Women Don't Want a Semi-Successful Man

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Manure Spherian

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They will never like your chicken breast and broccoli/anabolic diet, so your only option is to do some OMAD/Intermittent fasting which isn't sustainable in the long run. The guy is either going to have to compromise and put on some weight or the relationship will be mediocre at best and lead to other problems.
Never had to fatten up or had that problem. Where did you get this notion? Also people don’t need to eat a diet that tastes like cardboard to stay in shape, at around 12-15% bodyfat.
 
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Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want. Why? Because this man has standards. Women do not want to work for their men. Women of today want a simp or a millionaire. Simple as that. This is what society aka social media is telling them. Get a man who accepts you for you are OR "you deserve better queen!"

Yes I am posting this out of frustration. I'm meeting many women (in their late twenties) who put in very little and expect a lot. I've never in my life had to put up with so much arrogant and self-entitled garbage from women of today.
It's OVER for SemiSuccessfulCels.
 

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It's OVER for SemiSuccessfulCels.
If they say and believe it’s over, then it is over for them.

If men operate in the paradigm of women having full ownership of the sexual market, then it’s over.

And to think that all fully successful men are immune to the abuse and rejection of women shows serious ignorance.

A non-exhaustive list of fully-successful men punked or left by women, men who “did the work”, “alphas”, Chads:

Brad Pitt
Will Smith (punked for all the world to see)
Vladimir Putin
Ben Affleck
Jeff Bezos
Tom Brady
Johnny Depp (woman defecated in his bed)
Kanye West

So I suppose if men look hard enough, then yes, it’s over for all. Or they can live their lives on their own terms, and find women that suit them.

The pigeonholing in this thread is not good.
 

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Aaron Clarey has spoken to this point that the middle class male is getting a raw deal. This is close to the mating issue @jaymbrs was describing for 30+, $75,000 - $125,000/year earning men.

 

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Aaron Clarey has spoken to this point that the middle class male is getting a raw deal. This is close to the mating issue @jaymbrs was describing for 30+, $75,000 - $125,000/year earning men.

If the point is to impress women with money, then yeah. Otherwise the 75-125k range is plenty enough ( even for a big city ) to have a decent sex life if you are not autistic/retarded or something and take good care of yourself

In the moment you play the money game you will only impress illegal immigrants or ugly broke women if you do not have a millionaire lifestyle . Or going to remote places where fresh water is not a thing and have to take a dump in a hole in the ground, like the jungles of Asia or most of Africa. Or whatever countries these guys advertise here

Your average American income money game is not really that inpressive not even for South Americans in their countries ( unless you go to the villages or ugly women ), and those guys have an average salary of like 500 dollars and are in perpetual financial crisis for like 50 years at least
 

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If the point is to impress women with money, then yeah. Otherwise the 75-125k range is plenty enough ( even for a big city ) to have a decent sex life if you are not autistic/retarded or something and take good care of yourself
$75,000 - $125,000/year isn't enough to impress women with money/lifestyle/possessions.

In many large USA cities, that's enough to get a solid but not spectacular one bedroom apartment.

If you're 30+ and childless and wish to date 30+ childless women, they often have similar salary ranges and aren't likely to be impressed with anyone in that range. Most women with a bachelor's degree or higher are getting into this range when they are 30+ and a man in his 30s in that range isn't exciting.

Some 30s/early 40s single moms might be impressed with a man in that salary range if they are mediocre single moms.
 

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$75,000 - $125,000/year isn't enough to impress women with money/lifestyle/possessions.

In many large USA cities, that's enough to get a solid but not spectacular one bedroom apartment.

If you're 30+ and childless and wish to date 30+ childless women, they often have similar salary ranges and aren't likely to be impressed with anyone in that range. Most women with a bachelor's degree or higher are getting into this range when they are 30+ and a man in his 30s in that range isn't exciting.

Some 30s/early 40s single moms might be impressed with a man in that salary range if they are mediocre single moms.
Dunno what is with the fixation of Americans with big homes

In Europe the average 1 bedroom home is like 50 Sqm ( including a small terrace ), and a 2 bedroom one like 65-70 Sqm ( including a terrace )

Guess what, if you know how to furnish it you will have more than enough space to live comfortably

You do not need big rooms and you do not need a lot of rooms ( unless you have a really big family ) . Taking into consideration that couples these days have mostly 1-2 children, a 2 or 3 bedroom apartment is enough to live a comfortable family life

It is true also that Europeans are most of the time outside of the house, but you get the idea :)
 

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Crap I’m only 5’10” and my Schwanz ist too big!

How can a guy be seen not as beta bucks but as a alpha fvcks according to you?

Cause according to your posts the only way a guy can be successful with women is:

- 6'5" or taller
- $150,000/y or more
- 6.5" d1ck or more
- Head full of hair
- Jacked
- Have high status
- Have a nice car
- Have a nice house

It looks to me that you're citing bull$hit in here that every woman regurgitates.
 

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The idea of becoming financially successful, fit, to find women is backwards. The idea should be about setting goals and achieving them for self betterment. Women will be more attracted to that than a man being obsessed with them, resulting in higher standard women to choose from.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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Dunno what is with the fixation of Americans with big homes
I spoke about that with a Hungarian kitten who spent time in America.
According to her, it has to do with the lifestyle difference.
Americans tend to spend most of their time outside work in their homes, so you need a big home in order not to feel 'cramped', but Europeans spend more time outside the house so they don't need so much space.
Now, I don't know how true that is (I haven't lived in USA), as my kitten was wealthy and she and her husband had a huge house just for the two of them (no kids), but she claimed that most people (who live outside the big cities) need to be able to drive (not much public transport like in NL/Europe), so after work most people either go straight home or have 1-2 after-work drinks and then go home.
 

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If your a lame, your a lame.

No amount of money will make a women 'like" you.

As for the average man being undesirable to women, it does hold some validity. I started working minimum wage, then barley livable money, now I'm making 75K a year. What I've learned is that people pay your more money because someone else doesn't want to do it. (Its mental anguish rather then physical when working cooperator jobs, playing the game is how its described by my colleagues.)

The glorious status of a cooperate rat race office job is gone. Its just not a respectable job anymore.


The money is their but spending 40+ hours a week in front of a computer with you finger up your a$$ is pu$sy sh1t.
 

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Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want. Why? Because this man has standards. Women do not want to work for their men. Women of today want a simp or a millionaire. Simple as that. This is what society aka social media is telling them. Get a man who accepts you for you are OR "you deserve better queen!"

Yes I am posting this out of frustration. I'm meeting many women (in their late twenties) who put in very little and expect a lot. I've never in my life had to put up with so much arrogant and self-entitled garbage from women of today.
How many of these goddamn threads are there going to be? Black pill bs. Jesus Christ SS, get it together. PUA was started by DAVID D & Allen Thompson nowhere in their books does it say

Women all just want money wah wah wah. God you are all so pathetic.

Eben I know that! Desdinova where are you? Global Marketing's site has become a nest of Black Pill Ztards.
 
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I spoke about that with a Hungarian kitten who spent time in America.
According to her, it has to do with the lifestyle difference.
Americans tend to spend most of their time outside work in their homes, so you need a big home in order not to feel 'cramped', but Europeans spend more time outside the house so they don't need so much space.
Now, I don't know how true that is (I haven't lived in USA), as my kitten was wealthy and she and her husband had a huge house just for the two of them (no kids), but she claimed that most people (who live outside the big cities) need to be able to drive (not much public transport like in NL/Europe), so after work most people either go straight home or have 1-2 after-work drinks and then go home.
I think you legitimately like talking to cats.
 

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How many of these goddamn threads are there going to be? Black pill bs. Jesus Christ SS, get it together. PUA was started by DAVID D & Allen Thompson nowhere in their books does it say

Women all just want money wah wah wah. God you are all so pathetic.

Eben I know that! Desdinova where are you? Global Marketing's site has become a nest of Black Pill Ztards.
Pretty much all of this. My lady and I have asked many other women what they look for in a man, and a ton of them say "I want a man who has a goal in life, something to shoot for." Of course, a good chunk of that could be them saying what they should want. I remember seeing that answer all the way back in the 2003 AOL chatroom days more times than anyone would care to count.

Might as well slip this in. We're both taking your advice on the whole traveling/teaching job thing. I mean this next part with full sincerity, sorry about the stuff I said before, I didn't mean that, and that came from a dark place that I put behind me. I don't know what your take is on second chances. I hope you and your wife are doing well.

Believe me, I rank you the coolest dude on this site. Next to Foe and Serenity.
 

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The idea of becoming financially successful, fit, to find women is backwards.
Being financially successful and physically fit do lead to attracting women. Achieving those things shouldn't be done for women alone, but getting women as a result of those things is a good thing.

This thread is more about having an above average income and a decent lifestyle and it still not being enough to attract and retain women. This is more about the 65th-70th percentile guy than the 95th percentile guy.
 

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How can a guy be seen not as beta bucks but as a alpha fvcks according to you?

Cause according to your posts the only way a guy can be successful with women is:

- 6'5" or taller
- $150,000/y or more
- 6.5" d1ck or more
- Head full of hair
- Jacked
- Have high status
- Have a nice car
- Have a nice house

It looks to me that you're citing bull$hit in here that every woman regurgitates.
I know a buddy who is 6'2, 300 pounds(big arms and a bit of a belly), with 2 kids by 2 different women, drives an average car, lives in a 2 bedroom apartment, and bangs some of the hottest women in the city, how? he's a bouncer at the hottest bar in the city. His social proof reigns supreme. Could he get the same type of women that he gets at the bar from Dating apps? He would tell you himself "Heck No"

One of the biggest Issue modern men face is access (along with various other things) to the women that they want. This is why the Redpill has such an obsession with "High value Men" the truth is you can be that 6'5 Chad but if you don't have access to the women that you want or women period then what? How many times have we seen this on this forum or other venues a guy who finally got his shyt together thinking now women would flock to his jock and he is still lonely?

If your a lame, your a lame.

No amount of money will make a women 'like" you.
Bingo money can't "Unlame" a "Lame" once again it goes to the point of dudes who think that money will resolve all their problems with women. I remember a buddy of mine becoming a millionaire in 2021 and he told me "Solo most women don't give a shyt if you are rich or not" let me add more context unless you're dealing with a golddigger money only matters to women in regards to the lifestyle that they want, if she really likes you for you a woman has no problem smashing you on a mattress in the traphouse with roaches on the wall.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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