What shortage of women?? Last I checked there were roughly 1.5 billion of them.
Any guy that settles for a girl that he isn't really attracted to, isn't really a man in my books.
If you want to use the apparent shortage of women to justify your less than spectacular sex life, then that's no skin off my back.
DonGorgon, If you really wanted to be a successful DJ then you'd better start holding yourself accountable for the choices you make. But if you're happy with average, then that's just fine too.