You already told you her you can't make it Wednesday, so leave that be. For me to give you further advice, do you only view this girl as FWB, or do you want a relationship?
An open relationship is ideal but I’m fine with leaving her as a fwb
No occasion calls for amused mastery?
@SargeMaximus remember me calling out beexcellent for using this as a shjt test? I think this was one. They will sincerely offer to pay, but if you accept, you fail.
If you've been following sarge's posts, and conversing with him for a while, you'd know he doesn't have oneitis. He's just analyzing the situation, trying to be proactive, with proper actions in response to female behavior. So there is a frame of reference for when this pops up again.
I think what they're getting at is, the fact that your involving her in your life(interests in certain stores) without sex being the focus of your interaction with each other, this is going into a grey area that is less like fwb and more like gf.
Lol except that she's paid for me before. Given me money for gas to come see her, made me breakfast, etc. I also knew a player before who would charge women a dollar every time he made them ***.
I came to this forum to improve my game. I'm analyzing everything that I think I need to work on with all women. So if it's oneitis I got it for all women. But in reality I'm just trying to improve my game. I wasn't even going to start this topic, I was gonna be indifferent to it all but I've done that before and have gotten dumped for reasons I couldn't figure out. So I decided to try a different approach this time.
Now see, THAT I can get behind. It suits my style of game very well. I already dgaf and so if I just gotta double down in that, that’s cool.
Find more women so you think about her less. That will cause her to think about you more. You clearly are more invested than she is.
What do you think I been doing for the last month since I met her? I’m always looking for new women. I never stop
It’s not about the girl. If I have a pattern that isnt serving me in dating, I want to correct it otherwise it’ll happen over and over with many women.
Have you gotten any?
Same man. Hypergamy at its finest. Makes me question if I could ever maintain a LTR again with a women. They have far too many options these days and social media is truly ruining them.
Dude where are you reading that I can't live without her? I literally will not care if I never see her again, the ONLY reason I want to keep her around is it's hard enough finding a girl let alone one I have such good chemistry with in bed. It's a huge time commitment to date constantly. I don't have time to waste on women but I have needs and refuse to pay for sex. So, it's more about protecting my investment than needing the girl.
"it's hard enough finding a girl let alone one I have such good chemistry with in bed. "
