What to do now - dont want to make mistake

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I will post my awesome lifestyle, almost shredded need 3-4 more kgs to lose and she will see me shine like a Mf the next years. Also the there’s a chance she will reach out if I don’t delete her and I can fvck her again. I will look bvtthert if I delete and block her. Idc anymore man I mean it

Update: confirmation > lost cause.

Let her see my awesome life from now on. I like that thought. I will become even better and shine so hard. Let her watch. I don’t care I’m not going to delete her. I just move on.

Denial is not just a river in Egypt.

If you hang on to her contact info in the hope that she realises she made a mistake, comes back with eyes filled with shiny regret, kneels before you to accept your obvious superiority...

Get a grip, man. You're embarrassing yourself.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Fvcking a woman is a huge achievement? Holy hell, now I see why guys today have so many issues if they think this is like climbing Mt Everest

You're a bit late to the party, but you figured it out.

 

[TheGambino]

Update: confirmation > lost cause.


Denial is not just a river in Egypt.

If you hang on to her contact info in the hope that she realises she made a mistake, comes back with eyes filled with shiny regret, kneels before you to accept your obvious superiority...

Get a grip, man. You're embarrassing yourself.

Women come back all the time like I said I’m seeing a girl who said 4 weeks ago I’m busy the coming week can’t see you. She saw an awesome vacation on my story and good pictures of me and said I want to see you when can we meet up? She’s coming tommorow

@AmsterdamAssassin

 

[TheGambino]

Update: confirmation > lost cause.


Denial is not just a river in Egypt.

If you hang on to her contact info in the hope that she realises she made a mistake, comes back with eyes filled with shiny regret, kneels before you to accept your obvious superiority...

Get a grip, man. You're embarrassing yourself.

Yes that’s what I think. Raise even more smv become even a higher tier man will make her regret indeed. I’ll show you

 

[Canadian_Man]

I'm not so sure about this supposed desire to "show her what she missed out on".

Having read the thread, and your other threads about different women, I suspect more of what's going on is your hope that she circles back.

When you say "Idc anymore man I mean it", as in, you are "over her", you're lying to yourself if you think that's true.

To quote you earlier, this is what the pedestal looks like, and getting over that within 24 hrs seems rather unlikely:

She likes the same things as me, working out going to fancy restaurants luxurious things, dancing same style. We both entrepreneurs I’m on a waaaaaay higher lever then she but okay. We like the same vacation styles, like what we like to do. We like to go to the same restaurants and bars, same music tast we were both rapping songs we knew out of our heads, best body type I like, blonde what i like, piercings where I want she’s a boss lady like. She doesn’t cave to sh*t we reacted the same on sh*t that happened and always agreed, same life values she wants daughters me also. Cex was amazing, her clothing style is exactly how I like it nails done hair done. We watch the same series and movies. She respected me, when guys approached her she hid behind me. Making out was good, she also showed 100% interest touching grinding holding my hands everything a girl does with extreme high interest. We are just a match what I saw last week ...

It’s just the full package of a woman I’m looking for ltr.

Further proof that you aren't "over her", after the thread was "closed" according to you, you felt the need to update that "her photo is back so it wasn't her blocking me".

You did that in another thread about another woman as well, giving updates after being "over it".

And that's fine, just recognize where you are mentally & emotionally, and improve upon it for your own sake, not to "get back at her" or to try to get her to come back.

Be honest about where you are with yourself.

 

[TheGambino]

I'm not so sure about this supposed desire to "show her what she missed out on".

Having read the thread, and your other threads about different women, I suspect more of what's going on is your hope that she circles back.

When you say "Idc anymore man I mean it", as in, you are "over her", you're lying to yourself if you think that's true.

To quote you earlier, this is what the pedestal looks like, and getting over that within 24 hrs seems rather unlikely:



Further proof that you aren't "over her", after the thread was "closed" according to you, you felt the need to update that "her photo is back so it wasn't her blocking me".

You did that in another thread about another woman as well, giving updates after being "over it".

And that's fine, just recognize where you are mentally & emotionally, and improve upon it for your own sake, not to "get back at her" or to try to get her to come back.

Be honest about where you are with yourself.

She’s already back by showing her picture again…. The girl will reach out you’ll see.

idc I mean I will move on. I won’t be waiting around but game and add new women on insta and move on, not linder around waiting. If she reaches out it’s a bonus that’s how I see it now. Yesterday I was confused what to do

 

[The Diver]

She’s already back by showing her picture again…. The girl will reach out you’ll see.
idc I mean I will move on. I won’t be waiting around but game and add new women on insta and move on, not linder around waiting. If she reaches out it’s a bonus that’s how I see it now. Yesterday I was confused what to do

Here's a good guideline that will help you a lot with women you interact with ( and in life in general):
From time to time inspect your connection with your woman, and every time you notice you're compromising your values and principles ( which are not the same), it means you're in the wrong direction and need to correct your actions, or eject totally from the connection if it's not repairable.

No woman is worth compromising your values and principles.And if you do , it'll start small with minor compromising, and gradually, as you cave in , it'll turn into an avalanche until you won't be you anymore.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She’s already back by showing her picture again…. The girl will reach out you’ll see.

idc I mean I will move on. I won’t be waiting around but game and add new women on insta and move on, not linder around waiting. If she reaches out it’s a bonus that’s how I see it now. Yesterday I was confused what to do

The problem is these women have you like a puppet on a string but you think you are in full control, and are going "over the top" with trying to "prove it".

Until you understand what's really going on, nothing is going to change.

"Revenge" is never a recipe for winning with women nor is it a way to maintain your self respect in the long term. All it is, is trying to soothe a bruised ego.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

The problem is these women have you like a puppet on a string but you think you are in full control, and are going "over the top" with trying to "prove it".

@TheGambino is doing the exact opposite of what he should be doing. Women should be qualifying to him, instead he's desperate to show 'what they're missing'. They're missing nothing, they already know him well enough to play the 'player'.

 

[TheGambino]

The problem is these women have you like a puppet on a string but you think you are in full control, and are going "over the top" with trying to "prove it".

Until you understand what's really going on, nothing is going to change.

"Revenge" is never a recipe for winning with women nor is it a way to maintain your self respect in the long term. All it is, is trying to soothe a bruised ego.

I don’t agree because I use as fuel to work harder on myself

 

[SummerTime]

It should never bother you why women pulling out; It is what it is.
There are million reasons why woman pull out, and some of them are very stupid from men prospective.but again, it is what it is, and in the vast majority of the cases, the reasons are not related to you or because you did something wrong.
It's futile to dwell and torture yourself emotionally for someone else's decision that is totally out of your control.

Yes, you're right.
It just hurts because we think "I was not good enough" but maybe that wasn't it.

 

[Lotus Effect]

I don’t agree because I use as fuel to work harder on myself

Gambino, whenever you begin a sentence with ‘I don’t agree’ then you should think twice.

Again, I see you are very close, but still, no cigar!

 

[TheGambino]

Gambino, whenever you begin a sentence with ‘I don’t agree’ then you should think twice.

Again, I see you are very close, but still, no cigar!

I don’t agree on the fact that Of revenge. I’m a person that fuels on that. If I get rejected by a person that I care about or a person that challenges me I get the energy to work harder on myself: my own half sister entrpreneur with 100 million net worth, she’s 52 I’m 33 rejected me and my old boss told me you can’t start that business your not made for that and now i have the best business in his branche in our region.

I see this as a nice competition to get abs take even better care about my looks and have an awesome life which she will see on the gram and think sh*t maybe I had to stick with him. Then I’ll be on a further point with better girls in my life that I don’t care about her anymore: that’s what I’m saying and yes I’m very close. But no cigar yet but I’ll get there and she will regret. She also knows how driven I am to become the best man so she keeps me on the backburner women ain’t stupid. She still has me on social media and WhatsApp showing the bridge ain’t burned. @Lotus Effect thanks so much for your faith. I hope everything runs and turns in how you want it in your life my man

 

[Lotus Effect]

Yeah, you are right in all of that.

But take the girl out of the equation, and the feeling is still there.

It is your feeling. The rage, the anger, whatever. And it is an excellent fuel.

I know I used it.

But again, remove the girl from the equation. Removing her will not remove the feeling, nor diminish it.

So you will realise it is all you. Always been you, and forever gonna be only you.

The only competition you have is against your self.

Anyways, I'm rooting for you bro! You are in the path!

 

[TheGambino]

Yeah, you are right in all of that.

But take the girl out of the equation, and the feeling is still there.

It is your feeling. The rage, the anger, whatever. And it is an excellent fuel.

I know I used it.

But again, remove the girl from the equation. Removing her will not remove the feeling, nor diminish it.

So you will realise it is all you. Always been you, and forever gonna be only you.

The only competition you have is against your self.

Anyways, I'm rooting for you bro! You are in the path!

Thanks man that really means a lot, I felt my heart burn when I read this your welcome in my city for fun if you ever want in Holland

 

[SummerTime]

@TheGambino is doing the exact opposite of what he should be doing. Women should be qualifying to him, instead he's desperate to show 'what they're missing'. They're missing nothing, they already know him well enough to play the 'player'.

My god man look at the negativity you are bringing to this forum. Imagine having you as a wingman, you would just be maliciously criticizing your "friends" - my god man let's lift eachother up

 

[TheGambino]

My god man look at the negativity you are bringing to this forum. Imagine having you as a wingman, you would just be maliciously criticizing your "friends" - my god man let's lift eachother up

I know right he’s a low key hater @SummerTime
But I’m used to that. That’s also fuel to work harder, use everything negative to turn it into something positive. Thanks Summer

He is right about the fact that she should be qualifying herself to me. But she did.

Wearing nice outfits, making herself pretty, cex, behaving well, respecting me when we’re out. Giving me a good time without headaches. That’s all qualifying. Moment she loses interest we just withdraw attention.

We got this man @SummerTime

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

My god man look at the negativity you are bringing to this forum. Imagine having you as a wingman, you would just be maliciously criticizing your "friends" - my god man let's lift eachother up

You don't lift someone up by giving them bad advice, like taking lessons in fearlessness from beggars.