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    Potential date tonight..How to proceed with this response?

    I will be going over to her place at 8. Like i mentioned I gave her a pec couple weeks ago just a few days before i found out i have type 1 oral herpes I don't have any cold sores on my lips. I read online that you can Shed the virus without a present cold sore. I would feel guilty if i...
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    Potential date tonight..How to proceed with this response?

    As far as the oral herpes thing... I dont' have any blisters on my mouth right now Not sure if i even ever had them But the docs said i did have type 1 but not type 2 I don't want to infect anyone And i didn't say anything last time after i pecked her couple days before i found...
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    Potential date tonight..How to proceed with this response?

    As far as the oral herpes thing... I dont have any blisters on my mouth And i didn't say anything last time after i pecked her couple days before i found out i had it.. Don't mention anything about herpes?
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    Potential date tonight..How to proceed with this response?

    Her: Did i shock you so much that you would rather not go watch the movie with me?:-)I am sorry if i did so This is all after 30 mins of not replying Do you guys detect a psychopath if i try to **** her What should my next reply be if i don't want to see that movie but would rather just go...
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    Potential date tonight..How to proceed with this response?

    Her:What do you think of coming over to my place after? I have been thinking of you:) Me:No response in the past 20 mins Her:perhaps not? Whats a good message to send her? Not sure i she is trying to test my frame and see if im looking for sex
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    Potential date tonight..How to proceed with this response?

    @Bible belt You are saying there is no reason to bring this up to her tonight after that pec on the lips couple week ago? Also read the text convo she sent me above. It sounds like she is inviting me,so she pays? Honestly, i don't care too much for the movies and dinner thing if i am the one...
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    Potential date tonight..How to proceed with this response?

    I have a date in less than 2 hours don't want to make a wrong ethical decision A couple weeks ago i received a voicemail from the doctors office that i have type 1 oral herpes.I don't really notice any blisters on my mouth. Anyways i received this message a couple days after i went out with...
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    FOB from Brazil chick

    She has already communicated she is not interested and i don't think its necessarily true that she wouldn't reply if she wasn't interested.Women will do this for Ego purposes or if they don't want to feel bad rejecting you.If a woman is interested in you she will not make it this difficult.You...
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    FOB from Brazil chick

    Very low interest level.You are doing too much.No need to keep asking after she already said she was busy.Move on from this one.
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    Question about average looking and above average looking men

    Ok this is the part i am confused about If you are a man of value then if you need to show a woman value Isn't that approval seeking? Vs a woman who approaches the guy she perceives to be good looking and feels that she is the one that needs to show her value win his approval Maybe i...
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    Question about average looking and above average looking men

    We all know that women are like cats When you chase them they runaway When you don't pursue them they pursue you However this is only if they find you attractive and have initial interest If a woman doesn't find you attractive aloofness won't have any affect So lets say you are a 7 or...
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    Going on coffee dates if your not really looking for a LTR

    Good point here, On one hand i think the biological drive will always be there regardless of where you are in your life but i do see your point..Thanks for the advice
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    Going on coffee dates if your not really looking for a LTR

    Alright guys update again she is 37 indian software engineer and has her own place. Im 29 Her:Hey are we still on for tonight?Where did you say we are meeting? Me:Yes.meet me at xxxx Her:How far is the one in xxxxxx (same area where she lives) to you? Me:About 35-40 mins Me:It's about the...
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    Going on coffee dates if your not really looking for a LTR

    I gave this Indian chick my number of ok cupid.She is 37 works as a software engineer and has her own place.I am 29 and live with my folks and broke for now.She called me and we chit chatted for about 20 mins and then at the end i asked her if she wanted to meet up for coffee later in the week...
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    Has anyone actually gone out with the intention to get laid and actually got laid

    I notice when i go out with the intention of having fun... I have pleasent interactions with people But i feel like i want more Intention:I am going out to have a good time and if i get laid its a bonus Intention:I am going out only to try and get laid It seems like intention number 2...
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    Your Experiences with Eye contact?

    What about approaching women who only give you eyecontact? Its seems like you would be operating less blindly from your target if your getting some eyecontact vs straight up cold approaching without any signs operating with no information of your target with blinders on Like a game of...
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    Girlfriend went Clubbing

    I don't see how this is disrespectful but that's just my opinion Because personally if i react negatively to her going out to the club and experiencing pleasure On some level there is a problem with my ego that needs to be dealt with The bigger question is how do you feel when you picture her...
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    When women don't look down to the ground after you hold eyecontact

    1)Lots of times when i catch women checking me out and hold eye contact when they look away there head is still level.They don't turn their head away and look down to the ground as a sign of submission.This NEVER happens to me. Does this mean that the women are not interested? Bodylanguage...
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