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    Man, I need new friends.

    You'll only stick out like a soar thumb if you allow yourself to. Make it a goal to walk in, browse the place a take a lap around just to soak up the surroundings. Then find the closest group of people either guys or girls and join in the conversation. Most people won't give you a hard time...
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    With her mom

    Just make damn sure it is her mom or someone of appropiate age. The worst would be making her friend or cousin feel old because you think of her 10 years older then she is :)
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    second chance?

    NEEEEEEEEEXT The difference between an AFC and DJ is an AFC hangs on to everything he can while a DJ is more then willing to move on. Be a true DJ!
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    Women hate "Nice Guys"! Here's Proof!

    This weekend I completely shattered my AFC shell with a passion as I was unhappy with my social life and wanted more new interactions with new people. So I went out with a buddy this past Sunday and ended up asking 2 girls for their numbers and succeeded to a point I didn't even expect. I...
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    Man, I need new friends.

    Join the club man. I have been dealing with this for too many months to remember. Either I have loyal geeky friends who only share one or two common interests or cool friends that are as flakey as women. I've been trying like crazy to make my AFC geek friends atleast TRY going to the...
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    Drinking

    I had 4 shots of everclear at once. Talk about it hitting you like a wrecking ball at once :) I was good the entire evening. Usually though i prefer anything with vodka
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    If you're starting a bootcamp now (come here)

    I've been reading through some of these posts and you guys definately have your heads in the right place, but I'm noticing a bit of a problem. Some of you are on the 10th day of the first week and last i checked there are only 7 days in a week :) I'm also noticing that days where you block out...
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    Alright, what the hell is "You're tall?" lol

    LOL good one. I usually just get on my knees. I'm 6'9" and I get that all the time. I use to hate it, but a business associate was telling me how I need to take advantage of it. When I walk into a room everyone notices. I need to expel my confidence and enjoy the attention and not get...
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    Fear of cold pickups worsened after today

    I have to agree with everyone else. A true DJ takes the situation with stride reguardless of outcome. I've been to dance clubs watching guys I believed to be losers hit on every girl on the floor. They would be brutally denied time and time again and my AFC self thought he was stupider then I...
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    Boot Camp week 1 (Response thread)

    I'm close to getting out of an 18 month relationship and am definately rusty on my DJism. I agree with everyone that you have to force yourself smile and say hi, but after a few times it's clockwork. This was a week ago before I started the camp, but I thought I'd share. I was at a...
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    She surpised me with a tattoo!

    "Babe, I'm not really hot about the idea of a tattoo, but it's your body and you can do what you want. If by chance you decide for some strange reason you have to have one on a complete impulse without telling me, please don't put it on your forehead, face or neck." I don't think I should...
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    She surpised me with a tattoo!

    No she isn't Japanese and ya she is overly trendy, eg a brand w-h-o-r-e. It's small, and yes it looks fine, but it's on her damn neck. She didn't care what I thought, which is what gets me the most. Does she consider that I might now feel uncomfortable taking her to my formal business...
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    She surpised me with a tattoo!

    I agree. I don't own her and ifshe told me it meant this much to her I would have been cool with it. But that's because I could have told her I hate the idea of it on her neck, or something else. Then she could have compromised and got it elsewhere or outright ignored me. But instead she...
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    MY loss of IL

    I hear ya. The thrill of the hunt. Once you've got her that thrill is lessened. See I lose interest right after the infatuation wears off. That averages out to be 2-3 months max.
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    She surpised me with a tattoo!

    Need some advice guys. I have a girlfriend who has always been curious about getting various piercings and tattoos, but stuck with just a few piercings. After we met she wanted to get her belly button pierced and convinced me to go with her. I wasn't too hot about the idea, but I wasn't...
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    How accurate is www.mybodycomp.com???

    I'm sorry but that site isn't accurate at all. I'm 6'9" tall and 194lbs and it seems to think i'm at 25.6% body fat. Even the terrible accuracy of my scale seems to be more realistic at 12.7%
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    Portland Oregon

    Hey Stormwriter, I'm in the same boat. Most of my friends are either not intrested in women or atleast leaving the comfort zones of their XBoxes or they fall for the first girl that they find. I'm almost 22 and currently am currently in a long term relationship so unless...
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    My girlfriend asked me this..

    My girlfriend will call my friend gay or suggest their actions are to ruffle their feather and get them to do what she wants. One of my friends was deciding to go play basketball or go swimming with us and she says, if you choose sweaty guys over girls in bikinis i'll be more then willing to...
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    Shaving Legs

    I hate excessive hair and especially hate tons of leg hair so I shave mine every week or two just so the hair isn't long. I can attest that most women will be suprised and more often plesantly. My girlfriend goes nuts when she notices that their smooth and wants to take me to the bedroom and...
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    i love you

    I've been dating a girl for 14 months and have yet to tell her I love her even when i hear it multiple times a day. I honestly don't know how I should feel before saying it thus it has remained unsaid.
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