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Wow... ok guys. Timeout. BE FVCKING BETTER. I'm really dismayed at the the terrible conclusions that have been leapt to, the selfishness being displayed here, the misogyny, the instinct you all have to blame the victim. Seriously, you guys are acting like terrible people, you should be...

How would you feel? What would you do? I amicably split from a girl I had dated for ~6 months perhaps a year ago. I have nothing but good wishes for this girl, stayed in contact and continued to be friendly and talk with her after we ended. She's been in relationships with two guys...

Thanks for the responses. I hear what you guys are saying about keeping it brief at work and letting any unfolding occur outside the job. That's basically how it's been going. And yea, I totally agree on the latter comments about harassment. It's only harassment if it's unwanted. And...

I appreciate your responding. You missed the part however, about how I'm treating my going for this girl as a given. Considering that, I'd value any further relevant comments. Intrigued, I took a look at your past posts, and couldn't find anything wasn't both insulting AND riddled with...

Ok, so normally I don't have too much of a problem making a move for a kiss or more on the first date, or definitely by the second. But... I'm treading kinda cautiously with this girl I know from work. We both started at the identical time about a month ago, do the exact same job, and work...

This is a ****ty situation. If your GF was really into then you wouldn't be faced with having to take one of three bad options. 1) You tell her you're not ok with her seeing this guy. You come of as insecure, weak and controlling. 2) You let her go and see this guy. When people think...

I guess I've sorta had your problem. I don't know where I stand girth wise, I think I'm about average, but I'm pretty long I guess at over 7". I've only ever had sex with four girls. One of the girls was pretty small inside, and she used to make these horrible wincing expressions with her...

"Why regret "the one that got away?" Does it really serve you or does it take away from you experiencing the present?" This is a great line. Similarly, I come by here every so often, and am rarely compelled to post... but I had to say that this is a great post, and one of the best, most...

To answer the question: I have no idea. I've never understood this rule, but admit that I hear it preached everywhere. Personally, I always feel more comfortable escalating with a girl once she knows that I'm attracted to her, and verbalizing it simply to her, even at a first meeting, has...

You're holding out because of concern over things potentially spiraling out of control if you do hit it. But think of it this way: You're already stuck. If she want's you bad, which is certainly seems, and you don't give it to her and try and get with some other girl, then things will get...

Boston.

So I went to work today with my father to help out in his office and make some paper. This meant getting up and going in with him at 7AM, which is outrageously early for me... but such is life. I learn that we're going straight from work at like 6:30PM to this huge art gallery opening (actually...

Just to add: It's interesting how if you spend extended time away from some person that you end back up with, you feel much less bad and bitter (perhaps not bad at all) toward this person if you are with (read: having sex) other people while you were apart. It helps to feel like the score is...

That's nice and all, but the danger here is that you use the knowledge that she may or may not be interested in you when she comes back from college as an excuse to sit around and act complacently in the meantime. Don't get fixated on her and just sit on your hands until she comes back. You...

I read the full article. I get the article, and I understand it's truth. I know that men are supposed to be the powerful and dominant, and that that's where a lot of the attraction from a woman comes from. But these women are those that plead for equality. And then they present men with...

I don't think she's cheating. There's no reason for anyone to jump to that conclusion and unduly worry this guy. Listen, I think you should just bring it up with her. There's no harm. Have you ever talked about why it's not as frequent? You might want to talk to her about switching things...

For a short period of time a few years ago I when I first got a fb page and was new to the whole online social networking thing I thought that it might be a good idea to try and pick up women through it. Wrong. Go ahead and friend, poke, or message anybody you want. It won't materialize into...

Thanks guys for the responses and pretty much telling me what I need to hear. To clarify: Yea, I did express that I wanted her back, and she said that she wanted to be in a relationship with me when I came back. I guess I'm just butt hurt about about the thought of her being with other guys...

It could also be that you're just not very into any of these new girls on a personal level. It seems to me that some of these physical hang-ups that you have with these girls wouldn't be such a big deal if you were just more attracted by their personality. I've never dated a 10, and I could...

Here's the ish: This girl and I dated for over a year after having been basically best friends prior to that. I knew she had always wanted me, and I gave into the relationship. She was two years younger than myself, and we were in college together on the west coast. While I was with her I...