article: Perspective: Where have all the good men gone?

[Pandora]

Tell @Pandora about it. Like two out of every three virgins are a pain and a headache. Its like @pipeman84 said once:

"All healthy women are virgins. That doesnt mean all virgin women are healthy".

Yeh that was my qoute too but we are all on the same page. Virgins can be a pain. Guys who never had virgins idealize virgins.

Many virgins dont have relationship skills. Im not saying date a ***** but virginity is just the minimum.

 

[pipeman84]

Yes, you minimum have to be in great shape to be asking such a "wonderful" girl, I think that's a fair assessment.

I just explained using 3 names of well known actors, all considered sex symbols, that as far as physical attractiveness goes, there's a wide variety. In the end the only assessment that matters is the one the girl makes.

Can you imagine the following scenario: I meet a girl I like, but for whatever reason she doesn't find me attractive. And then I tell her: how is that possible, can't you see that objectively speaking, (using BMI and fat/muscle ratio from a Dexa scan) I am in great shape? Plus, the user @All_Kindz_Of_Gainz from the forum Sosuave saw my photo and gave me his stamp of approval.

 

[Bigpapa]

Perspective: Ready for a serious relationship? You’re probably a woman

Young men who are ready for committed relationships are in short supply compared to women.

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my opinion: The "good men" these chicks are looking for have deduced that BetaMaxxing is just not worth it.

Yeah, better be an incel than a “beta”. Amazing advice

What other advices you have under your sleeve?

If everyone would be “alpha”, then the threshold for being alpha would only go up and most guys would still be “beta”. This is how things work

 

[Pandora]

Guys that want virgins to that degree are afraid because they don't compare well in the bedroom to other guys and want to eliminate that by finding a woman that doesn't know that they suck in bed.

I dont agree with this totally. Yes this is part of it but not the main reason. Lets be real no man wants a woman that has submitted her soul to many men.

This shows a lack of impulse control and self esteem. Virginity is preferable but there are many myths about the American virgin that I had to learn the hard way.

1.) They dont neccesarily get alpha widowed after you take their virginity. I have had hoes become alpha widowed way more than the 2 virgins I smashed. The hores cant get over me to this day. The virgins quickly let me go.

2.) Virgins often have no relationships skills. You are their first boyfriend so they are retarded when it comes to relationships. Virgins can be toxic too. Toxicity ends when you have processed your past trauma. Virgins have not done that. This applies to American virgins. Maybe virgins from 3rd world nations are different. I think they are. All I know is that American black female virgins are stubborn as fawk. Maybe white virgins are different idk.

 

[Bigpapa]

I just said one criteria "physique", no need to give all that mental masturbation for not sending a picture. My advice to you will be get in better shape before asking a virgin to commit.

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[AmsterdamAssassin]

Lets be real no man wants a woman that has submitted her soul to many men.

Women only give their soul to the Soul Eater, not lower lifeforms like men.

 

[SargeMaximus]

To be fair, some posters seem "obssesed/triggered" about this topic on both sides of the coin. My humble opinion anyway.

I prefer women with experience. You wouldn’t hire someone with no experience for a vital position in your company, why would you do it for your dating life?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I prefer women with experience. You wouldn’t hire someone with no experience for a vital position in your company, why would you do it for your dating life?

Virgins are overrated. I've had a few and while their enthusiasm and lack of negative sexual experiences, I prefer women who know how to have sex.

 

[pipeman84]

I prefer women with experience. You wouldn’t hire someone with no experience for a vital position in your company, why would you do it for your dating life?

So you'd rather have a CFO who worked for a few other companies and ran them into the ground instead of getting someone right out of university?
A woman with experience is actually either a hoe, more or less, or a woman with experience in failed relationships. They are good for casual sex, sure, but not for commitment (the idea of article in OP).

 

[SargeMaximus]

So you'd rather have a CFO who worked for a few other companies and ran them into the ground instead of getting someone right out of university?
A woman with experience is actually either a hoe, more or less, or a woman with experience in failed relationships. They are good for casual sex, sure, but not for commitment (the idea of article in OP).

Why are you assuming the cfo ran their other companies into the ground? Your negative bias is blatant

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

So you'd rather have a CFO who worked for a few other companies and ran them into the ground instead of getting someone right out of university?

No, that would be like dating a woman with a string of ex-husbands and got rich on the divorces.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Virgins are overrated.

They only have value because they are very hard to find. If 50% of all women were virgins, most people wouldnt care about this topic either way to begin with.

 

[Dr.Suave]

I prefer women with experience.

That´s fair. Now, imagine if everytime you said that, a bunch of people got triggered or something. call you "unrealistic/insecure/delusional". F01cking annoying.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

They only have value because they are very hard to find. If 50% of all women were virgins, most people wouldnt care about this topic either way to begin with.

I married a 22-year-old virgin. I know exactly why virginity is overrated.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I have a feeling those are the virgins waiting for the suicide bombers after they 'martyred' themselves.

 

[Dr.Suave]

I married a 22-year-old virgin. I know exactly why virginity is overrated.

One man's garbage...

 

[SargeMaximus]

That´s fair. Now, imagine if everytime you said that, a bunch of people got triggered or something. call you "unrealistic/insecure/delusional". F01cking annoying.

They do but I click the ignore button so I don’t see them anymore

 

[self_is_an_illusion]

Perspective: Ready for a serious relationship? You’re probably a woman

Young men who are ready for committed relationships are in short supply compared to women.

www.deseret.com

my opinion: The "good men" these chicks are looking for have deduced that BetaMaxxing is just not worth it.

Back in the day, it was mostly men going to college and holding down jobs. Now, women are hitting the books hard and getting degrees, sometimes even more than men, like at the University of Virginia mentioned in the article. Along with this, the way folks see dating and tying the knot is changing too. It looks like younger people are taking their time to settle down and are cool with keeping relationships casual. So, with more women in college and different views on dating, the old-fashioned dating scene is getting a little shake-up. This mix of school and new dating vibes is making it a bit tricky for some to find serious relationships during college and even after.

 

[pipeman84]

Guys that want virgins to that degree are afraid because they don't compare well in the bedroom to other guys and want to eliminate that by finding a woman that doesn't know that they suck in bed.

Here's another counterpoint to the above:
your belief that you're good in bed is based on what a woman or several women have told you. But when a particular woman has had sex with many guys, how do you know she didn't say the same thing to every one of them? And how worthy her opinion is anyway when it's well known that the more sexual partners she's had, the more messed up she is.

On the other hand, take a 22yrs old virgin, who has rejected guys hitting on her since she was 15. When she gives you her virginity, that's a factual statement that she considers you better than all the other guys she could've had sex with.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Here's another counterpoint to the above:
your belief that you're good in bed is based on what a woman or several women have told you. But when a particular woman has had sex with many guys, how do you know she didn't say the same thing to every one of them? And how worthy her opinion is anyway when it's well known that the more sexual partners she's had, the more messed up she is.

On the other hand, take a 22yrs old virgin, who has rejected guys hitting on her since she was 15. When she gives you her virginity, that's a factual statement that she considers you better than all the other guys she could've had sex with.

I don't have to hear it from them. I know I am an absolute monster in the bedroom. I'm in shape, I last forever, I can fvck hard for hours on end, I need less than a minute to recover after blasting, I understand how to make women feel amazing using every tool at my disposal, and I make women who say it's impossible for them to squirt, squirt routinely, many for the first time and some of them start freaking out while it is happening.

They are the ones usually asking for a timeout because the room is spinning from them them cvmming so many times and the sheets are completely soaked.

If other guys are able to do that, then fair game. I'm exceptionally confident in my abilities in that domain, and I have no problem telling them prior to anything happening. I'm pretty sure if I wasn't up to what I was talking they would let me know but it's actually usually the other way...I exceed their expectations even based on what I have told them ahead of time and they can't stop talking about it. Not just after it happens but on a routine every day basis.

And the number one way I know?

Because every woman I have ever dated that has introduced me to their friends has had at least one of them try to get at me and you know why that is...because they were told about my skills.