. Lonely is a normal...

I will. I plan on taking in a copy of an agenda of the topics we need to discuss, go through them point by point, try to leave a few untouched maybe, and jet out of there in 45 minutes or less. Like you said, she needs to know my time is precious. "Thanks for meeting me" *handshake* GHOST!

She says..."Yea thats fine. Ill b there"...ready to get this **** done and move on. Someone who loves you doesn't disrespect you the way she has me...even in the worst of circumstances. Children are truly a blessing. However, this **** is for the birds. I'm to the point now where I love her and...

I like that. I think I'll go that route. I put the meeting proposal out there..haven't heard back yet. I said... "Are you available for a parenting meeting soon? I was thinking at the Coffee shop on Thursday around 6. Let me know if that works for you. Thanks."

So just one face to face meeting and be done? I'm thinking 30 minutes or less

No judgement bro. I wouldn't send her anything! Go ghost on that bish! Silence is the loudest scream! It will say more than that or any other text you could send her would! Stay strong!

Thanks loz...should we schedule parenting meetings on a regular basis? Any other fathers have experience with this?

After sleeping on it...I'm really not too pissed..I just want to get our parenting plan together going forward. Thinking of setting a meeting to discuss the most important issues...mainly her bday, summer school, and financial obligations. Gonna aim to keep it brief and quick.

Should I go ahead and suggest a parental meeting? Not sure what to do here...

Just found out from our daughter that she is allegedly engaged to this guy already...wtf...not gonna lie...pretty ****ing upset...however I'm not going to ask or say anything about it. If they are, I think that parent meeting needs to happen sooner. I don't really like the guy, never did, I've...

I get pissed at times of the day and write what I want to say to her so bad in notepad! Here's what I wanted to say to her today, she's going to be saying you're being mean to me and she's telling people I'm mad at her.. "I'm not mad. I respect your decision. This is what you chose. It's not...

Thanks, Lozboss! Good luck on the date this weekend. Just take it nice and easy with her. Have fun, laugh, and make yourself intriguing. Don't spend a lot of time with her...make her wonder...intrigue her. Make her wonder why you won't spend a ton of time with her. Be scarce...like...

No contact is definitely the only way. I'm not a veteran yet, but I'm 30+ days of NC. I will say it truly is like stitching yourself up after a breakup...the longer the relationship or the uglier the break up, the deeper the cut...and everytime you contact them, you reopen that cut. Never...

Got a text last night..."What do you think abou putting our daughter in summer school?" I replied a little later..."I think it would be beneficial for her" She called and I didn't answer...then got the "I didn't mean to call" text. She called again a little later...wtf!? I think the **** is...

How long have you been nc? Well done, sir! Hope next weekend goes well!

I think it has been extremely helpful...its like a cast...Idk..maybe you're right. She's telling people Im mad at her and that I won't talk to her about anything. She told our babysitter that I wont talk to her about anything. I have communicated clearly and concisely about our daughter and...

Do you think counting the days is a bad thjng? I feel like I have to to keep myself in check. It's almost like putting a "cast" on my heart and emotions...every day I check another day off...it's helped me get through 32 days...I removed it and yesterday is when I had the weak moments...