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Maybe now your ego got so big from working out that you just think women should be noticing more and you notice them not noticing you. There are men all over the place who are in shape. Perhaps your ego took over here and women can smell that from a mile away just by your ****iness. Not...

I remember when I went to my university gym it was 95% men. The few women there were always been oggled at by the tons of men there. Honestly, a woman's value in a gym filled with men is enormously high. Your attemps at picking up women in the gym are not even attempts. You are just asking...

You just answered your own question... Additionally, you probably are approaching these "dates" with the wrong mindset. You are specifically chasing only the poon here. Instead of focusing only on the poon, approach these "dates" with a less outcome-driven mindset. If you are so focused on...

Agree with Captain. There is no reason to tell her anything. Don't lie to her but just don't go out and tell her: "I have no experience". Although you may be in a relationship she is still evaluating you. Don't lower your value by telling her stuff that doesn't really even matter.

The term "alpha" has to be way overused on this forum. You don't become alpha by trying to be alpha. To me, becoming "alpha" is something that just happens when everything in your life is going the way you want it. Your concern really sounds like it has more to do with the social aspect of...

The solution to your problem is to take chicks out on dates that involve more physical activity instead of just sitting for coffee. That way you force them to get active and they have less time to "interview" you. Also you can get physical with them easier and "test" if they are slutty or not...

Update So the chick got back from her vacation on Monday. She made no mention of anything to do with the plans that she initiated before. Later on Monday I say to her: "You gotta come over for dinner sometime." Her response was something like: "Oh ya you're gonna cook for me... that could be...

...I know... I know.... I haven't made a move because she was on vacation this week (out of the city) and during that time I have over-analyzed this situation. There is another girl I am talking to but this one represents a new and unique challenge for me (co-worker element). I'm just...

Just goes to show that being bitter and negative serves no real purpose other than just hindering yourself further.

Bump... Just wanted to get some advice on how people think I should play this?

I think Peak's advice is more about not acting irrationally. In the heat of the moment we often act irrationally and say or do stupid things. It's like making a big purchase - the best thing to do is sleep on it. This way we see things in a different light or from a different perspective then...

I accidentally use something along these lines....it drives women who are interested in you nuts when you don't pay attention to what they are saying. E.g. you are doing something and they start talking but your concentrating on what you are doing. You turn and saying "sorry what was that?"...

Thanks Gangster. Your right. The chances are probably much greater that she is interested in me than this being some weird friend-helping-friend thing. I am treading into uncharted waters here. I have never been involved with a person who I knew as a co-worker so the dynamic just feels a...

Been reading stuff on this site on and off for a couple years now. Finally, I actually need some advice with a situation. I have worked with a girl for a year now who is 3 years older then I am (Don’t know if that’s relevant). Now at first I had no attraction to this girl – her face is about...