Why are men shamed for using escorts/hookers? Isnt that the ultimate dread if a guy has used them?

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Its about what you want, not what she wants. People who always worry about what women want always have to worry "gee, is she attracted to me, I wonder if I'll make a move" and then get amogged by someone else who is more confident. Just paying for it is worth taking a break out of that mindset.
I pretty much take the attitude with any gal I'm with like I am hiring a pro, moving her around to various positions, especially the spooning position when I'm a bit tired. I've had gals tell me that I seem bigger in this position, and indeed, this position usually does the trick with women with a looser vajaya. I am focused purely on me getting an ejaculation(s). :cool:

That said, I don't tell a gal to do oral, although I certainly encourage it; I remember one gal wanting hints as to how to do it, and I was definitely the patient, understanding professor. :cool:

Oh, and I also don't poke in the poop chute. :eek:
 

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I'm going to just not reply to posters who can't seem to put 1 and 1 together and need everything spelled out to them.

The message is not to have sex. The message is to navigate your ship into the waters of women who want you completely. Try to meditate on this a moment before rushing to hit the reply button and taking bits and pieces out of context. Or go off and search for one of your dumb articles from 1992 about how a 16 year old girl says all men are meanie guts to keep your hyper little brain distracted.



Again you are being really annoying here taking something out of context and not fully getting the whole.

If you are with a real girlfriend who is faking it THEN YOU ARE NOT WITH A WOMAN WHO IS FULLY SUBMISSIVE / FULLY INTO YOU which is the essence of what I wrote. A girlfriend who has to fake it is no longer in her FEMININE Part of the MAS / FEM POLARITY .

A real girl fakes nothing with a man she is fully into. A man fully in his MASCULINE wouldn't have it.
Oh, what pap. A gal that feels the need to fake it, or tell me how big I am, etc., is showing her interest in me.
 

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Well maybe depending on how many people are in the room and are you kissing her at the same time?
How about some context champ?
I mean, hunched over an iPhone in the bathroom?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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They carry allot more demons then that. They've got lithe (who wont submit to man, tries to usurp Eve), succubus. I got a panic attack and nervous melt-down from demonic attacks after visiting a Brazilian hor back in December 5, 2014 so I know first hand some of them have allot of demons and they could attack you and mess your mind up badly. I am free from these types of spirits now. I wish it was just the woman, but it's the woman plus these demons and it makes it kinda occultic.

But I'm sure you probably meant it in more of a subtle and indirect way as it is for most people. I still can't figure out what happened there up to today for such a jarring experience.



Agreed.
Wow, that episode sounds like Cher's song "Dark Lady".

 

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And as you have experienced, your soul contaminated and emptied by the experience.
But you cant experience the positive without a negative experiemce like that. Now I really enjoy my sanity on a level not before that experience! Even feeling bad is better than losing your mind.
 

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Not true at all unless it's a man who has no other options except prostitutes.
There is no such thing as "no options". There is always options, even for the ugly guys.

Using that argument is just an excuse for not being accountable and taking action thus choosing the easy path of least resistance...
 

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I don't recommend that. I would suggest being attractive to other girls and keep some orbiters.
Once a girl sees you as a social eunuch its over.
And yes sir there is a point that a man having a lover will help there marriage.

"No woman wants to fck a guy no other women want to fck"

"A woman would rather share an alpha then be stuck with a beta"

RM book1

This is nature and biology spelled out in street language. Lol trait facts.
The guys that hate these truths are the ones that cant face their own improvement and self love and then go blackpill
Nah man, women love bathroom masturbators.

The tricky thing is when your legs go weak when you finish and you fall and hit your head on the sink.
 

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Bathsheba was innocent. She was basically raped by King David. You can't say a woman is beautiful, a man plots to sleep with her and murder her husband, and then blame the woman for that.

Samson's married an enemy woman/ Philistine, and he disobeyed God's laws rather than marry another Israelite. The message is not about Delilah being treacherous, but about Sampson putting himself in a bad situation that wasn't necessary. It's not a general issue about women.

By the way, I personally would not be rooting for either David or Sampson. Both of them have no issues finding any woman. David had many different wives and didn't have to go with Bathsheba like that. God spared His life because He was genuinely repentant for what he did and sorry for what he did. Sampson also had limitless physical strength and could get with any woman he wanted to. He didn't settle for Delilah because of a lack of options. He had plenty of options but chose to be stupid by dealing with that woman and then sharing his secrets to her.

However, go on...what other examples do you have? Remember, in the Bible context, you didn't have feminism or matriarchy, so the man is more responsible for the choices that he is making and the outcomes that flow from that.
She would go up to the rooftop when she knew King David was looking. There are quite a few other betrayal stories in the book. I also agree that man is responsible for his choices even in todays world.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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She would go up to the rooftop when she knew King David was looking. There are quite a few other betrayal stories in the book. I also agree that man is responsible for his choices even in todays world.
That detail was not in the bible. Women bathed on the top of the roof. That is how they set up their homes.
 

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That is true, but to be the devil's advocate, @Visionist and @Who Dares Win seem like normal guys that get women and they pay for it as well. At least they are not putting up negative threads out there.
I can get women in their 30s for both relationships and bedroom fun while it takes effort and commitment to get girls in their late 20s...I'm out from the early 20s market now (less than optimal hairline its a deal breaker there).

I've been through a desert at high school but then got back in track in my 20s and banged late teens and early 20s girls till my late 20s so got all the validation I needed not to have a grudge on me like many men my age.

Right now Im simply a realist, there are moments and places where I want to have a girl in my life while others I'm just going out of the gym after leg day and want to release asap with less commitment as possible, thats when escorts come in.

Also the more horny you are, the more your negotiating power in the relationship decrease, they can sense and urge as much as genuine indifference.

Try tell a girl honestly (you really have to be sincere not faking it) that you're not in the mood to bang her that day and maybe you will do it next time...thats basically a trojan in her deepest intimacy.
 

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I've been through a desert at high school but then got back in track in my 20s and banged late teens and early 20s girls till my late 20s so got all the validation I needed not to have a grudge on me like many men my age.
Almost everybody you know IRL are incels?
 
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Almost everybody you know IRL are incels?
Uhm nope, why such question?

I would say most are in relationships with women more or the less in their league if above 30 or either dating or sexting girls slightly below their smv.

But again it depends on which country, my russian friends are all with women hotter than them while the opposite is true for the spanish ones.

The problem many men have is that due to hypergamy they failed to have fun in the fun part of life...they begged for intimacy in their 20s but girls that age were too busy getting railed from local chads.
 

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You are literally the one of the loudest faux alphas on this board and you just admitted you pay for play….Golden :)
You pay for it no matter what, directly or indirectly. Dates, gas, clothing for dates, time which is arguably more valuable than money. What’s the difference? If you are in a drought, why not pay for it? Because of the stigma? It’s only societal programming that makes you feel it’s so “taboo” to just fork over some cash to bust a nut. Like it or not young man, prostitution is the oldest profession known to mankind and some of the most alpha men in the world partake in it. Don’t believe me? Look at Jeffrey Epstein’s flight logs.
Picture Vladimir Putin cold approaching a b*tch in Walmart. Is that likely? Or more likely he has a mistress who he pays well to make him c*m and be quiet.

As far as your fake alpha claim, if you can get within two hours of driving from Maryland I’ll gladly meet you in person, go for a drink and then you can judge if I’m “alpha” or not based on something besides Internet forum posts.
 

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So why aren't the top RP guys making cash by being Male escorts? Honestly?

I'm willing to bet there is a subset of women so jaded from the volume of screwed up guys that they would cut through the BS and pay for a guy when and where they want him...No Feelings, no Fuss, .
 

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So why aren't the top RP guys making cash by being Male escorts? Honestly?

I'm willing to bet there is a subset of women so jaded from the volume of screwed up guys that they would cut through the BS and pay for a guy when and where they want him...No Feelings, no Fuss, .
No woman under 50 needs a male escort. Women under 50 can have sex on demand.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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