How not to be a fool when you are a fool?

[SimplyTheBest]

Sounds funny isnt it, my question?

I was a naive person and I got myself into trouble with girls cause I am a fool. The other day when I went for a date with a girl, I make her wait for 45 mins because I was waiting for another friend as well.

I didn't know that making her wait implies that I am actually using her. So I make her wait and wait , until she got pissed off......She couldn't go home cause I picked her up that day and if she decides to go home, she has to walk.

So the next day she called and tell me off about how terrible I was and how I was a jerk and etc. I just don't get it. Making a girl wait means using her??

There's another situation where I was a fool as well. I mean is it really wrong for a guy's gf to go out with another guy?? I am about to ask a girl for her phone number but I didn't know that she has a bf. LOL. And her bf was standing next to her and stopped me in instance telling me that he was her bf. So I answered him so? What is wrong with that? He told me that she aint giving it to me cause she's her gf. Then I asked him what was wrong with taking her phone number?

That was when he got pissed off and told me cause she is already taken, idiot!!!!

I was embarassed and realize that I was a fool all these while

P/s : I do not know how many trial and errors do I have to go through before I will finally know everything and don't do stupid mistakes humiliating myself.. Can you guys provide more examples so I will know what not to do in future situations?

 

[Metaphor]

Bro..everyone makes stupid mistakes. I think you're further along then most, considering you admit it.

 

[Ashlee Angel]

If a girl would have said she had a bf I would have stepped off. I don't want to deal with all of that b/s.


But what you did took some balls.

Not only did you persue a woman who already said she had a bf. But her bf said hey that's my girl and you still tried to get the number.


A little crazy but it was bold, don't be to hard on yourself playboy.

 

[Gold Heart]

Why were you waiting for your friend? That's what I don't get. Don't set yourself up to look like the idiot.

And I guess you learned your lesson. If she has a boyfriend and especially if he's right there, don't go around pushing the wrong buttons. You got some balls though, telling him "So?"

 

[squirrels]

If you're gonna make a girl wait, at least call and let her know the situation. That's not DJ-ness. That's manners.

As far as the boyfriend stepping up, best thing you could do would be to walk away. If you feel daring enough and think she's interested, just tell her to find you later (might wanna whisper this, or else be ready for a fight).

If she's interested, she'll find you.

 

[Player_Supreme]

I wonder how many times she has made her dates wait while she was getting all "dressed" up?

You sound like my kinda fool: Keep up the good foolish work!

 

[SimplyTheBest]

No,No,No, you guys got it all wrong!!!

I didn't know that I wasn't suppose to ask for her home phone number as I was a fool.

I didn't know that a girl shouldn't be going out with other guys if she has a bf. So I asked her # and her bf told me off. But I thought it was fine cause I am used to asking for # from all my buddies.

That was when I finally become aware that I am doing mistakes. Then I realized that if a girl is taken, she is not supposed to go out with other guys anymore.