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What should my target age group be? I am 28 and very averse to pursusing anyone under 25, since so many women in their early twenties are like teenagers.

I know this is asking for it, but I can't help but notice that the only women who have shown interest in me in the last ten years are just plain gross and badly need to attend fat camp. Inevitably, they end up sexually harassing me after I spurn their advances. All this got me thinking. 1...

What are the odds of someone in his late twenties finding a genuine hottie in the same age group who is NOT divorced and does NOT have rugrats crawling around? Is it me, or does it seem that most women in their late twenties, especially the hot ones, are all taken? It seems that the only ones...

You sound a lot like me. I'm 28, have no friends, have never been on a date, etc. I absolutely agree with you that making friends in adolescence is crucial because you meet friends through other friends. A lot of people in their late twenties are married or in relationships and don't seem to...

Thank you all. Can you name some activities I could realistically do? I currently don't have enough money to go very far or for very long.

I was wondering if anyone here has ever been in this situation and how they escaped it. I'm in my late twenties and haven't had any friends since I was a teenager. I have never had more than one or two friends at a time or for very long. "Aquaintance" might be a better word; I have never had...

For purposes of attracting women, how important is it that a man be outgoing (i.e., an alpha male who surfs, snowboards, motorcrosses, goes to upscale clubs, and so on)? Would women lose interest in a guy and dismiss him as a square once they discover he is introverted? Or would they remain...

So what does it mean if women never make eye contact with you? What should you do then?

Allright, so a guy needn't look for a girl to show interest in him before he approaches her or asks her out. But doesn't the absence of even a <i>minimal</i> sign usually mean she just isn't interested? For example, if she doesn't even notice you, isn't that a sign that she doesn't find you...

Should a guy ask a woman out if she hasn't signaled an interest in him? Or should a guy ask out only those women who have flirted with him in some way? Is it possible that many women just like to keep their cards close to their vest, expecting that guys will ask them out anyway? The reason I ask...

I've noticed guys at my work who spot a guy talking to a pretty girl will sometimes either butt into the conversation or try to embarass him. I take it these are just things guys do to eliminate the competition. I am usually not intimidated by such people, as they usually make themselves look...

Yes, I agree it is troubling that I don't have any friends at age 27. I really don't know what to do about that. People at work have rejected and excluded me for years. People don't want to be friends with someone who has no friends, so it's a catch-22. I feel completely isolated and...

Several weeks ago, I posted that I was a 27-year-old virgin who hasn't been on a date. Like I said before, I've read the DJ Bible and realized how badly I've screwed up with the opposite sex for most of my post-pubescent life. So please don't think I'm blaming it on God for my lack of success...

Well, yeah, she said the guy was "cute," but for crying out loud: the guy had absolutely no respect for her and probably has no respect for women in general.

I don't understand all this talk about not being able to stay hard. My problem is that I can't stay SOFT! I start to get hard as soon as I talk to a woman who I'm attracted to; sometimes I have to walk away before I poke her.

I recently overheard a very attractive woman talking about how she was sexually harassed at some club. While sitting at the bar, someone reached up her skirt and put his finger where he shouldn't have. When she turned around, she couldn't tell who the culprit was because the place was so...

If you're 4.5 inches flaccid, you're probably above average. A lot of guys seem worried about their weenie size, but I wonder if some guys are concerned about ball size, too. I definitely wouldn't recommend stretching exercises for your balls. As for porn stars, I would like to think...

Actually, I've been lifting weights for almost half my life now. My hormones are crazier than they were when I was in puberty. Virginity is going to turn me into a schizophrenic. As for women with kids, I would rather go out with someone who doesn't have them, but I am 27, and it seems a lot...

Thank you for the advice. But I'd like to know if you thought enough women will be turned off by a sexually anemic 27-year-old to justify my anxiety. I used to think virginity would be an asset for me because it would tell women that they could trust me to be different than the sedution artists...

I hope someone here can offer advice to a novice Don Juan. I'm 27 years old but haven't had a girlfriend, a date, or any kind of sexual relations. I ended up this way for the usual reasons: extreme shyness, lack of basic social skills, and no friends to help me out. The most I ever did was...