Do alpha males pay for sex?

[Bethatsocialguy]

Can a man be alpha in every way (business, human relations, even in his own relationship with his woman) and still be considered an alpha male if he hires an escort for sexual companionship? Generally speaking of a man in any age group.

I've had my phase of paying for escorts in my earlier to mid twenties but I later as I kept doing it I felt kinda bad or sorry for myself afterwards. (Even if the experience was good). After turning 28 I decided it wasn't going to pursue it any longer. It's kinda like porn in a instant gratification type of way.

Has anyone here payed a prostitute for sex? How did you feel afterwards? Do you still do it? Curious what the manosphere thinks about this.

Also, how would one explain a female's mind in doing this type of work? Perhaps its part of her dualistic sexual strategy and a hypergamy on steriods?

If I ever had to pay for sex, I would just know that me as myself cannot attract women to have sex with me which shows a bigger problem with myself. Paying for sex cheapens you as a person, just like watching porn

 

[SW15]

Paying for sex cheapens you as a person, just like watching porn

For some men, the choice is paying directly for sex or going without sex for very long periods of time.

 

[Bethatsocialguy]

For some men, the choice is paying directly for sex or going without sex for very long periods of time.

OR working on yourself and understanding your weaknesses. A lot of guys don't understand that in order to get sex, you need to be a man of quality in some way. Whether that is physically, mentally or with status/money. I believe that any man who knows their weaknesses and knows what to do to improve them will be successful. I know this from my job (life/dating coach)

 

[RBK]

We all pay for it one way or another.

 

[corrector]

OR working on yourself and understanding your weaknesses. A lot of guys don't understand that in order to get sex, you need to be a man of quality in some way. Whether that is physically, mentally or with status/money. I believe that any man who knows their weaknesses and knows what to do to improve them will be successful. I know this from my job (life/dating coach)

...and you are going without sex or paying directly for it in the meantime while you are waiting 10 years to self-improve.

 

[ezio6]

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...and you are going without sex or paying directly for it in the meantime while you are waiting 10 years to self-improve.

Savage

 

[HaleyBaron]

In my opinion paying for sex is for losers only when it comes from a position of weakness...a decent smv guy that wants a quickie before going to back to his precision tasks is hardly a loser in my opinion unlike the guy in the first example.

Decent smv guys getting quickies is a moment of weakness. I'm not hating on escort paying, but I'm not going to give it any leverage in the game of hunting.

 

[SW15]

We all pay for it one way or another.

I've observed men getting divorced in my social sphere over the years. Some of these men had unpleasant financial settlements in their divorces. Multiple times, I made the observation....

"This is the bill coming due for past vaginal access"

If you think about it, financial settlements in divorces are nothing but payments for previous vaginal access.

Yes, all men pay for sex either directly or indirectly. There's not much of a difference between paying directly or paying eventually when the divorce happens.

 

[HaleyBaron]

For some men, the choice is paying directly for sex or going without sex for very long periods of time.

The only people I give a pass in paying for sex are the truly unfortunate ugly men or disabled men of this world. I still remember that documentary of the disabled guy who went to a sex parlor to get himself some while the pretty hooker wheeled him into the room.

 

[SW15]

The only people I give a pass in paying for sex are the truly unfortunate ugly men or disabled men of this world. I still remember that documentary of the disabled guy who went to a sex parlor to get himself some while the pretty hooker wheeled him into the room.

Why only those men? I never saw that documentary.

I think about some of the divorced men I know. If you think about the amount of their divorce settlements, the money they spent on their girlfriends/wives over the course of that relationship to maintain it to keep sex flow going, and the sex frequency during the duration of the relationship, they weren't saving much money as compared to paying for the sex directly. And, they had to deal with the downsides of relationships such as the female created drama, etc.

Paying for sex directly is neither alpha nor beta.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

The only way I’d consider paying is for a BJ. I’ve had a couple of escort BJs & they were great. However, I’m not a big BJ fan, so it’s not likely.

 

[corrector]

The only people I give a pass in paying for sex are the truly unfortunate ugly men or disabled men of this world. I still remember that documentary of the disabled guy who went to a sex parlor to get himself some while the pretty hooker wheeled him into the room.

Why would you give a pass? I've seen disabled men with hot gfs. Chads can be disabled too but they have the right face and body and being on a wheelchair for them doesn't mean anything. Ugly guys get allot of pity action probably more than average looking guys. Take your ugly guy, stick him in south east Asia or a Latin American country and problem solved.

 

[2Rocky]

I've worked some remote places with limited time back in civilization where "professional services" would be a worthwhile use of time and money.
For the married man who craves some variety, a legal brothel is probably a saving grace. Blowing 1500 with a bookie or a hookie...which one is gonna make you smile?

 

[corrector]

I read a review where a client claimed a particular escort made him feel like an alpha-male rather than a client. That reminded me of this thread. Guess they are paid to make you feel like an alpha-male if the service is good. The idea of telling a stranger what to do in order to get you off, even if you are paying for it, is still hot. As long as it doesn't feel she's doing it in a heavy, obligatory way because you paid for it, now she has to deliver (ie which would sound like poor service anyway), then she could bring out the alpha-male.

 

[Gamisch]

I read a review where a client claimed a particular escort made him feel like an alpha-male rather than a client. That reminded me of this thread. Guess they are paid to make you feel like an alpha-male if the service is good. The idea of telling a stranger what to do in order to get you off, even if you are paying for it, is still hot. As long as it doesn't feel she's doing it in a heavy, obligatory way because you paid for it, now she has to deliver (ie which would sound like poor service anyway), then she could bring out the alpha-male.

Yes ,that man pays for an illusion. Ain't no bringing out the Alpha male if that was never there to begin with. And we can talk all day long about female nature ect, at the end of the day havin and getting a woman its still the realest, purest form of seduction. Nothing beats true desire, and the whole pathway to this true desire.

If that man would have his " game together " ,he would be able to pull a woman from anywhere and get the same treatment wherever he likes.

Btw, what do you think these women do with the money?? Exactly, they go out and search for the true alphas to have fun with ( and probably spend money on them).

 

[EyeBRollin]

The only way I’d consider paying is for a BJ. I’ve had a couple of escort BJs & they were great. However, I’m not a big BJ fan, so it’s not likely.

As far as safety is concerned unless you plan on wearing a condom it is flat out reckless to receive oral from an escort.

 

[corrector]

Yes ,that man pays for an illusion.

She is a real woman though. A real woman will generate feelings with a man just by being there flesh and blood.

Ain't no bringing out the Alpha male if that was never there to begin with. And we can talk all day long about female nature ect, at the end of the day havin and getting a woman its still the realest, purest form of seduction. Nothing beats true desire, and the whole pathway to this true desire.

Then what about YMMV. That means Your Miles May Very. Escorts could be giving inconsistent service and be more passionate and raw about clients she likes and more mechanical and dead-fish to clients she does not like. That's why some clients could report some amazing service or treatment but the next client will think that's a review because he got this awful mechanical and rushed service.

If that man would have his " game together " ,he would be able to pull a woman from anywhere and get the same treatment wherever he likes.

Maybe. Then again maybe not. Depends on his looks and who he can attract and what the values are.

Btw, what do you think these women do with the money?? Exactly, they go out and search for the true alphas to have fun with ( and probably spend money on them).

Or, maybe to help their impoverished family members in their Latin American countries. They earn more doing that than other minimum wage jobs and can afford to send more money by the wire. Its all for a good cause.

Aside the point, I wouldn't want a woman who is being banged up by other guys who are paying her. Guys who do disgusting things with her.

 

[Gamisch]

She is a real woman though. A real woman will generate feelings with a man just by being there flesh and blood.



Then what about YMMV. That means Your Miles May Very. Escorts could be giving inconsistent service and be more passionate and raw about clients she likes and more mechanical and dead-fish to clients she does not like. That's why some clients could report some amazing service or treatment but the next client will think that's a review because he got this awful mechanical and rushed service.



Maybe. Then again maybe not. Depends on his looks and who he can attract and what the values are.



Or, maybe to help their impoverished family members in their Latin American countries. They earn more doing that than other minimum wage jobs and can afford to send more money by the wire. Its all for a good cause.

Oh yeah I've been to hookers ( legal overhere, brothels cost you 30 bucks a pop for HB8 + latinas and E Europeans) and I am that guy they get hot for. They wanna give their numbers, stay in touch. Let me pop a extra one when I am done. Trying to kiss me.

Still I am morally against it. Makes me feel less of a man.plus I can get p00n by approach or the lazy version would be OLD.
No need to pay for a stink hole .Personal opinion tho.

You romanticize what they do with the money btw . They spend it on clothes drugs party and maybe save some to improve their home situation.

Being a prostitute comes with a price ,that's a mental price , these women will break some or later. Think about beauty that wears off...

 

[EyeBRollin]

Oh yeah I've been to hookers ( legal overhere, brothels cost you 30 bucks a pop for HB8 + latinas and E Europeans) and I am that guy they get hot for. They wanna give their numbers, stay in touch. Let me pop a extra one when I am done. Trying to kiss me.

Still I am morally against it. Makes me feel less of a man.plus I can get p00n by approach or the lazy version would be OLD.
No need to pay for a stink hole .Personal opinion tho.

You romanticize what they do with the money btw . They spend it on clothes drugs party and maybe save some to improve their home situation.

Being a prostitute comes with a price ,that's a mental price , these women will break some or later. Think about beauty that wears off...

Legal pay for poon might be a contributor to less violent incels…?

Pros serve a purpose. Honestly women overall are just a waste of time and annoying as fvck. Pros alleviate those negatives by making it a single transaction.

The only “good” woman is one that you can tolerate and will be a good mother to your offspring. It’s hard though. Women are really fvcking annoying.

 

[Gamisch]

Legal pay for poon might be a contributor to less violent incels…?

Pros serve a purpose. Honestly women overall are just a waste of time and annoying as fvck. Pros alleviate those negatives by making it a single transaction.

The only “good” woman is one that you can tolerate and will be a good mother to your offspring. It’s hard though. Women are really fvcking annoying.

Oh yeah most definitely. I agree that once a man goes through a dry spell its a good way to regain some ( sexual) confidence. Also agree it does prevent men from being desperate and prevents rape. But it's too easy, I just dont like its as I rather hunt for my meat.

But the topic was do Alphas pay. Imo a Alpha loses frame( which is all personal btw). Even the most religious dude over here been at least once to those brothels. It's a common thing, cheapens the price for pvssy. And those women are actually damn pretty..

But generally, women here waiting in line for the alphas . No need to chase if it comes to you. And that's what I am trying to make clear , these prostitutes are human. They keep it to themselves , and jn their " free time" still chase Alpha dudes to reproduce ,having many orbiters ect. You WONT be able to tell if a woman does this, without having lots of experience with women. I know many girls who did this.

The alphas over here who are addicted to the brothels always have other mental issues such as anger, paranoia ect.