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Screw settling for a walrus, that's what AFCs and Beta males are for. ;)

Average girls can be useful target practice, but they get no free pass from me; I treat them as they are. Until the day there are no more above average girls left, they don't make the grade for anything other than "lab rat" or "platonic friend" status. The Great Catch does not settle for stale...

I actually find Approach Anxiety useful to a degree. When I pushed it out of my mind totally, I found I didn't do as well, because there was no longer any pressure to succeed. When approaching became relaxed and easy, I just kept f--king it up and stumbling my words because I didn't care if...

Thanks for the great post Colin. :) No, I don't play an instrument, I'm too physically clumsy, and my only interest in music is listening to it.

You mean women actually have sex drives? :eek: I know this is not only a ridiculous misconception but also an impossibility, (the continued existence of out species rules it out) but I can't help but feel like sex is this fictional thing that serves as a plot device in books and movies and just...

I actually have read the DJ Bible, and Pook's stuff, but I feel as though something's missing, like knowing a story word for word but not comprehending its inner meaning. It just doesn't work for me, no matter what I try. No matter how much I convince myself I am the great catch and act like...

Just to clarify: - I am not on any medication for it, so it's not a ploy to sell me pills. - I trust the doctor who diagnosed me and find her very competent. - It's not just "oh, I'm socially awkward so I must be an Aspie," the diagnosis took into account everything from my relative...

With all due respect, I'm going to state right now that I firmly believe that Asperger's is a real condition. And for the record, I am not on any medication for it, (Though I am already taking meds for my OCD) so it's clearly not a ploy to get money out of me. My medical needs are bulk-billed...

This answers a lot of questions about my difficulty with realting to others, but I have no intention of letting it become an excuse for any lack of success on my part. As anyone else here with Asperger's become very successful with women in spite of it?

I'm not sure that any amount of sex skills or whatever could overcome the stupendous turn-off that is wrinkles, unfirmness, etc. I don't care how user-friendly a car is if it's got a ****ty engine. It's a curse of our species that women reach their sexual peak around the time they lose...

Not if you've got OCD, trust me. I've been there with the whole "too much work for too little payoff, why bother" mindset, but eventually I admitted to myself that this was Virgin Justification on my part, pure and simple. because that's all it was. I was kidding myself, and I wasted far too...

This is my first report, of my first ever "pick up"; I chatted online a female acquaintance and managed to secure her mobile number and a date 13 days from now. No, I'm not bragging, because I realise these are just the first baby steps, but I'm heartened by how easy it was, and how much I...

Not everyone, but in communities like university campuses, towns and suburbs word gets around, and lots of people know each other. Thanks for the advice Jitterbug and ****erdumbnuts. At present I've deferred university for year to get over my OCD, which means I'm in a town populated almost...

Firstly, a disclaimer; I am a virgin who has never dated, so I am speaking from observation of others, and I'm open to being told I am totally wrong. I hope I am, in fact. But in regards to having more than one sex partner, either at a time, or within a small time frame, there seems to be a...

I'm the same with kiss-and-beyond escalation, mostly because: A) I am working through OCD, and while I am improving close contact still terrifies me; compulsive thoughts of Meningacoccal hold me back from a kiss close. B) I haven't kissed someone on the mouth before, so I suspect on my...

Awesome stuff, I wish I could do that, and I hope to be able to, soon. My issue is it takes me too long to think this kind of stuff up, so an approach takes hours of brainstorming. Yes, I know, it's best to be spontaneous, but I'm a slow and meticulous thinker; I come up with the best ideas...

http://en.nothingisreal.com/wiki/Why_I_Will_Never_Have_a_Girlfriend What a seething mass of misdirected time/energy! :crackup:

Women need this like a whale needs a scuba tank. :crackup:

Women do indeed tend to be very insecure, but I don't think women have it anywhere near as rough as guys in today's society, at least in this area. The average woman can get sex far more easily than the average man in my view. I'd say more along the lines of "for every 5 horny guys...

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