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If you're having to ask her to go out then you've obviously not got very far in the relationship. Have you kissed her or anything?

Well i don't even listen to my voicemails, i don't know how common that is. I'd give it a few days then give her a call but don't leave another voicemail, make sure you talk to them. Best thing to do is to call in the evening.

A girl not replying to an email within 3 hours shouldn't be setting off alarm bells, hopefully it just means she has a life. Wait it out and see, don't start making follow up emails until at least a few days after cause that's gonna make you seem a bit desperate :p Edit: Just read she was at...

No you don't. They were excellent, i think we can all learn a thing or five from them.

He must be a troll. There's no way someone can have 879 posts on this forum and have an interaction as poor as that.

Dude, you're a joke. So what if it's reactive? If they're not interested then you move on. By staying you're pretty much saying 'i've not got anyone else to talk to, even though it's clear you don't want me here'. Sure, it seems like you had a laugh after, although it seemed more like you...

Would you like or respect a girl that wrote a script for a date with the sole intention of manipulation? Probably not. I reckon she saw through it. Honestly, you've got to be yourself or not bother. If you don't think you're good enough then that's fine, this site has lots of great info...

Well by saying you'll take her home you're not exactly making things easier. Do you REALLY want to give it a raincheck?

See it's ironic. So many AFC's wonder why being all lovely doesn't get them anywhere. Well, it works both ways as you've proved..

I'd avoid 'trying' to do anything as that's being fake and it's easy to spot. Really the problem is nothing to do with your friends. It's to do with you. Work on building up your own confidence and forget about your insecurities. By working on yourself you'll get to the point where you...

You might as well ask how she likes her eggs in the morning if you're going down that road :up: As for the technique.. i don't know. If it works for you then that's cool, though i think would have quite a high failure rate for most people. Especially if it's for people who don't have much...

It could be that she's not a phone person, but it could be any number of other things too. She might have been busy/left it charging/had it on silent etc.

A tip for the future: If they say 'haha' and nothing else.. close the window, they're not interested.

From skimming through this post again i've come to a conclusion: elstud can't take criticism. We're pointing out where you went wrong to help YOU to IMPROVE. It's clear all of your approaches bombed, the first of which you're now saying 'wasn't really even an approach'. What's the point in...

How many flat girls do you know? Plenty i'm sure. Some people are 'blessed' whereas most people aren't. What's more important than anything is that you're comfortable with what you do have and you can use it as best you can. As long as you do that the girl's gonna be singing your praises, not...

Don't just tell yourself you're the prize. I don't think that will ever work. You've got to work from the ground up. Write out a list of all your 'bad' qualities, it might make you feel rough but it'll be a weight off your mind. Go through them one by one and work out what you can do to...

I'm going out in a sec so i gotta be real quick but: -if you've not read the DJ bible that'll give you a good start -i'm going to guess if you 'don't know' how to have fun you overthink/analyse a lot? try not to and you'll notice a big difference -you dont have to be dominant to amuse...

Yeah, chances are you'll be so busy making sure all those drunks aren't ****ing up your place you probably won't have much time with her. Better yet go out on a date that night and if things go well you've got an empty place to come home to :p

Well SAYING it's their loss to me would seem pretty rude. If you really were the higher value guy you wouldn't need to say it at all, you get what i mean?