A man's horniness vs a woman's horniness

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Depends on the level of testosterone in the woman. Usually peaks near ovulation. Body knows an egg is ready and hormones make her want to fertilize it. Men on the other hand, supposedly have 16x times higher levels. This makes us horny at any given moment. I’d say women in relationships are more free to succumb to those urges since there is no social stigma associated with it. That stigma is less these days as we see young women racking up body counts. They probably seem more horny these days because this old social judgement has been removed.

As an experiment, observe the women in your social circle. You’ll start to notice the hormone changes. During ovulation you might notice more skin being shown or sexually suggestive speech. More provocative outfits and stronger flirting.

That’s a good reason ”timing” gets brought up in many conversations. Timing, as in she was ovulating and the elevated testosterone was making her crave some d!ck.
There are some exceptions to these rules.

I'm a man who isn't even 35, yet I often am too exhausted for sex (even too exhausted for sex with myself)

I had a constantly flirtatious (and constantly skin-showing) 60 year old female coworker at one point. Ovulation certainly wasn't why she acted like that (hehehe)
 

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When I read the thread title I remembered this conversation from years ago:

- You used to be a very shy girl. Who would´ve thought you would turn into a sex addict?

- Im not addicted to sex. Im addicted to you.
 

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The 70 girls I casually dated, and had short term relationships with were never as horny as the 8 I've had medium to long term relationships with.

The best sex is never casual and it's never when she is horniest.

Turn her mind on and she will present you with her entire body to ravage however you want. For me, that's always been easiest to do with women I had been with for a while and had a deeper connection with. Getting drunk/high off sex takes two people that are really horny.
 

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When I read the thread title I remembered this conversation from years ago.

- Im not addicted to sex. Im addicted to you.
This is exactly what I am referring to.
 

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Generally

Men are very horny from 18 - 29.
Men are less horny from 30-39
Men are not that horny 40-49

Women are not horny 18 - 29
Women are more horny 30-39
Women are very horny 40-49

Everything depends on a women's youth.
Women 18-29 are horny. She is 21 IMG_4254.jpeg
 

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The 70 girls I casually dated, and had short term relationships with were never as horny as the 8 I've had medium to long term relationships with.

The best sex is never casual and it's never when she is horniest.

Turn her mind on and she will present you with her entire body to ravage however you want. For me, that's always been easiest to do with women I had been with for a while and had a deeper connection with. Getting drunk/high off sex takes two people that are really horny.
The best sex I ever had was a month long affair with a married woman.
 

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I haven't been lucky enough to find this plethora of broads looking for casual sex.
Lol that's too bad. Women are sex obsessed maniacs. Not saying they chase me specifically. They are out there tho.
 

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Lol that's too bad. Women are sex obsessed maniacs. Not saying they chase me specifically. They are out there tho.
You aren't the only man I've heard say that. I recall another man complaining about the broads he knows being too frisky with him.

I replied along the lines of "And that's something you're complaining about?!? I'd love it if they were that eager to give me sex"
 

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You aren't the only man I've heard say that. I recall another man complaining about the broads he knows being too frisky with him.

I replied along the lines of "And that's something you're complaining about?!? I'd love it if they were that eager to give me sex"
That's not complaining, doofus. That's 'humblebragging'.
 

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My point still stands.

The fact broads have a track record of coming up with excuses to get out of giving me sex contradicts the apparent horniness of the female population.
You're a really negative dude. You're the perfect example of the "You must be really fun at parties" joke.

Also, your tendency to focus on yourself and your failures instead of contributing something valuable to the forum is unhelpful.
 
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Men have much higher desire for sex than women due to the presence of testosterone in our bodies. Our testosterone levels are 12-17 times higher than that of a woman. Even lower testosterone men are hornier than women.

Men might also appear less selective for sexual opportunity (as @GoodMan32 points out) because of the presence of testosterone.

Rollo Tomassi wrote a good article about this back in 2011.

Yes exactly. I dont know why this is still debatable. Trans women that transition to "men" have written about how intense their sex drive was after that first dose of hormonal (testosterone) treatment was. One said that she found herself just staring at womans butts on the subway and did not know why lol.

Older women on HRT ( hormonal replacement therapy) have said the same thing. One women on camera basically said she understands why men cheat. She said men are fighting a different battle. She also said that after the first doses of testosterone she caught herself checking out many more random guys. That never happened before. I can show you the video if you dont believe me.

Men are WAAAAYYYY hornier. If women were as horny as men nothing in this world would get done. Everyone would be having sex all the time even the ugly dudes would be having sex all the time with the hottest girls.
 

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When I read the thread title I remembered this conversation from years ago:

- You used to be a very shy girl. Who would´ve thought you would turn into a sex addict?

- Im not addicted to sex. Im addicted to you.
This is good.
 

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The best sex I ever had was a month long affair with a married woman.
You dont feel any guilt or shame banging a married woman? Im not judging but I had to stop messing around ( not banging) this married chick. I felt like karma was going to get me one day. I also felt bad for the guy.
 

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My point still stands.

The fact broads have a track record of coming up with excuses to get out of giving me sex contradicts the apparent horniness of the female population.
Perhaps it's something you're doing that is turning them off?
 

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The fact broads have a track record of coming up with excuses to get out of giving me sex contradicts the apparent horniness of the female population.
I guess you're turning them off with your behaviour. Especially if you say women check you out but become disinterested.
 

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There are some exceptions to these rules.

I'm a man who isn't even 35, yet I often am too exhausted for sex (even too exhausted for sex with myself)

I had a constantly flirtatious (and constantly skin-showing) 60 year old female coworker at one point. Ovulation certainly wasn't why she acted like that (hehehe)
These are not rules but observations. Lol, watch out for those cougars. If she was young and hot, I’d put money down that would have more energy.
 
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