Seeing as how i haven't developed my fulll "natural" talent

[thricerx7]

I recently realized that I had a case of one-itis. Normally I'm not this easy. I learned my lesson months ago back in the AFC days when I was dating my ex Chloe. Through her I met a girl named Nikki, her best friend. We got along but nothing major. When Chloe and I broke up, so did Nikki and I. It was a harsh breakup so hardly any words were ever spoken after this with Chloe.

Months later down the road I get a myspace message from Nikki apologizing for taking her friend's side when she knew that I was right.
(I will never admit to her saying it) to Chloe, but anyway Nikki and I had been talking for a little while after that. We were always flirtacious, but now it was on a whole new level.
This girl is a 9 if not a 10/10. She's changed a lot since then, and as have I.


To shorten the story, Nikki and I hung out one night and by using some ****y/funny towards her and telling her I wouldn't flatter her like all the other boys do, I literally had her say these words out of her mouth "Shut the fvck up and kiss me" and from there her and I hooked up.

We had always planned on going to get sushi, and so she said you call me next week when you're free and we'll go.
Sushi was supposed to be tonight, but I can't make it. I'm selling my car, and the buyer is flying in from California tonight. So unfortunately I had to tell her that I couldn't go out, and it was "business". I tried to work my best to get the car sold and gone and still go out to dinner, but I just couldn't work the time schedule.

My question is, I know that PUAs come armed with knowledge that AFC's dont. Last night I read a post on here from Senor Fingers called "Weapons of Mass Seduction" and read every chapter he's written. He's a genious if you haven't read his work.
In any which way, I decided to devise a script to use against this girl.
She has gone out with other guys since her and I went out and I started to lose touch with her. Finally I ended up talking with her, and just by using some rapport and psychological speech I "won" her over again, which felt good.
I know I'm different, she knows I'm different. Now I just need to show her.

I compared this girl to the cat/yarn analogy. She LOVES attention, when she finally gets that attention she gets bored of it.
So my plan for the night is build more ATTRACTION, ATTRACTION, then SEDUCE her making her panties so wet that she can't resist ME. the reason this is my goal is I am really actually proving something to myself (plus I want that ass). This was a girl I never thought I had a chance with back in the day and for a while recently, she was eating out of the palm of my hand. So I know this goal is possible.

the ultimate question is:
I built my script based on techniques I read from Juggler, Style, Mystery, and Senor Fingers with a bit of LTR to show her the "relaxation" exercises I'd been telling her about.
I planned out this whole evening, and by script I mean a play by play almost of what could happen.
How I can manipulate her into asking me the questions I want.

Ultimately I am opening her up to a side that she barely opens up to anyone.
I will dare her to skinny dip with me. Do something crazy. I want to see the side of this girl.
And if *best case scenario* we go skinny dipping and my hard c*ck finds its way into her lair, then mission complete.


Im not going to stick to the script the whole time obviously, I do have natural game as well. But is making this script almost cheating her to fvck me? Is it trying to hard? I said before this is my goal. This is my ex girlfriend's best friend. I want to show her what my ex never got.
Is that a justification?

I look forward to the follow up of this post, I'm sure you all do too.

 

[Tenzen]

ya boi, i'm in the same boat with a girl i hooked up with a few times. LMK how ur stuff goes through i might need some examples to see what i can do*.

 

[thricerx7]

The follow up is not a good one, sad to say.

We went to dinner. and I was building attraction and using most everything that I thought might work with this girl, and nothing.

She was focused on getting the power that night. She wanted me to tell her that I liked her.

But I didn't give up the power, which I can't figure out is a smart idea on my part.

She wasn't giving very many IOIs, or maybe she's just not obvious with it. Anyway it doesn't really matter because last night even though I had my game-plan, it kinda fell through and it seemed to be the most AFC night of my life.
A learning experience indeed.

Sadly, I do actually like this girl, and why I couldn't tell her that is still beyond me. I either should have taken the risk, and played her game or left before she had a chance to pin that on me.

Now she wont talk to me, and it makes sense, but it really doesn't. I wouldn't care so much if this wasnt the girl I had one-itis for and it was some random girl. but it's not.

Do I give it time, or do I tell her? Either way it's a risk but at this point I figure I don't know much else there is to lose....

Help fellow DJs.

 

[dav22]

Would you like or respect a girl that wrote a script for a date with the sole intention of manipulation? Probably not.

I reckon she saw through it.

Honestly, you've got to be yourself or not bother. If you don't think you're good enough then that's fine, this site has lots of great info for self improvement - that needs to be your main focus.

If you're having to resort to tricks and manipulation there's clearly things that you need to fix with yourself. Even if she did fall for the tricks she'd still see the real you eventually. In the long run you're much better off developing REAL confidence instead of papering over the cracks with tricks.

 

[thricerx7]

Would you like or respect a girl that wrote a script for a date with the sole intention of manipulation? Probably not.

I reckon she saw through it.

Honestly, you've got to be yourself or not bother. If you don't think you're good enough then that's fine, this site has lots of great info for self improvement - that needs to be your main focus.

If you're having to resort to tricks and manipulation there's clearly things that you need to fix with yourself. Even if she did fall for the tricks she'd still see the real you eventually. In the long run you're much better off developing REAL confidence instead of papering over the cracks with tricks.

true.

Mostly I didn't use the script. Honestly.
Plus you're making her out to be the good person here. She has just as many manipulation tricks, they're just already built in.

But you're right. I do realize that. Thanks for the advice.