Borknagar
Master Don Juan
Bro you preaching to the choir as you get older, the thrill of chasing poon doesn't hit the same as when you're younger
The thing about women in their 40s if you meet them on apps is they are delusional even the pretty ones can be entitled and insufferable. I have gone on dates/smashed more 40 year old women this year than I ever have and even the ones with nice bodies had the personality of paint drying on a wall or they think they are still 21 and wanna live the partythotgirl lifestyle.
To conclude
Personally I think 2024 is the top for the dating market for women, it's just not sustainable. Like a stock market bubble, it's only so long things can go up for women, and the bubble is about to burst! The dating standards now in 2024 are just not realistic and women are actually passing possible quality husbands for a fantasy that 90% of women can't attain (because they don't qualify or that mythical 1% man is already married or lockdown meaning not enough of those 6'5 blue eyes finance guys to go around)
Most men aren't dating, plus dating is getting expensive, the standards of modern women aren't realistic in these times with high inflation, low wages, the housing market etc. You have nearly 50% of 18-29 men who live with their parents and 1/3 of those men ain't working So what's the incentive to date if most women won't give those guys a shot of those things alone?
Things are slowly starting to go back to the center but I think it will be more of a noticeable rapid acceleration within the next few years. The truth is the system is broken, and the dating market is a reflection of it. I see women very soon, who will change their mating strategy back to long-term and lockdown a provider husband that is realistic. I know some guys think this is a fantasy but time will tell
Oh yeah it's certainly no where near as fun and like I said I another thread I barely have a libido left. Having met so many women in my life and seeing so much of the same behaviors over and over makes it difficult to be interested.
I'll delete a women's number and all texts if she doesn't reply after I ask if she's available a certain day or what time she's off work regardless of how good she is at faking initial intrest.
Same with online. If a women doesn't reply in a day or two I cut them off, again, regardless of any positive conversations.
I just don't care enough about them. They are all pretty much the same to me and it's impossible to look at them as individuals initially because it's all the same.
Seems my caring less and less kinda started when I got on anti-anxiety meds. Probably an added benefit that I stooped down to their level in regards to effort.
But I might change meds because these aren't affective enough but it certainly seems they have affected my overall intrest in giving a **** lol