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Wise words above, from a wise post. Read it guys, I promise you he is on spot. Update for myself: Today was day 91. I actually missed my day 90 and didn't realize it until I was looking at the calendar today. Guys, NC is not about her, or getting her back, its about you! My ex dumped...

Keep your head up guy. We have all been there. I can promise you the thought of her with other guys goes away. It takes some time, for me it was probably about 40 days. I can tell you the best prescription: getting a new woman in your life. My ex was banging a new guy right after I went...

My heart goes out to each and every one of you guys that are feeling down this Christmas Eve. I just want to remind you that many of us on this board were in your shoes once, and we know how you feel (only an alcoholic can know how an alcoholic feels). But we also know THAT IT GETS BETTER! I...

You hit the nail on the head. THIS is the purpose of the NC. I once got back together with an ex...its great for about 2 weeks as you relive the original honeymoon and screw like rabbits...then they start to treat you like **** and take you for granted. Why wouldn't they? They ditched you...

Guys, there is HOPE! I just wanted to drop in and let all of you guys that are in the trenches right now know that it can and will get better. I read some of your comments and I remember when I was in your shoes: trying to figure out how to make the no contact challenge get my ex back. Here is...

Quick background: I am 33. Like most men (I think) my relationship pattern has been to have sex with a new girlfriend somewhere between the 1st and 3rd dates. I even banged my ex on the first date and we were married for 4 years. Well... I have been seeing this girl for about 4 weeks...

Proud of you MAN! If you would have responded you would feel like **** right now. Stick it out...there are plenty of women out there who will want you...and they will want a MAN. Trust me when I say, one day you look back and realize how foolish you were trying to get something back that was...

Well you said you have made it 36 days...why not shoot for 60 then re-evaluate? If she really wants you back she will still be there then. Also, and MOST IMPORTANT, if you wait it puts YOU in the dominant position. Trust me from experience, you will feel crushed if you let her get one-up on...

That last paragraph of yours is almost as beautiful as poetry. I think you might be drunk, but that doesn't matter. Great stuff there. All I can say is this...I am kinda in the same place you are, but believe me when I say, new ***** is better than old *****. Someone earlier in the thread...

Amen to that... I have found that Facebook is popular with: A) people that were popular in high school, but are losers in adult life. B) people that were not popular in high school, but think they are cool now because they can "friend" those people mentioned in A. C) aunts that like to...

You can ignore her. She will inevitably get pissed and say you are a jerk...which really means she still cares.

Think of it this way: real drugs don't want to let you go. This drug does. You know all those miserable women you see in their 40s? The one's who have lost their looks but try desperately (through makeup) to look young... Each one of them has a man of the same age that they left when they...

Hello everyone! new here. I browsed through this thread and decided that I have enough history with this topic that I should join and post about my experiences. AND I HAVE MANY! My back story: Wife left me about a 14 months ago. A lot of it was my fault, but it wasn't 100% me. Did the...