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I'm also in the beginning stages of a LDR and have zero experience. Thanks for posting those tips.

Smoking is on my dealbreaker list. That being said, I smoked for over 20 years, hand rollies, no filters. Quitting was one of the hardest things I ever did. I just could not leave them alone. I finally used Wellbutrin to get off them. I started again twice and finally put them down, hopefully...

This makes a lot of sense. Thanks for taking time to explain. She's warmed up considerably since the OP. I'm now getting daily texts and phone calls. The way this is beginning to play out looks like it might be 3 weekends a month, her coming here 2 and me going there 1. This is actually a...

When I met my ex wife, I had a bankruptcy, an old pickup and an idea that I could start my own business. We used her waitress tax return to get a FHA loan on a cheap house. Neither one of us had any assets at all. We made a good team, she went to school and got a teaching degree, I grew my...

I hear you. I’m really new at this. As much as I appreciate the experience and advice of other men, in some cases, I’ve got to go with what feels right for me and aligns with my principles. The most valuable lessons I’ve learned have been though mistakes I’ve made and if I’m not screwing up...

I read somewhere recently that the type of people in red pill communities tend to be more libertarian and maybe more politically conservative than your average person. That’s where I find myself. And my answer is no, until I am forced to in order to travel or participate in the economy. I also...

Okay. I’m working a pretty good internal game. I’m eating right, excercising. I own my own business and love my job. I have money in the bank. I have a support group of friends that I see on a regular basis. I have close male friends. I’m back in therapy. I spend time every morning reading...

That is quite possible. Just curious. What’s your definition of “end badly”?

Ok I’ll bite. What did you come here to learn? And what about this place has kept you coming back?

She just left here after a 36 hour date. I can’t spend that much time with someone without getting a little emotionally involved. She’s turned off all her swipe apps but still gets text messages from a couple orbiters. Being mysterious and aloof at this point goes completely against all my...

Tell me where this is so I can remember never to go there.

What if you could find a way to take her to dinner AND maintain frame?

Thanks for sharing that with us man. I’ve been considering lately whether or not i have the personality type that can successfully spin plates. It’s helpful to know that even experienced players can catch the feelz and that maybe that’s part of the game. It also reminds me that like attracts...

Thank you for this balanced and reasonable post. Some days I read in here and get a little discouraged about what type of man I’m going to be if I really take off and run with what is written. The attitude and principles you espouse here resonate with me.

Just curious. How old are you?

Why do you say that? All these guys are trying to sell books, but it doesn’t make the information wrong.

My biggest tip. Get tons of pain and suffering from being repeatedly friend zoned so you’ll be willing to change. I was very afraid to escalate with women. I thought only a creep would just kiss a woman without asking. I thought she had to make the first, second and third move because I was a...

There is so much information out there about the difference in behavior between low interest and high interest women. People in here telling you not to pursue low interest women. It’s a waste of time and never bears fruit. It seems like you want to argue with those whose experience could help...

Actually you make a good point regardless of my age. It’s something I’ll stay aware of. 100 miles between us makes a successful LTR almost impossible anyway. If she is telling the truth I’m the only one she’s banged since we met and we didn’t bang till the third date. She did tell the hiking...