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Thanks, you are right

I agree , he was using the kid story to have an easy non-committed relationship. But he incorrectly assumed I wanted to be second best. I dont mind being second to a kid but not to the baby mama too.

I agree but it been four years because he always said he was taking care of his baby mama drama and getting custody of his son, so that took awhile to settle. The son was just born when he stated he liked me and I knew him before his girlfriend got pregnant.

I think this is the BEST forum for me. Because its full of guys and this is a situation concerning a guy (player for sure) and myself (female) who wants a male perspective on the matter.

The thing is if he wanted to "properly date" and not just cheat or have the baby mama on the side I would have slept with him. But I m not going to be anyone's side piece. I have to be number one, :rock:

Thanks for this answer it is the best ive read so far and it really helped me:rockon: I am an ex of sorts because we never consumated (slept together) the relationship.

We NEVER slept together no sex, it could be past sexual tension. And he was acting mean and angry with me. Maybe he feels I sexually rejected him?

You could let A ad you back then do not speak to her that would hurt worse than turning down her invitation. I have come to realize that sometimes when people come back , it s not always for good, they may be on the rebound, etc, or coming back because they got hurt by someone else. Who...

Very true. Ok I will check it

Its not bragging if its all true and it is TRUE. I am sorry if you dont believe me but most people tell me I am a good girl. What I stated were things that people tell me about myself and FACT not what I think about myself.

I am not a troll, just trying to have an honest conversation. This is honestly what happened to me.

My zodiac sign is Pisces and honestly though I am not a major believer, my zodiac pisces horoscope is exactly like my personality. I do not believe the day to day horoscopes because they are not always accurate. BUT my overall personality horoscope is extremely "accurate". If the men I dated...

Ironically, I signed on POF once, only because I was working like 70 hours at work a week at the time (not anymore), did not have much time to get out and it was quick easy and free (high power job). But I am not on it anymore. You can meet a woman you like anywhere, online or off, never...

You got it. This is the exact point I am trying to make. I love you :) Will you marry me. Finally a sensible man. People tell me that I am a fun humorous "good girl". I was raised by two loving fully functional highly educated parents. I have lots of friends, I socially drink, I like sex in...

Great post! One of the best Ive heard yet. I would date you :)

Right on Senior Don Juan! good answer I totally agree, the man has to make the woman NOT feel like a slut the first time having sex. For example if while you both are naked for the first time and you start talking to her all these nasty things ie. I wanna "F" you and bend over, while ripping...

Alot of good restaurants now have upscale or nicer bar areas, I could do that on the first date like 1. Cheesecake Factory-has a great bar area for drinks, you are in a restaurant but you do not have to get dinner. But you dont have the dive bar feel. 2. Coastal Flats 3. Ruby Tuesdays...

LOL no not mind readers but just to consider all of the facts FACTS 1. She liked you enough to go out with you 2. She liked you enough to go back to your place 3. She trusted you enough to have drinks with you So there must be something wrong either on her or your part that she is all...

:rolleyes: I am actually not a "Troll" I think this is an important topic. I am a woman who gets alot of male attention and I do not like being taken to bars on the first date and neither do my friends. I am just putting out there what some women do not have the nerve to say because they do...

Cool, this is the BEST answer Ive heard so far. I would date you.