Do alpha males pay for sex?

[Lover_boy]

Can a man be alpha in every way (business, human relations, even in his own relationship with his woman) and still be considered an alpha male if he hires an escort for sexual companionship? Generally speaking of a man in any age group.

I've had my phase of paying for escorts in my earlier to mid twenties but I later as I kept doing it I felt kinda bad or sorry for myself afterwards. (Even if the experience was good). After turning 28 I decided it wasn't going to pursue it any longer. It's kinda like porn in a instant gratification type of way.

Has anyone here payed a prostitute for sex? How did you feel afterwards? Do you still do it? Curious what the manosphere thinks about this.

Also, how would one explain a female's mind in doing this type of work? Perhaps its part of her dualistic sexual strategy and a hypergamy on steriods?

 

[firstbornunicorn]

Why would I?

I have enough control to not *need* sex, and it's pretty easy to get it when I do want it even when I have no regular(s).

 

[2Rocky]

no they pay them to leave....

 

[Serenity]

still be considered an alpha male if he hires an escort for sexual companionship?

What you're asking here is if others would consider him an alpha male, given that they know he paid for sex, absolutely not. There's a reason almost nobody runs around bragging about that prostitute they paid to fvck. A man paying for sex is seen as negative sexual value, so low value that he pays to have women fvck him as opposed to an alpha who women actually desire to fvck.

Has anyone here payed a prostitute for sex? How did you feel afterwards? Do you still do it?

I have, twice. I felt disappointed and like I wasted my money, struggled to stay hard, the whole thing was just a turn off. Nothing wrong with their performance though, they really tried doing their best to pretend they were into it and that it wasn't just another day at the job. Haven't done it since and I have zero desire to.

One of the things that turns me on the most is when a woman desires to fvck me without anything else in return, genuine desire is sexy AF. There's no genuine sexual desire with a prostitute, she's not into me sexually, she's just into my money and willing to do certain physical acts to obtain it.

Also, how would one explain a female's mind in doing this type of work?

Same reason most of us do work, money...

Perhaps its part of her dualistic sexual strategy and a hypergamy on steriods?

They mostly fvck a bunch of unattractive and socially incompetent weirdos, I fail to see how that's a viable sexual strategy or hypergamy. The only reason they do it is the low requirements and comparatively high pay. None of them would do it if they could do something else with their limited skillset and get paid the same or more.

 

[bmp2cpm]

Men very much value women who have a low partner count. Escorts are the exact opposite of what men value.

The answer to your question

“Also, how would one explain a female's mind in doing this type of work?”

is mental illness and drug addiction. Escorts are low quality.

Alpha men do not waste time on low quality.

 

[DonJuanjr]

What would be lower in a woman's eyes, paying for a prostitute, or being an incel?

 

[Black Widow Void]

These responses crack me up.

Although I have never paid legal tender in exchange for a lay, we have all "paid" in some shape or form.

If I buy a gal a drink, take her out or even respond to some useless and meaningless text ... because it will lead to my desired 'end result.' then, I've "paid" in some way and so has everyone else here.

The fact that many members here are trying to prove their "Alpha-ness" to a bunch of internet male strangers among this forum is definitely a new low.

Fact is; we have all 'paid' in some shape or form... and denial of the facts doesn't change them.

 

[SW15]

What would be lower in a woman's eyes, paying for a prostitute, or being an incel?

Incel

Although I have never paid legal tender in exchange for a lay, we have all "paid" in some shape or form.

Fact is; we have all 'paid' in some shape or form... and denial of the facts doesn't change them.

I agree. The guy who buys a Mercedes-Benz or Porsche is paying for sex too. A lot of those guys buy those cars for access to vagina.

 

[Focal core]

for todays modern world where low quality women were abundance paying for sex is one way to get the deeds done and focus only on your goals without the hassle dealing with women emotion. most of modern women are a proper garden tool anyway

 

[The Duke]

Some of you think way too much and it will make success with women more difficult. But back to the subject, it's like a release....one level more than masturbation. That's it.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Yes but only if he’s a very rich man and does it to save himself time and frustration from the dating game.

 

[metalwater]

hmm; do alpha care if they pay for sex, or if anyone does.

we all pay and it's always transactional.

but but but... she came on to me...

sure she wanted tingles: that was the transaction.

sure she wanted money: that was the transaction.

sure she wanted to have her family continue to live on your land: that was the transaction

it goes on and on... Does anyone has any example that is not transactional in some way...

can anyone give an example that is not transactional?

 

[DonJuanjr]

can anyone give an example that is not transactional?

Between the guy and girl banging? If so, then a scenario where the prostitute was paid for by someone else. In that case, it wouldn't be transactional for the guy getting laid by the prostitute.

 

[bat soup]

Can a man be alpha in every way (business, human relations, even in his own relationship with his woman) and still be considered an alpha male if he hires an escort for sexual companionship? Generally speaking of a man in any age group.

I've had my phase of paying for escorts in my earlier to mid twenties but I later as I kept doing it I felt kinda bad or sorry for myself afterwards. (Even if the experience was good). After turning 28 I decided it wasn't going to pursue it any longer. It's kinda like porn in a instant gratification type of way.

Has anyone here payed a prostitute for sex? How did you feel afterwards? Do you still do it? Curious what the manosphere thinks about this.

Also, how would one explain a female's mind in doing this type of work? Perhaps its part of her dualistic sexual strategy and a hypergamy on steriods?

I find it strange how some people are so emotional about sex. As if it's some kind of sacred bonding ritual. Sex is just a physical activity that happens to be enjoyable. It's also something that men enjoy far more than women.

Rich men often pay for sex, simply because they can. Their time is worth far too much to spend it "getting to know" women that may or may not ever put out or having to deal with their ugly personalities.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Between the guy and girl banging? If so, then a scenario where the prostitute was paid for by someone else. In that case, it wouldn't be transactional for the guy getting laid by the prostitute.

The physical act of sex is give and take

 

[DonJuanjr]

The physical act of sex is give and take

I agree. I assumed we were already talking with this in mind.

 

[derby1]

Their time is worth far too much to spend it "getting to know" women that may or may not ever put out or having to deal with their ugly personalities.

This, the last 10 women ive managed to chat to, by the time theyve done all their messing about and lunatic behaviour, of high interest followed by low interest.

Add to this I would estimate 8 out of 10 the ex was there all along. and they will ghost after having the audaity to pursue me the same day

No thanks Id rather pay.

 

[bat soup]

This, the last 10 women ive managed to chat to, by the time theyve done all their messing about and lunatic behaviour, of high interest followed by low interest.

Add to this I would estimate 8 out of 10 the ex was there all along. and they will ghost after having the audaity to pursue me the same day

No thanks Id rather pay.

It's worth paying NOT to have to get to know most women.

 

[bat soup]

The term "alpha male" comes from studies of monkeys. The biggest, strongest monkey gets the best bananas and the females. The others wait around and take what's left.

In human society, the equivalent of the alpha male is the king/president/sultan/dictador. He takes what he wants and everyone else gets what's left. If he wants to pay and bang 5 women per day, he does so and he's still the alpha male.

Anyone who says otherwise ends up disappearing mysteriously and never being found.

 

[DonJuanjr]

In human society, the equivalent of the alpha male is the king/president/sultan/dictador. He takes what he wants and everyone else gets what's left. If he wants to pay and bang 5 women per day, he does so and he's still the alpha male.

Only in the context of male dominance hierarchies, and resource acquisition hierarchies. Not in intersexual dynamics. What if that king/sultan/dictator/president went into a bar disquised, and tried to get a female through seduction, but another guy came in and seduced her instead?