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I own a small company. Only 4 employees. As an owner, it's really hard to get good motivated qualified employees that will stick around. I've never had someone come in here and pester me for a job. If they did, I'd almost certainly hire them even if I didn't need a employee. If I really wanted...

And paraplegics can play basketball.

Addiction to drugs and alcohol devastates the lives of everyone in relationship with the addict. BTDT

Damn. Every time I quit and thought I could have just one, I was right back to my old level within a week. For me, nicotine equals slavery, I can’t mess around with it, abstinence is the only way I can stay free.

had a date show up in these yesterday

I have a weird theory. If you live in northern or southern latitudes, the equinoxes are when the days are most rapidly changing from long>short or vice versa. The days are mostly the same length during the solstices. I often find that my sleep patterns are more disturbed around the equinox, and...

Nothing wrong with talking to women and screening them for LTR possibility. However, the only reason to text or call a woman should be to set up an in person date. You do your screening in person. I learned this the hard way. I got in touch with this old high school friend. We started...

Are you going on dates with these girls or just assessing their conversational ability from messages?

You guys are ball busters :)

I changed my tone, got a text this morning and have a coffee date tomorrow. I think I lost frame in the reply but got the date. Every interaction I’ve had with this woman indicates she’s going to try and control the frame and I am going to have to be constantly vigilant to set the tone and take...

Thanks for the replies. I definitely feel a little out of balance. I’m not trying to justify or condone my behavior but I feel a major shift on my outlook on life, women and dating has occurred just in the past 90 days and maybe it’s natural to swing to the extreme before finding a balance...

That’s rough. I was dating a massage therapist a while back. She friend zoned me before we banged. Anyway I called her up and had this trip to Mexico planned with her. As soon as I made my romantic intentions clear, she got super angry, shamed me for having sexual desire towards her and blocked...

Ooh. Might be right about that. Thanks for checking me.

Man I’ve learned a lot in three months. Last year this woman would have been dragging me around by the nose. Now if a woman doesn’t want to follow my lead, she’s not going to get much attention.

So I've got this plate that lives 3 hours away. By "plate", I mean we smashed once a few weeks ago. Yesterday I find out she drove over 100 miles to my small town to go on a "date" and didn't contact me, despite me inviting her more than once. Our communications have been 7-10 days apart. I...

This has been my experience as well. I’m going about 17 hours per day no food, it’s been almost a year now. Don’t count calories, don’t sweat it if I eat socially outside my normal window, and I’m at my goal weight. The thing about this way of eating is it’s ridiculously simple. No calories to...

One of my first awakenings was reading Robert Glover and he said don’t ask a woman for her phone number, tell her to give it to you. My first thought was WTF? That’s rude, it will never work. I tried it two weeks later and got a woman’s phone number, the first one in years. Since then I’ve...

I was just wondering this morning what happened to all the people who used to post here 10-12 years ago. Thanks for the update!

Flavored sparkling water has become quite popular lately. It’s fizzy and comes in 12 oz cans, might be a good substitute for you. I still drink about 12 a week.

I meant no disrespect. I actually pay close attention to what you post in here and think you give a valuable perspective. And since I have almost zero experience in this particular situation, I'm trying to remain open minded.