Search results

George Sodini probably wouldn't have gone on a killing spree if he had met me. He would've seen that he was way better off than me. The dude wrote that he had a girlfriend back in '84, scored between 50 and 75 times, was a computer programmer, and had siblings. I've never had a girlfriend, I've...

The job market for lawyers is definitely a joke unless you're in the top 10% of your class.

It's pretty obvious you don't know what a real man is.

People where I live are usually married by 28. They hang out with their married friends. I'm by myself all the time. It feels awkward being the only person in the living room who is not married. I would prefer to be by myself than be a third wheel. I think I could count the number of single...

30 years.

Thank you to everyone for the advice. I won't let my financial situation get in my way.

Sorry. I was vague about what kind of degree it was just to protect my privacy.

I've been attending a particular kind of grad school for the last couple of years. I'm now $100,000 in debt, and my job prospects are BLEAK. I've been reading about guys spending over half their (meager) paychecks just to pay off student loan debts. I went back to school so I could be...

A lot of women who approach men are desperate. A cougar once came up to me and asked me if my shoes were new. When I told her they were, she asked if she could step on them. This is no way to strike up a conversation with someone. But a woman who has gone years without a man and knows she has...

I won't use eHarmony again. A few years ago, I read that the site matches you with non-subscribers who you can't even communicate with. When I e-mailed eHarmony to demand a refund, they replied that they do indeed match people with non-subscribers, but only because they want you to feel the joy...

The guy above me might be right. I know an obese girl who posted on Craigslist. On the other hand, that's just anecdotal evidence.

What do you think of your matches so far? I used e-harmony for a while and, about 90% of my matches were at least 5'10" and obese.

It seems that women these days have done with it AT LEAST 15 guys. My problem with this behavior is the possibility that it's predictive. If a woman has done it with 15 guys, there's no telling where she'll stop.

Why in the world Nashville? Isn't that a really conservative town?

I'm thinking about moving next year. I have a lot of trouble meeting women.

Actually, I remember feeling disgusted with myself for thinking she was hot, so you might have a point. But I don't feel that way anymore. I think the last poster is right. I'm stuck in the past.

Yes, I'm angry at her for cutting off contact with me for no apparent reason. She always seemed to look up to me and always asked for my opinion, so I'm still surprised that she threw me under the bus. The explanations offered by the last two posters make sense to me: subconscious issues surface...

I keep having bad dreams about a girl I used to work with and would like to make them stop. I haven't seen this girl in two years and haven't spoken to her in one year. All the guys at work thought she was hot and used to ask me why I didn't ask her out. I didn't ask her out for two reasons...

The problem with my "league" is that the only women in it are fat and ugly!

The bottom line is, if you're not good-looking, you have to make up for it by having money or status, and if you don't have money or status, you have to make up for it by being good-looking - period. Otherwise, having all the DJ skills in the world won't save you. If you're a janitor, the DJ...