What to do now - dont want to make mistake

[Lotus Effect]

Alright! That is it my man! Rock on!

 

[Lotus Effect]

But just some food for thought, if you think you will look bvtthurt, it does mean that her opinion on you still matters.

Think about it bro. I know I did.

 

[TheGambino]

But just some food for thought, if you think you will look bvtthurt, it does mean that her opinion on you still matters.

Think about it bro. I know I did.

Let her see my awesome life from now on. I like that thought. I will become even better and shine so hard. Let her watch. I don’t care I’m not going to delete her. I just move on.

 

[Gamisch]

Deleted number. I won’t delete IG or snap. I will post my awesome lifestyle, almost shredded need 3-4 more kgs to lose and she will see me shine like a Mf the next years. Also the there’s a chance she will reach out if I don’t delete her and I can fvck her again. I will look bvtthert if I delete and block her. Idc anymore man I mean it

One important lesson we as don Juan's MUST learn is that women live in a completely different dimension as we do. Think about animals like dogs or cats, living sometimes in the same house as " a man" but yet their perspective is completely different. Their goals, motivations, and outcomes are different.

The REAL issue imo is that you don’t show you are ready to be with ( a lotta) women. Because if you were you would let ANY rejection slide of your shoulder like it's nothing. It's actually quite funny.

Women reject men. That's one of the most important things about the game. That's why it's ill-advised to attach your EGO to how women treat you because you will always always always lose eventually.

I am actually kinda glad to partake in this thread and witness what it looks like when a man acts like this. For many years I've been like that. Got to know women in and out and know now that they are the worst investment ever ,doesn't matter if it's emotional, financial or spiritual.

I understand most won't understand this tho..even most of my homies are desperate to get women, children, living together ect.

I would LOVE t9 have a great woman, one who takes great care of the children she gives me. One who I can trust. But such a woman is hard to find like becoming rich ,ripped and succes(sfull) . Things that most people won't ever be.

 

[SummerTime]

No offense to any of you guys, I used to be frustrated by it as well.

Once you understand the game to a higher degree and start playing your hand correctly, it won't be frustrating anymore.

Its a turnoff to a woman when you act on your urges and tempations too often, even though they might like it at the moment.

All women want a leader(a solid rock). A leader doesn't give into someones wishes every time. She is looking for someone to define some boundaries, thats how she knows she can have faith in you later on in the relationship.

I hate all this gay **** like self-restraint, "playing it smooth", "define boundaries"
I am quite sure if you are meant to be together none of this gay **** matters.

This guy has ****ed the girl; a huge achievement.

It now becomes a mystery of why the stupid woman does not want to continue the relationship. This is very difficult emotionally for the man.

I don't know what he should do.

 

[TheGambino]

I hate all this gay **** like self-restraint, "playing it smooth", "define boundaries"
I am quite sure if you are meant to be together none of this gay **** matters.

This guy has ****ed the girl; a huge achievement.

It now becomes a mystery of why the stupid woman does not want to continue the relationship. This is very difficult emotionally for the man.

I don't know what he should do.

@SummerTime nah my dear man with good intentions. These hardened players are right. I gave this women too much too soon. Also there must be some things that turned her off. And it was vacation also so back to reality is different. She is low interest now they are right. She might come back but I’m going forward like a winner and not waiting around for her as$. Keep lurking the forum and learn game and eventually u will understand that these guys are right

 

[Lotus Effect]

I hate all this gay **** like self-restraint, "playing it smooth", "define boundaries"
I am quite sure if you are meant to be together none of this gay **** matters.

This guy has ****ed the girl; a huge achievement.

It now becomes a mystery of why the stupid woman does not want to continue the relationship. This is very difficult emotionally for the man.

I don't know what he should do.

Although I agree that is commendable that OP landed a supposed 10.

If you are quite sure ‘if you are meant to be together’ is a thing…

…Then you are not living in real life mate.

 

[TheGambino]

Although I agree that is commendable that OP landed a supposed 10.

If you are quite sure ‘if you are meant to be together’ is a thing…

…Then you are not living in real life mate.

She is a drop off 10. From head to toe an absolute dime, best looking girl I ever layed. The types you see on IG with 200K followers. Super feminine.
I will use this as fuel to work even harder to reach my smv goals to attract the same quality women and keep them around me.

I can do it!

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I hate all this gay **** like self-restraint, "playing it smooth", "define boundaries"
I am quite sure if you are meant to be together none of this gay **** matters.

This guy has ****ed the girl; a huge achievement.

It now becomes a mystery of why the stupid woman does not want to continue the relationship. This is very difficult emotionally for the man.

I don't know what he should do.

Fvcking a woman is a huge achievement? Holy hell, now I see why guys today have so many issues if they think this is like climbing Mt Everest

 

[The Diver]

It now becomes a mystery of why the stupid woman does not want to continue the relationship. This is very difficult emotionally for the man.

It should never bother you why women pulling out; It is what it is.
There are million reasons why woman pull out, and some of them are very stupid from men prospective.but again, it is what it is, and in the vast majority of the cases, the reasons are not related to you or because you did something wrong.
It's futile to dwell and torture yourself emotionally for someone else's decision that is totally out of your control.

 

[TheGambino]

It should never bother you why women pulling out; It is what it is.
There are million reasons why woman pull out, and some of them are very stupid from men prospective.but again, it is what it is, and in the vast majority of the cases, the reasons are not related to you or because you did something wrong.
It's futile to dwell and torture yourself emotionally for someone else's decision that is totally out of your control.

Could be another guy. Could be she’s not feeling it could be 10000 things. Could be she never was really attracted to you but just Playing

 

[TheGambino]

Update: confirmation > lost cause.


Denial is not just a river in Egypt.

If you hang on to her contact info in the hope that she realises she made a mistake, comes back with eyes filled with shiny regret, kneels before you to accept your obvious superiority...

Get a grip, man. You're embarrassing yourself.

Women come back all the time like I said I’m seeing a girl who said 4 weeks ago I’m busy the coming week can’t see you. She saw an awesome vacation on my story and good pictures of me and said I want to see you when can we meet up? She’s coming tommorow

@AmsterdamAssassin

 

[TheGambino]

Update: confirmation > lost cause.


Denial is not just a river in Egypt.

If you hang on to her contact info in the hope that she realises she made a mistake, comes back with eyes filled with shiny regret, kneels before you to accept your obvious superiority...

Get a grip, man. You're embarrassing yourself.

Yes that’s what I think. Raise even more smv become even a higher tier man will make her regret indeed. I’ll show you

 

[Canadian_Man]

I'm not so sure about this supposed desire to "show her what she missed out on".

Having read the thread, and your other threads about different women, I suspect more of what's going on is your hope that she circles back.

When you say "Idc anymore man I mean it", as in, you are "over her", you're lying to yourself if you think that's true.

To quote you earlier, this is what the pedestal looks like, and getting over that within 24 hrs seems rather unlikely:

She likes the same things as me, working out going to fancy restaurants luxurious things, dancing same style. We both entrepreneurs I’m on a waaaaaay higher lever then she but okay. We like the same vacation styles, like what we like to do. We like to go to the same restaurants and bars, same music tast we were both rapping songs we knew out of our heads, best body type I like, blonde what i like, piercings where I want she’s a boss lady like. She doesn’t cave to sh*t we reacted the same on sh*t that happened and always agreed, same life values she wants daughters me also. Cex was amazing, her clothing style is exactly how I like it nails done hair done. We watch the same series and movies. She respected me, when guys approached her she hid behind me. Making out was good, she also showed 100% interest touching grinding holding my hands everything a girl does with extreme high interest. We are just a match what I saw last week ...

It’s just the full package of a woman I’m looking for ltr.

Further proof that you aren't "over her", after the thread was "closed" according to you, you felt the need to update that "her photo is back so it wasn't her blocking me".

You did that in another thread about another woman as well, giving updates after being "over it".

And that's fine, just recognize where you are mentally & emotionally, and improve upon it for your own sake, not to "get back at her" or to try to get her to come back.

Be honest about where you are with yourself.

 

[TheGambino]

I'm not so sure about this supposed desire to "show her what she missed out on".

Having read the thread, and your other threads about different women, I suspect more of what's going on is your hope that she circles back.

When you say "Idc anymore man I mean it", as in, you are "over her", you're lying to yourself if you think that's true.

To quote you earlier, this is what the pedestal looks like, and getting over that within 24 hrs seems rather unlikely:



Further proof that you aren't "over her", after the thread was "closed" according to you, you felt the need to update that "her photo is back so it wasn't her blocking me".

You did that in another thread about another woman as well, giving updates after being "over it".

And that's fine, just recognize where you are mentally & emotionally, and improve upon it for your own sake, not to "get back at her" or to try to get her to come back.

Be honest about where you are with yourself.

She’s already back by showing her picture again…. The girl will reach out you’ll see.

idc I mean I will move on. I won’t be waiting around but game and add new women on insta and move on, not linder around waiting. If she reaches out it’s a bonus that’s how I see it now. Yesterday I was confused what to do

 

[The Diver]

She’s already back by showing her picture again…. The girl will reach out you’ll see.
idc I mean I will move on. I won’t be waiting around but game and add new women on insta and move on, not linder around waiting. If she reaches out it’s a bonus that’s how I see it now. Yesterday I was confused what to do

Here's a good guideline that will help you a lot with women you interact with ( and in life in general):
From time to time inspect your connection with your woman, and every time you notice you're compromising your values and principles ( which are not the same), it means you're in the wrong direction and need to correct your actions, or eject totally from the connection if it's not repairable.

No woman is worth compromising your values and principles.And if you do , it'll start small with minor compromising, and gradually, as you cave in , it'll turn into an avalanche until you won't be you anymore.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She’s already back by showing her picture again…. The girl will reach out you’ll see.

idc I mean I will move on. I won’t be waiting around but game and add new women on insta and move on, not linder around waiting. If she reaches out it’s a bonus that’s how I see it now. Yesterday I was confused what to do

The problem is these women have you like a puppet on a string but you think you are in full control, and are going "over the top" with trying to "prove it".

Until you understand what's really going on, nothing is going to change.

"Revenge" is never a recipe for winning with women nor is it a way to maintain your self respect in the long term. All it is, is trying to soothe a bruised ego.

 

[TheGambino]

The problem is these women have you like a puppet on a string but you think you are in full control, and are going "over the top" with trying to "prove it".

Until you understand what's really going on, nothing is going to change.

"Revenge" is never a recipe for winning with women nor is it a way to maintain your self respect in the long term. All it is, is trying to soothe a bruised ego.

I don’t agree because I use as fuel to work harder on myself

 

[SummerTime]

It should never bother you why women pulling out; It is what it is.
There are million reasons why woman pull out, and some of them are very stupid from men prospective.but again, it is what it is, and in the vast majority of the cases, the reasons are not related to you or because you did something wrong.
It's futile to dwell and torture yourself emotionally for someone else's decision that is totally out of your control.

Yes, you're right.
It just hurts because we think "I was not good enough" but maybe that wasn't it.

 

[Lotus Effect]

I don’t agree because I use as fuel to work harder on myself

Gambino, whenever you begin a sentence with ‘I don’t agree’ then you should think twice.

Again, I see you are very close, but still, no cigar!