Dr.Suave
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One man's garbage...I married a 22-year-old virgin. I know exactly why virginity is overrated.
One man's garbage...I married a 22-year-old virgin. I know exactly why virginity is overrated.
They do but I click the ignore button so I don’t see them anymoreThat´s fair. Now, imagine if everytime you said that, a bunch of people got triggered or something. call you "unrealistic/insecure/delusional". F01cking annoying.
Back in the day, it was mostly men going to college and holding down jobs. Now, women are hitting the books hard and getting degrees, sometimes even more than men, like at the University of Virginia mentioned in the article. Along with this, the way folks see dating and tying the knot is changing too. It looks like younger people are taking their time to settle down and are cool with keeping relationships casual. So, with more women in college and different views on dating, the old-fashioned dating scene is getting a little shake-up. This mix of school and new dating vibes is making it a bit tricky for some to find serious relationships during college and even after.Perspective: Ready for a serious relationship? You’re probably a woman
Young men who are ready for committed relationships are in short supply compared to women.www.deseret.com
my opinion: The "good men" these chicks are looking for have deduced that BetaMaxxing is just not worth it.
Here's another counterpoint to the above:Guys that want virgins to that degree are afraid because they don't compare well in the bedroom to other guys and want to eliminate that by finding a woman that doesn't know that they suck in bed.
I don't have to hear it from them. I know I am an absolute monster in the bedroom. I'm in shape, I last forever, I can fvck hard for hours on end, I need less than a minute to recover after blasting, I understand how to make women feel amazing using every tool at my disposal, and I make women who say it's impossible for them to squirt, squirt routinely, many for the first time and some of them start freaking out while it is happening.Here's another counterpoint to the above:
your belief that you're good in bed is based on what a woman or several women have told you. But when a particular woman has had sex with many guys, how do you know she didn't say the same thing to every one of them? And how worthy her opinion is anyway when it's well known that the more sexual partners she's had, the more messed up she is.
On the other hand, take a 22yrs old virgin, who has rejected guys hitting on her since she was 15. When she gives you her virginity, that's a factual statement that she considers you better than all the other guys she could've had sex with.
I don't know man, from my research women don't enjoy being fvcked hard for too long, let alone for hours on end. Physically it's not a pleasure anymore and it also makes them think the man doesn't find them attractive that's why he doesn't cvm. Somewhere between a two pump chump and hours of hard fvcking there's a sweet spot and it's probably around 15-20min mark.I last forever, I can fvck hard for hours on end, I need less than a minute to recover after blasting,
I suggest you do more research.I don't know man, from my research women don't enjoy being fvcked hard for too long, let alone for hours on end. Physically it's not a pleasure anymore and it also makes them think the man doesn't find them attractive that's why he doesn't cvm. Somewhere between a two pump chump and hours of hard fvcking there's a sweet spot and it's probably around 15-20min mark.
And 10 years into the marriage, more likely 7when she starts getting unhaaaaaaaappppyyyyy, she’s going to wonder even hard what other c0ck might feel like and how she “missed out” on the experiences she could have had if she wasn’t in a relationship with you…Here's another counterpoint to the above:
your belief that you're good in bed is based on what a woman or several women have told you. But when a particular woman has had sex with many guys, how do you know she didn't say the same thing to every one of them? And how worthy her opinion is anyway when it's well known that the more sexual partners she's had, the more messed up she is.
On the other hand, take a 22yrs old virgin, who has rejected guys hitting on her since she was 15. When she gives you her virginity, that's a factual statement that she considers you better than all the other guys she could've had sex with.
Theoretically, that can happen with any woman. In reality, it's much more probable to happen with a woman who already had the taste of several dycks. Let's take 3 similarly looking 22yrs old girls. The one is the virgin in my example, the 2nd has had 3 boyfriends, the 3rd has had casual sex with various guys and since 18 is a pornstar. The first 2 girls, while on the surface have a similar, what the society would call normal evolution, actually have a totally different mindset (as evidenced by their past), which projected in the future, let's say 10yrs into a marriage, give very different probable realities. The third one might as well be an alien when compared to the first 2.And 10 years into the marriage, more likely 7when she starts getting unhaaaaaaaappppyyyyy, she’s going to wonder even hard what other c0ck might feel like and how she “missed out” on the experiences she could have had if she wasn’t in a relationship with you…
Lets cut the BS.If you're asking for a virgin that much, at least you should be every girls dream. I would like to see picture of your body, how much you weigh and how tall are you?
read my replies on this thread and you'll see several reasons.I can't come up with any other reason.
It's highly questionable that it's in female nature to be promiscuous. Even if that's so, it doesn't take more than an average woman to control those tendencies, just as most men can control their testosterone induced aggressiveness.Here's the kicker tho: women are HARD WIRED to have lets say, "certain tendencies ". This gentlemen, is what we call FEMALE NATURE. Hence the word NATURE.
I don't think so. Not even on a declarative level isn't the percentage that high. On an actual (meaning beliefs and actions derived from them) level, it's much much smaller.Yes, @pipeman84 , i told you MANY times that 85 % of men have the same wish as you.
It's a new era, but I don't think it automatically makes it a bad era because strippers are now on OF and porn is more accessible.We wouldn't even imagine that Only Fans would EVER be a thing when we only knew about pron from books and "very secretive parts" in the video shop. Newsflash: the videoshop, the VHS, and the books are all GONE. Its a new era.
This sounds un healthy at worst and like a double edge sword at best, sounds anyway, not sure it actually is. But I guess as long as you are feeling good, enjoy it broI last forever, I can fvck hard for hours on end, I need less than a minute to recover after blasting,
Yeah a woman might control those tendencies, but perhaps AFTER she's been through a slvt phase (or 2,or 3, or 4). If I follow your dichotomy she is already written off by having slept with ONE man other .read my replies on this thread and you'll see several reasons.
It's highly questionable that it's in female nature to be promiscuous. Even if that's so, it doesn't take more than an average woman to control those tendencies, just as most men can control their testosterone induced aggressiveness.
I don't think so. Not even on a declarative level isn't the percentage that high. On an actual (meaning beliefs and actions derived from them) level, it's much much smaller.
It's a new era, but I don't think it automatically makes it a bad era because strippers are now on OF and porn is more accessible.
I don't think so ... IMO how a girl handles her sexuality in the 14-21yrs interval is going to define her entire life ... kind of like how the first 7 years in a human's life are paramount for later development. A girl who's been a slut in that age range but will turn into a loyal housewife later on is as likely as a child raised by wolfs and who by the age of 7 can't speak any language, becoming proficient in several languages later on in life.Yeah a woman might control those tendencies, but perhaps AFTER she's been through a slvt phase (or 2,or 3, or 4). If I follow your dichotomy she is already written off by having slept with ONE man other .
All men are given this opportunity, no one is forced to commit to any woman.If given the opportunity most men would definitely want a loyal woman who doesn't cheat, brings diseases, gets pregnant by other men ect.
A clinically sane woman who got a good man to commit to her has no incentive to cheat. If she's not clinically sane, then why would any sane guy commit to her?Its a new era, meaning that women have less intencive to be loyal to one man for an entire lifetime. We know the reasons why by now. On top of that it's extremely easy to get a quick lay ,especially for any woman above hb4.
Lets go bro, this is what doesnt make sense to me:Lets cut the BS.
Bro, that's guy is an incel, haven't you noticed?Lets go bro, this is what doesnt make sense to me:
Pipeman: "I could bang a hot non virgin girl with a condom as recreational use only, but I wont commit exclusivity to a girl unless she´s a virgin" (Not the exact words but that´s the gist of it)
and instead of brotherly support, most replies are:
- You are unrealistic/insecure/delusional
- She could lie to you. She will never tell you the real number anyway. Multiply the number she says by 4
- Dont ask questions you dont want to know the answer to. Its not the 19XXs anymore
Or some variant of the above.
We should be glad he has some standards, and support him, imho anyway. If after some time he doesnt find what he´s looking for, at some point maybe he will have to either lower his standards a little bit or be ready to give up kids in a marriage.
But at least he was always true to himself and he will cross that bridge when he gets there. But instead of support he gets garbage replies.
A woman being a virgin is not a standard per se, is more like a cope for something elseWe should be glad he has some standards, and support him,