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Would you suggest a course in comprehension skills or composition skills?

Update. First. Thanks for the suggestions. Second, I just stayed quiet for the whole week. It was the hardest thing for me to do. I think I’m catching some feels from this lady. I had myself convinced more than once that I needed to send some needy pursuing text, but I stuck to what I’ve been...

In other words... You and other real men are the victims of weak men. Is that what you’re saying?

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I wanted to list the books I've listened to or read recently that have helped me with dating. Feel free to add to the list. Knowledge is power. Don't forget that we need to practice this stuff, not just read about it. No More Mr Nice Guy - Robert Glover Dating Essentials for Men - Robert...

I did a cold approach at a place with live music the other day and would have totally fallen into that nervousness. Luckilly I was there with a group of friends to get dinner, so I was able to say that I had to get back to my friends but asked for a phone number. It worked and I got a date out...

There's something I learned from hanging out in the recovery community for the past few years. You cannot help someone who does not want to be helped. Look at the stories of the people in here who have become red pilled. Without exception, we have all had some rock bottom moment where we have...

I take full responsibility for what happened. Act like a beta, get treated like a beta. I have no resentment against this woman, she treated me exactly as I asked to be treated. When I woke up a bit and wanted something different, she had no responsibility to change a scenario that I put in motion.

Maybe you have had to be one to understand. I have this horrible memory less than a year ago about sleeping in the same bed with a woman who said "no sex" and accepting it. Leading up to this I had done all sorts of things for her, put up a security camera, donated money to her charitable cause...

This is brilliant

No good deed goes unpunished

This plate lives 100+ miles away. She was near me on an afternoon OLD date with another dude and stopped by afterward (no she didn't bang him). I convinced her to stay the night and bang, we had a great time together. I believe this is a no-no but we have each talked about our other's dates...

This is an unfair, untrue characterization of AA. AA traditions and literature clearly state that they have no monopoly on recovery. They do not oppose anyone and cooperate with scientific, medical and religious societies. Is AA a little cultish? Sure. However it lacks one major characteristic...

What is your definition of "recovery movement industry"? Detox facilities? 30 day Rehab programs? Sober living houses? 12 step groups? Why should we believe you? You seem to imply that it's quite simple and easy to just quit drinking for anyone. In my personal experience, this was not the...

I like what Tony Robbins says. “Repetition is the mother of skill”. I have never gotten good at anything in my life without repeated practice, along with many failures along the way. That’s what dating is for me right now. Keep putting myself out there. Sometimes I win, sometimes I screw up but...

It will totally mater, but you will get better each time you try. You will be totally anxious and screw it up, but you will have done it. The next time, your anxiety will be less. The first time you go to the gym, you aren't going to bench 300 lbs. The guys who can do that have gone to the...

I was in my 50s and could not use my second hand to count women I had been intimate with. I had no idea how to date, what to do, what to say to them. I didn't understand why I was getting friendzoned. I didn't know how to look for signs of attraction. I had no idea of the nature of women, only...

My whole life changed for the better when I stopped drinking. I was unable to stop by myself and had to get help. The first year sober was a real sheet show, but I got through it and looking back, it was the best thing I ever did for myself. I and the people I hang out with try to be helpful for...

I don’t disagree with anything you wrote in principle, however your reasoning seems to be very black or white. Starting a business is dangerous. Climbing mountains is dangerous. Starting ones own business has been the financial ruin of many men and nobody has ever died falling off a mountain...

I’m rather new here but notice the same thing as the OP. I’m listening to Corey Wayne audiobook and he asked us to write down what we want in a relationship. If I want a committed monogamous relationship, I’d seems that entirely avoiding attachment is not a very fulfilling way to accomplish...