It's not illegal because I don't use brothels and the women are not coerced, I don't really want to debate this with you when google is at your fingertips, I'm actually living here and experiencing this reality.
You went to an incall, therefore its a bawdy house. If enough people complained, the police could raid such a place and arrest everyone inside. Just because it is not enforced does not mean its not illegal.
Murk said:
I had an itch to scratch so I scratched it. I don't tell my GF because I don't want to hurt her, it would complicate my life and go against the atmosphere of calm compliance I've cultivated in my 33 years.
Did you get tested? How can you hurt her if it's just an "itch" that she can't scratch but only a hooker can?
Murk said:
You mention the price of the hooker and the fact anyone can see her as if shes my partner or a status symbol?
Not really, it's more of a reflection of how gross the whole thing is and it's like a cesspool.
Look at it this way. You are seeing this hooker and have one gf, while she has probably seen thousands of guys and counting. Don't you see that is gross or an imbalance? You go into her room, then too many guys have been in that same room with her before you went in that place and that's gross. People that are into all sorts of strange and weird things. How do you know there isn't some hidden camera recording things going on in there? They could have that for security purposes.
Murk said:
Not me being desperate for sex, because I had sex the night before.
You are desperate to see hookers no matter how you justify it. You may not be desperate for sex in principle, but you are still desperate for the chad-playboy lifestyle which you don't have. That includes rotations with various hot women, picking up women online and on the street, etc.... To just have a gf gets boring with the same person and is not exciting enough.
The beta-picture is that you are not living the true lifestyle you want and are supplementing it by using hookers and really having a gf to enable that behaviour by providing emotional support to living a life of mediocrity so you can say to yourself what you are saying here.
You keep justifying that you are not desperate for sex, but fail to mention the same boring sex with a woman you are tired of but don't want to lose but are concerned about hurting her feelings. That is the beta-move.