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T Turns out she wasn’t super comfortable with it, so we passed. I got a few Snapchat pics and that was fun though. Maybe something like this would work if it evolved organically but as a planned out thing, it seemed kinda forced in this case.

Careful boys... https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/style/modern-love-to-fall-in-love-with-anyone-do-this.html

I just went through something similar. Mind you I have an experience count of one in this department. Basically, she kept telling me that she was canceling her OLD accounts and was happy to be off the dating sites and only seeing me. After a while if this I told her that’s what I was doing as...

I’m doing this LDR thing and we’re going to be two weeks away from each other. I like exploring new things and got my lady to agree to try FaceTime “sex” tonight. However, we grew up in the era of the rotary phone lol. Anyone got real life tips on how to do this where it’s fun and hot for both...

My only experience like this was that when I actively tried to move myself out of the friend zone and into the “romance” zone, it made the woman quite angry that I was no longer willing to do a friends only relationship. I didn’t have the benefit of the advice from folks in this forum or I might...

Like Derby, I’m in 12 step recovery from drugs and alcohol. I can definitely relate to your experience. There was a period in my 30s where I was getting laid regularly and fapped to porn daily. Some folks can moderate their addictions, others need to abstain entirely. Once I began to get my...

Took me 7 years post divorce to get where you are at. However, I was hobbled most of that time by blue pill programming. I eventually learned the mechanics of attraction and began to get laid but soon after that, I sat down and asked myself what I wanted. Turns out, I didn’t want to endlessly...

There's a chapter in "The Way of the Superior Man" about this. I also seem to remember similar advice from Corey Wayne. I'm summarizing (perhaps badly) here but as I remember it, try and get her to talk about it, over and over if necessary. The difficult part is not getting angry or running...

The man committed to self improvement will always look at his own shortcomings in these situations. He will evaluate what he did to lower the females attraction, take responsibility, and take steps to improve in the future. The lazy, short sighted man will blame the female rather than recognize...

I believe your comparison of this place to a hospital is uncannily accurate. It explains why the people who were active years ago no longer frequent the site. They got better, grew up, and moved on. I love the part of your story where you have given back to this community. In any organization...

You come in here with cactus spines in your ass. The friendly helpful members of this forum suggest to not wipe your ass with a cactus. Your reply is that you didn’t have any toilet paper so a cactus was your only option. If you’re not trolling, you’re certainly not very willing to listen to...

It seems to me that many folks here have a definition of a Don Juan that is a man who seeks physical intimacy with women while avoiding emotional intimacy at all costs. A “Charlie Sheen” character if you will. I’m listening to “Way of the Superior Man” again. I’m also in therapy, and in the...

This is f-ing brilliant.

I had experiences with two women just before I began to learn about red pill. In both cases, I approached in a friendly way, hanging out, with no idea about how or when to escalate and no idea on how to look for signs of attraction. I tried to change my behavior with both these women after a...

You got a bed in that thing? :)

Do everything above exactly as he has suggested, it’s spot-on advice for the situation you are in.

You know the difference between a porcupine and a Mustang? . . . A porcupine has its pricks on the outside :rofl:

Let me see if I understand this. You think that double texting her your explicit message of “done with communicating until...” is a better way to get your point across than an implicit message of silence and distance at the first sign of low interest.

I’m pretty new at this so take it for what it’s worth...Double texting always comes across as needy. You just did it twice with this girl. Text once, if no reply, she is low interest. Move along. If she suddenly becomes high interest after a week of silence, then take her on a date. Pursuing...

<raises hand> I am in this category, and I've received a lot of help in here. Discussion forums will always be like this. I remember back in the early 90's on the usenet, before there were internet forums. There was always a bunch of fighting, name calling, and trolling going on. The signal to...