I ended up changing plans for yesterday and had the girl meet me at a country line dancing bar I go to on Friday nights. I did this because I felt like dancing would be a better date because there's built in action and it makes kino easier and natural. I also chose that because it felt like flake insurance to me. I have a social circle there and something that I like doing, so if she didn't show up, I'd still be having fun. There were also other girls to sarge out there.
I got to the bar early last night and ended up sarging these 2 girls, an HB 8 and HB 9. They had made friends with one of my girl friends before I arrived, so opening was easy. It turns out my date had sent me a message telling me her babysitter fell through earlier in the day, but I didn't check it so I didn't get it. She had texted me and I guess she found a replacement. I'm inclined to believe that's what was going on because she seemed, as much as I was able to tell in 2 hours, like she was being honest with me about that. And she ended up showing up.
I introduced her to my friends and they all seemed to like her, except one of my bros. I hang out with him every night before we go out to that bar and he told me he thought I could do better. I think she's a low 8, the general consensus was a high 7 to a low 9. I don't really care, she's attractive enough for me and a female.
I got a lot of good IOI's from here, she made several references to us doing it again... like...
"the next time we come out here..."
"next week we'll..."
"I'll have to bring my friend here next time"
"The next time we hang out..."
I made it a point to really focus on myself as the prize and her as someone who needs to prove herself to me. I didn't talk much about myself and spent some time qualifying her. Ever since I read Pook's most recent article about kino (specifically, how he doesn't kino), I really liked that and have been working on my eye contact and the way I look at a girl. My eye contact was awesome last night but a weak point in my game may have been that I was unsure about the effect I was having on the girl, so I kino'd some and I don't feel like it was weird or creepy and didn't get a bad vibe from her... None of my friends said I came across in-congruent, but I didn't feel totally congruent. I also didn't do a very good job of sexually escalating, but having never met this girl and being in a public place, I just wasn't sure what to do with that. She left about 2 hours after she got there because her sitter wasn't willing to hang out there all night and she made it a point to tell me twice to call her and that she had a really great time.
I'm going to have to make my next move a little quicker than normal because my traffic court date is this coming Thursday and there is still a good chance I could lose my license. I'd like to get another date under my belt before then so if I do lose my license, there is a higher level of attraction established. I've had other girls I've been with tell me they don't care if I lose my license, they'll drive me around. And while that remains to be seen whether they will, I'd take that sort of a sentiment over being called an irresponsible dumba$$.
I'll call her tomorrow and see if we can get together for a movie at her house on Wed. night. That won't require any sort of a sitter since she won't be going anywhere, and should give me a good environment to get some solid escalation going on. Any movie recommendations for this sort of thing? I haven't thought much about this since I've gotten on this website and think my old standby of Beauty and the Beast is probably pretty AFC. What's a good movie to watch with a girl that's conducive to sexual escalation?
