Approach Anxiety is just Bullsh!t???

[OTB]

So I was listening to a very interesting podcast the other day.....

It was one of Player Supreme's Podcasts by the name of "F*ck Approach Anxiety"

In it, he basically said that the phenomenon known as "Approach Anxiety", is just pure bullsh!t and is mainly a result of many guys who are just too scared & don't actually have the balls to approach a beautiful woman....

I personally, am not an avid follower of Player Supreme & don't hang on to his every word (unlike many of the guys who find themselves being absorbed into his cult of personality)
But the thing that I do find admirable in him is his complete genuiness in his philosophy about women:

Total & utter AMOG -----> no bullsh!t attached!


Here's the link to his show:
http://www.pluggd.tv/audio/channels/playersupreme_s_podcast/episodes/4kr7w?play=1
The episode I am talking about is, as of now, the top link on his page (which is dated as Spetember 26 ----> 3 days ago)


I also know that he's an extremely controversial character / "dating guru" to many people on this site.....

I hope this post stirs up much discussion/debate on the validity of the Approach Anxiety affliction, but more importantly,
whether Player Supreme's philosophy in regards to women is a very good one to follow...

 

[rapidfire]

it is bull****. after you do it a couple of times its no big deal. it's like veryting else, the first few times are hard

 

[TheRealSupreme]

lol@cult like personality. I guess that is a compliment only the heads on my forum have independent minds and often disagree with me only to learn their lessons the hard way.

In fact I have almost given up on some folks on my site such as DJDan cause I realize they have to learn their own lessons the hard way.

So if I was a cult leader then why are they not following and why am I always having to go over shyt again and again to a bunch of hard headed knuckleheads?

Now after listening to my show you should be able to see the truth in what I am saying kid.

Its not that hard to figure out.

I know this is sosuave and many of you guys are really struggling with your game but when you listen to the truth you should be able to see it even in your conditions.

Simply put when you put her on a pedistal of hotness you lose your power before you even step over.

For nerds your minds get so riled up like catholic choir boys in the bishops private office that you can't even think straight and you create this bullshyt of approach anxiety.

Plain and simple.

As you will realize one day when you get out of your darkness.

 

[TheRealSupreme]

Oh what happened to real men these days? I dare any guy who claims to have approach anxiety to post his photo and we will see a nerd.

As I said on my show it's mainly nerds from the pua community who whine about this crap. Normal guys are busy out there getting women.

From my post on my forum since you didn't get my vocal message:


My point is that when your feeling this fear of a ho/girl before you approach her you have given her your power and you will subcommunicate this fear to her.

Women can smell fear on yo punk ass for doing that.

You have put her ass on that hotness pedestal before you have even began the game.

You lost before you even stepped out the gate!!!!!!!!

There is no such thing as approach anxiety. It is a created condition to mask NERDs fear.

And by having that fear you have put yourself into a lower class. Women are attracted to men who do not fear them. Who treat them like their beauty is NO big deal.

Symps will say that a realtionship isn't a power game. They have been programmed to think there should be equality in a relationship by the femnazi's out there.

But this is a power game. This is why I am getting my feet filed down while I am doing my shows as you heard in my recent show.

You need to realize that life is a power game also. You go to a job and you will see power games in play.

So giving a woman your power before you even begin by getting fearful of her and having to get up the courage just to open ya mouth to her destroys your game.

The moment you freak out over her hotness YOU LOSE!

Period.

As I said in the show what if this fine ho's ass stunk? What if you smelled her ***** and it smelled like fish? What if her arm pits stank or she had ho breath from sucking dyck?

And you put this on a pedestal and got all fearful before you even stepped over????

What kind of total FOOL does this to himself? Destroy's his game before it even begins?

You need to adopt my attitude of what can this woman bring to MY table? This is why I quit paying for dates.

Once I made that shift the world changed with me. Women treated me different. Learning the pimp game helped me wake up to the truth.

That truth is when you change your attitude they will change with you. You will no longer have the body language of a begger but instead of a master.

When you adopt the frame as those pua fools call it then the women will bend into that state with you.

So what am I saying?

DO NOT PUT A WOMAN ON A FvCKING PEDeSTAL OF HOTNESS....

PERIOD!

DO NOT BLAST OUT THINKING OHHHHH BUT SHE IS DIFFERENT AND SHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND I FEEEEELLL SOMETHING FOR HER...AND YOUR WRONG SUPREME...

FvCK!

Get a clue. You do that and you lose the game!

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If you still can't understand it then there just isn't any hope for ya.

 

[Jitterbug]

As I said on my show it's mainly nerds from the pua community who whine about this crap. Normal guys are busy out there getting women.

Oh come on now... I know this is all positive pep talk but AA is very real for the majority of males, most knowing nothing about the PUA community (the PUA folks just happen to have a name for it). I don't know which world you're living in but most "normal" guys have plenty of anxiety & problems with approaching women. Every guy here who's ever done a cold approach will know that he's among a tiny minority who have the balls to do it (can observe with his own eyes). Most just stick to their own group when going out, and only after being injected with much dutch courage (i.e alcohol) they'd try to approach.

 

[Aragon034]

Whether it's a condition, a made up justification, or simple lack of cojones, it's there.

Social skill comes MAJORLY into play. OF COURSE nerds are going to have reservations about approaching a random hot chick. WHAT IS HE GONNA SAY?

"Looking at you i sincerely hope that you are no exception to Rule 34."

See what i mean? very few people will get what i just said. (and i'm even a little disturbed i know about it. Encyclopedia Dramatica for you i guess.)

Some guys will say "He just needs to say Hi" and go from there, but my point is WHERE IS THERE?

I know where there is, it's a conversation about daily events, some common interests, blah blah blah.... but what common interest does a nerd have with a hot HB?

"I assume you injest nutrients on a daily basis, perhaps we could share them at the same time and place?"

as strange as it might sound, i think guys with "AA" should actually forget trying to talk to JUST girls, and start to talk to everybody minus nerds. This builds social skills outside his peculiar interests which allow them to carry on a conversation with anybody without fear.

because that's what it is in the end, Fear. Fear of rejection, of ridicule, of failure. All the things people are afraid of.

 

[Maxwell]

I actually find Approach Anxiety useful to a degree.

When I pushed it out of my mind totally, I found I didn't do as well, because there was no longer any pressure to succeed.
When approaching became relaxed and easy, I just kept f--king it up and stumbling my words because I didn't care if I failed. A small dose of anxiety helped keep me sharp and gave me incentive not to screw it up. I did better when there was the fear of failure to motivate me.

 

[OTB]

lol@cult like personality. I guess that is a compliment only the heads on my forum have independent minds and often disagree with me only to learn their lessons the hard way.

Actually Supreme, that was a compliment

And I can only imagine the kind of bullsh!t that they'll experience once they start ignoring your advice & start going back to their previous AFC ways... :crackup:

In fact I have almost given up on some folks on my site such as DJDan cause I realize they have to learn their own lessons the hard way.

So how many actual Seduction Community forums are you on?!

I saw you arguing with some of the Moderators at the PUA forum: http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/player-supreme-vt1293.html Mad funny!

Back to the topic of some of your "students,"..... Why do they still spend time on your site if they express no desire to improve whatsoever?

So if I was a cult leader then why are they not following and why am I always having to go over shyt again and again to a bunch of hard headed knuckleheads?

Now after listening to my show you should be able to see the truth in what I am saying kid.

Its not that hard to figure out.

I know this is sosuave and many of you guys are really struggling with your game but when you listen to the truth you should be able to see it even in your conditions.

Who said I wasn't already learning the truth?

And what exactly do you mean by "your conditions???"

Simply put when you put her on a pedistal of hotness you lose your power before you even step over.

Plain and simple.

Don't worry ----> Already past that part :yes:

For nerds your minds get so riled up like catholic choir boys in the bishops private office that you can't even think straight and you create this bullshyt of approach anxiety.

Always loved the Catholic Choir boy analogies!

 

[TheRealSupreme]

How many forums..let's see at this time I believe it's 2. Here and fastseduction.

As for your condition...your a kid... in high school...you want to lay women but your here on a internet forum trying to figure out how..while other guys in your school are banging left and right your up here answering posts instead of talking to girls in your spare time.

good luck to ya feller.

 

[OTB]

How many forums..let's see at this time I believe it's 2. Here and fastseduction.

As for your condition...your a kid... in high school...you want to lay women but your here on a internet forum trying to figure out how..while other guys in your school are banging left and right your up here answering posts instead of talking to girls in your spare time.

good luck to ya feller.

True that PlayerSupreme, guess I gotta manage my time much more wisely if I actually wanna get laid...


On a side note, did you stop making episodes of your show?
I'm asking cause I was one of the websites which host your podcasts, and the last episodes were from September...