Women sizing you up the first moment she sees you and puts you down.

[SimplyTheBest]

Hey, how do you guys deal with girls who sized you up immediately? They basically underestimate me and told me straight in the face that every girl is too good for me. And that I am wasting my time with all the girls because no girls will ever like me.DAMN THOSE B|TCHES!!!!

How dare they insult me??? RIGHT NOW, I am filled with rage and I am thinking of ways on how to take revenge to make sure they feel insecure in return.

I've done it a few times before in the past by giving them a piece of their own medicince when they insulted me, but it didn't work. I want good comebacks from all of you to insult them to make sure they suffer emotionally like I do.

DAMN THOSE GIRLS!!!

 

[SamePendo]

Actions more than words. You get the best companion you can.

Judging by your nickname (ONLY YOUR NICKNAME, I dont know you) you maaaaybe do too much ****iness.

 

[Grey Fox]

Tell her "What makes you assume I would ever want to waste my attention on you."

Or

"You must be the token ***** your friends keep around so that they look that much better."

Or

"Thanks for the vote of confidence, have a good one." Smile and just walk away.

A three of these piss them off pretty good.

-Grey Fox

 

[squirrels]

If it's not true, her saying it does not MAKE it true. What power does she have to define your existence?

Laugh. And keep doing what you're doing. The best revenge you can get is when you're out there on the floor dancing with her friends and they're all having a great time with you, and they're sitting there fussing between their ego and their sexual desire for you.

 

[WaterTiger]

Forget those silly wenches! You know you're the best, even I know you're the best. You obviously intimidated those sad, pitiful girls so badly that the said those things out of fear of your awesome manliness! It could have been worse! You might have actually had to date one of the skanks! Move on to finer things!

 

[TesuqueRed]

Yes, you need to come back at them fast and hard with something--nasty business, but you have to do it. A low blow (if it's the only thing that you can grab in the moment) is to take a vicious cut at some physical imperfection she has. All women are are sensitive about their real and perceived flaws. Weight always works regardless of what her weight is.

As I said, nasty that you have to reach for that, but then her comment is nastier than most.

Now--back up a little bit--why'd she say that?

And please don't give any angry blow-off answers like "she's a bytch!" We know that. Unless she has a chemical imbalance or other psychological disorder, examine why she would come off with something like that.

Some guesses:
--She ripped on you because she knew she could.
--She ripped on you because you probably occupy a lower social status that she felt safe ripping on you without consequenses.
--She ripped on you because you have obvious flaws (clothing, weight, dorky behavior...) and this gives her reason to think you're below her socially and she's safe to rip on you.

It's brutal self-assessment, but see why she felt free to rip. She's your enemy now--they can teach you alot about yourself.

You may have to rip her back if you didn't after this little comment. Nasty business--this can escalate, and that would be unfortunate.

 

[MR_PERFECT]

I would say there is someone for everyone, but has anyone seen that guy David on Paradise Hotel with the "Man Boobs." David will never, ever, in this life time get a woman without paying her or drugging her.

 

[SimplyTheBest]

Allright , it is time for revenge.!!!

What can I do to punish them? Something like this?

Asked them out for a date and then stood them up.

Or maybe this, invite them out to an expensive restaurant with intention to give them free dinner. But then, as dinner starts, leave with the reason to washroom and then leave the place immediately making them pay for their food. How is this?
Someone recommended me this idea as I've read it in some other threads.! Nice one.

TesequeRed was right here. Probably they think that they are too good for me. But how am I going to lower their self esteem by doing the opposite such as acting like a Great Catch and that I am too good for them??

Does this sound good? How can I insult them back harshly to make bleed terribly? Somehow I want to make them go into great depression and make me part of their emotional baggage. I want them to suffer.!!!!!

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Re: Allright , it is time for revenge.!!!

Originally posted by SimplyTheBest
What can I do to punish them? Something like this?

Asked them out for a date and then stood them up.

Or maybe this, invite them out to an expensive restaurant with intention to give them free dinner. But then, as dinner starts, leave with the reason to washroom and then leave the place immediately making them pay for their food. How is this?
Someone recommended me this idea as I've read it in some other threads.! Nice one.

TesequeRed was right here. Probably they think that they are too good for me. But how am I going to lower their self esteem by doing the opposite such as acting like a Great Catch and that I am too good for them??

Does this sound good? How can I insult them back harshly to make bleed terribly? Somehow I want to make them go into great depression and make me part of their emotional baggage. I want them to suffer.!!!!!

Dude, forget about revenge, just walk away.

Remember, the opposite of love is not hate - it's indifference.

If you seek revenge it means you care too much about this person. Sure, a quick witty snide remark immediately is nice, but premeditated revenge? Fsck that.

Oscar.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Don't say anything. Just ignore her, do whatever you were doing. If you were reading a book, get back to it. If you were talking to her, look at her like shes a 10-year-old kid (she isn't, is she?) then just walk off.

It makes them feel really awkward. If they keep insulting you ("ooh look at the wussy boy running away") its even better, because they're only doing this to save face and end their extremely embarrassing situation.

 

[bp1974]

Dude, how many different usernames are you going to keep coming up with just to post another revenge thread?

*Don't feed the troll*

bp1974

 

[laydee1]

Find a new environment!

If they are the types who don't appreciate you - go look elsewhere. We're not all *****es, honest

But they sound like they are...Oscar and others are right - ignore them, laugh and walk away - if you try and get revenge, they will actually be pleased that they "got to you"....

Ignoring them is the only way to win! - any attention you give them - good or bad - is what they want - don't give it!

SHOW that you are better than them and don't need them or their stupid comments.

 

[DankNuggs]

Its a good topic, because the concept of one-itis dominates on this level as well.

ex. you go up to a hot chick, she calls you a loser and tells you to get lost. You probably turn some shade of red, get nervous, and leave

vs.

You go up to an ugly fat chick to say hello and make conversation, she calls you a loser and tells you to get lost, you'd probably have a comment for her and could ruin her and walk away with dignity...

My example in a bar, my buds were chatting to a few girls and I ended up saying hello to an UG who had a bakers dozen of rolls...I asked where she was from, and she responded "from my mother." I thought she was trying to be funny in a stupid dumb broad kind of way, so I chuckle and say "seriously, where are you from." She says it again in a real *****y way to me.

I then figure out this chick thinks shes hot 5hit, and is trying to clown me...Remembering she was ugly and fat, so I had enough ammunition to take out Saddam.

I respond:

*smiling devilishly*

"the child your carrying is also going to be from its mother, but where are you going to put the crib?"

That was the end of that conversation. But if I had thought she was real hot, i would have lowered my head in shame and left. So you have to train yourself to treat people equally regardless of attractiveness. Its the fight we all go through the become DJ's.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Grey Fox
Tell her "What makes you assume I would ever want to waste my attention on you."

Or

"You must be the token ***** your friends keep around so that they look that much better."

Or

"Thanks for the vote of confidence, have a good one." Smile and just walk away.

A three of these piss them off pretty good.

-Grey Fox

That's all good but I wouldn't waste the effort on these women. They obviously value form much higher than form or function. They are high maintenance and non-givers. In other words, a waste of time. They should just stare into a mirror and worship themselves since they are the only ones who have the ability to appreciate themselves in the manner in which they desire.