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Great stuff, Blue Phoenix. All true. For years I've been reading books and listening to various CDs and whatnot, that say this. Some people, I think it's just ingrained in them, and other people need to be reminded over and over. I fit into the second category. I have good self-esteem...

Wow. I realize that if I want to have sex with her, we need to actually be in the same place. I get that. What I'm referring to is the fact that I'm not sure what's going on in her mind regarding sex. I don't doubt that I can hit it, but I'm looking for suggestions about how to smooth out...

Here is an old thread I started, "Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde", about my experience with trying the "jerk" thing. It produced amazing results. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16101 I should point out that one thing I found was that if you're not really a jerk, then acting like...

Kailex: I won't be deterred. I understand that you might think I'm a chump with oneitis, I haven't been on this site for like eight years. But for the record, I never put all my eggs in one basket. Just because I write a post concerning one girl, doesn't mean she's all I'm focusing on. Straw...

Hey, don't be a jerk. Seriously. You don't impress me. Yeah, there's pu$$y here, I work that angle too. If you can't respond to my question, don't respond at all. I'm not an AFC, I've gotten plenty of pu$$y, but I'm having a rough patch and I'm trying to get over it. Nobody on this site needs...

I met a girl online, she lives in another state, we haven't met face-to-face yet. From her pictures, she is definitely a solid 8 or 9 (on my scale, at least). I can't imagine her having problems meeting men, but she says she is tired of meeting men who just want to get in her pants, and she...

What's more valuable than pu$$y? Let's see... Diamonds, gold, Action Comics #1, giant squids, incorruptible politicians, The Lost Catacombs of Egypt (only God knows where they stuck it), Elvis's Sun recordings, the Northern Lights, fossils, and the Yellow-Bellied Sapsucker. What do all these...

I totally disagree with that, Ease. That all depends on how much of your self-worth is wrapped up in getting laid. For awhile there, I was doing fantastic in that regard, and I plan to be there again, but I believe true self-esteem comes from knowing you're contributing something of value to the...

So I'm in this play with three women. One is maybe an 8 but thinks she's a 10, one is about a 7 and probably thinks she's a 5, and one is about a 6 and most likely doesn't care. The 6 is the coolest, but married. The 7 is the timid, fragile type, but seems unattached. And the 8 is the prissy...

Ster, it looks to me like you have exactly the right attitude. You're throwing sh!t at the wall and seeing what sticks. This is how you learn. This is what I believe this forum is for. When I started coming on here eight years ago, I was trying to figure out what I was doing wrong, and trying to...

Oh, I think that if she had any interest in you, at least at first, then she probably was punishing you. I don't think she thought of it as punishment, but if you gave her even slightly too little attention, it probably pissed her off big time. There's a fine line there, between too little...

I do things I'm good at. Art, for instance. It's impossible to wound my ego where that is concerned. I am not in competition with anyone, I just do it because I love it, and if other people don't like it, I absolutely do not care. I think it's essential to have something in your life that...

Just wanted to report that things hadn't changed too much for quite awhile. But then yesterday I was on here looking at some of my posts from yesteryear, and some of the DJ stuff I had been doing in my previous life started coming back to me. So I went to rehearsal last night for this play I'm...

I'll give you my answer, just because you really seem to need one. No, not all DJs have passion. Of course, that depends on what you mean by "DJ". If you mean someone who posts on this forum, then no, definitely not. If you mean a guy who gets laid a lot, again, I'd say no. Some guys just grew...

Hey Fonzie, I loved the points you made, especially #5. I would add Never get jealous. It really frees you to be more relaxed. But "Fake it till you make it" doesn't mean you lie to a chick. It means act the way you want to be until you are that way. So for example, if you want to be...

I think a little clarification is needed. Here's my interpretation: I heard once that women can see through all that chest puffing, so I got in the habit of just being natural. The problem is, when "being natural" means that you walk slumped over with your chest tucked in, looking down all...

That Sinn guy said if he was talking to a woman, he would say something like, "If there weren't all these people around, I'd bend you over that table and have my way with you right now." He says this is a great line because it tells her she's safe and you're only playing because there are in...

I liked what DonJuan11 said. You have to just work on yourself. I know people say that all the time, but it's so true. Even if you do get laid like crazy, that's not going to keep you happy if that's all there is. Go out there and think about how you can serve the world. What do you have to...

She said she had a boyfriend because she wanted to see if you had the balls to go after her anyway. You have to show her that doesn't matter to you. Dude, first, you need to change your screen name. What if Bill Gates had called himself "Cannot Make Money?" Pick a name that is empowering. You...

Approach people all the time. Talk to anybody and everybody. Have a sense of humor, smile, and don't let anyone's bull**** faze you. When you have an attitude like that, you don't worry about what a chick is going to say, and you won't worry about what to say when approaching her. You will just...