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Re: Re: ********??? Umm........based on my own perspective, I feel that my friend did not say that I was shy. But she did ask my friend and I if we noticed anything different? Maybe I was reading too much into the situation and I probably thought she was trying to get my attention...

Well this girl I met through a friend yesterday told me that my friend told her that I was a shy guy. And then I started to think, is it true that my friend really said it or was she testing me to see if I am shy? After an hour plus, she went shopping alone and bought a pair of new shoes and...

DAMN Those B|tches! Somehow if girls try to get the best out of you, one thing I can do here is not to act emotional. But I failed to do that. Probably it's because I am an insecure person with low self esteem. That's why I get offended so easily with their remarks. The more I tried to beat...

Look there are some girls out there who are heartless and merciless who enjoy giving men a hard time. I've run across a few of them in my past and I failed to handle them most of the time. How should I handle girls who seem to enjoy putting me down? Here are some lines that women have used...

Awww come on, this forum has thousands of people but only few replies Bump!

How can cognitive dissonance be used in persuasion? You see, psychologists come up with conclusion that cognitive dissonance can be used to change anyone's mind over anything. But the catch is you must do it correctly in order to make sure it works. Suppose if someone believes he or she is...

"COGNITIVE DISSONANCE is a theory of Leon Festinger’s stating that a state of dissonance (which is uncomfortable) is produced when there is an inconsistency between (A) two beliefs, or (B) between a belief and a behavior. For example, if I believe that cigarette smoking causes cancer, and I...

Starman, Sometimes, I don't feel that the net tests on psychological disorder are reliable enough. I've taken a few before and it looks like based on a few simple questions, you'll be diagnosed with problems in your psyche. I have some sort of anxiety when talking to new people. I feel...

Fear of success syndrome Ever heard of the term fear of success syndrome? After being a complete total loser for so many years, success becomes a fear......... In other words, I am afraid of success. In psychology, this is called as a person who has low self esteem who doesn't think he...

What the f*ck is wrong with me!????????? I feel that I am socially impaired, and I am unable to have friends. Am I suffering from avoidant personality disorder or what!? I feel that I am socially under-developed and do not know what to do to improve. I have zero friends with me and I am in...

What if someone says a guy is sexy? What does it mean?? And how do you define a guy who is sexy? In short, what makes a guy sexy to women? Hmm........

No,No,No, you guys got it all wrong!!! I didn't know that I wasn't suppose to ask for her home phone number as I was a fool. I didn't know that a girl shouldn't be going out with other guys if she has a bf. So I asked her # and her bf told me off. But I thought it was fine cause I am used to...

Sounds funny isnt it, my question? I was a naive person and I got myself into trouble with girls cause I am a fool. The other day when I went for a date with a girl, I make her wait for 45 mins because I was waiting for another friend as well. I didn't know that making her wait implies...

That's part of the problem..... Because of my inner wussiness, women sense that I am afraid of having sex. I just don't understand, is this the reason why some women think I am a virgin? In fact, I am. Even when I tried to be confident, they can somehow sense that I am a guy who pretends not...

Every guy wants to get laid including me as well but I am just somehow afraid of sex. I mean I am feeling guilty of somehow.....I just dont know how to explain that kind of funny feeling I am having now. I mean each time when I pick-up women, I feel bad as all I can think of what women will...

The guys are right here. She has low IL. Read Doc Love's column daily to get more information. I've come across girls who behave the same way like your girl did. The important thing here now is not to figure out why she didn't ask you questions cause you know it's all about IL matters. The...

You see...... Since believing is the key here, what is so great about me as a Great Catch since women aint believing it that way? It's only me who believed it, it's me who lived in my own twisted world. Ever read the DSM-IV on the chapter "Loss of reality testing". It talks about how people...

I am posting this the second time. The last time I wrote a post about perception, I got banned from this forum for two days. This time, I am going to write it nicely and ask for people's opinion. You're seen crying in a movie, you see this as your sensitivity but your date sees it as a sign...

Allright , it is time for revenge.!!! What can I do to punish them? Something like this? Asked them out for a date and then stood them up. Or maybe this, invite them out to an expensive restaurant with intention to give them free dinner. But then, as dinner starts, leave with the reason...

Careful. Revenge is sweet but ...... She will come back for revenge if she is insecure. I've had a chick who did that once to me by deliberately putting sugar into my gas tank because I inadvertently used her by making her wait for me during a date for one hour cause I had an emergency. LOLZ