what if she gets back?

[thorwynn]

yo guys, just a quick one.

well you got a relationship with girl A for 3 months...with sex of course. well things broke down, deleted you off (in fb, life, etc.) with whatever reason (either she has another guy or she's not interested anymore), then a few days...you got girl B, who's really interested in you in a consistent manner (girlfriend-wife material) for a month. and now after a month and half, girl A comes to add you back on fb without any message.

what do you guys do? do you turn her into a bed friend or just ignore her till she begs / message you? or just stay with the new one?

 

[GameTime76]

Personally I would NOT add her. She blew her chance with YOU! Its her fault.

NOW you got a girl with High Interest! Which is what you want. Stay with her.

 

[Zerro]

Girl A had her chance and she burned it, forget about her.

 

[TopGun2000]

forget about A

 

[mocha2010]

forget about A

You could let A ad you back then do not speak to her that would hurt worse than turning down her invitation.

I have come to realize that sometimes when people come back , it s not always for good, they may be on the rebound, etc, or coming back because they got hurt by someone else. Who wants that?

Never warm up to someone coming back too fast, or maybe she genuinely likes you but dont go too fast.