SimplyTheBest
Don Juan
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I am posting this the second time. The last time I wrote a post about perception, I got banned from this forum for two days.
This time, I am going to write it nicely and ask for people's opinion. You're seen crying in a movie, you see this as your sensitivity but your date sees it as a sign of weakness, now you've been misread and you'll pay for the price.
People generally don't care about your perception. How you see yourself will not be the same as how they see you? This is especially true when it comes to dealing with women.
You think of yourself as a "Great Catch", but your date sees you as an AFC. What are you going to do to make her see you as a Great Catch? I once got some feedbacks from women by acting like a great catch among some of them.
"This guy acts as if he is the best among all guys on earth that every girl doesn't deserve him. He even think that all beautiful women must respect him. He ain't good looking and sexy, he ain't Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt clones but he demands respect from all girls. He is even very discriminating that he only dates beautiful women. Who does he thinks he is? He is nothing but he thinks that he is the most important thing. I hate guys who acts like him and I can guarantee you that he won't go far with women " ---feedbacks from a few women.
Someone posted a thread called "Narcissism" before and it explained that people act in a narcisstic way to cover their own insecurities. There's another theory in psychology which is called "Superiority Complex". People develop it to mask their "Inferiority Complex" Hmm..........
This sounds like people who act like a Great Catch aren't great afterall cause they're being actors hiding their insecurities to mislead women to believe they are better. And most of the time, it doesn't work because women aren't that stupid. You think they're going to buy into your false image by acting like a Great Catch? NO!!!
So what to do to make women believe that we are the "Great Catch" since it ain't working the old way for me?
This time, I am going to write it nicely and ask for people's opinion. You're seen crying in a movie, you see this as your sensitivity but your date sees it as a sign of weakness, now you've been misread and you'll pay for the price.
People generally don't care about your perception. How you see yourself will not be the same as how they see you? This is especially true when it comes to dealing with women.
You think of yourself as a "Great Catch", but your date sees you as an AFC. What are you going to do to make her see you as a Great Catch? I once got some feedbacks from women by acting like a great catch among some of them.
"This guy acts as if he is the best among all guys on earth that every girl doesn't deserve him. He even think that all beautiful women must respect him. He ain't good looking and sexy, he ain't Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt clones but he demands respect from all girls. He is even very discriminating that he only dates beautiful women. Who does he thinks he is? He is nothing but he thinks that he is the most important thing. I hate guys who acts like him and I can guarantee you that he won't go far with women " ---feedbacks from a few women.
Someone posted a thread called "Narcissism" before and it explained that people act in a narcisstic way to cover their own insecurities. There's another theory in psychology which is called "Superiority Complex". People develop it to mask their "Inferiority Complex" Hmm..........
This sounds like people who act like a Great Catch aren't great afterall cause they're being actors hiding their insecurities to mislead women to believe they are better. And most of the time, it doesn't work because women aren't that stupid. You think they're going to buy into your false image by acting like a Great Catch? NO!!!
So what to do to make women believe that we are the "Great Catch" since it ain't working the old way for me?