SargeMaximus
Master Don Juan
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Hey guys, hope you're enjoying your weekend.
So here's the situation:
Fwb and I been seeing each other for a little over a month. AMAZING sex and desire from both of us till recently. Recently we decided to see each other more than once a week (First mistake?) starting last wednesday.
Well last wednesday the sex was sub-par and we only fvcked once (as opposed to the time before where we fvcked 8 times in less than 12 hours). I figured we just needed to get used to the extra day.
Fast forward to last night. I started by taking her to a store I had told her about. I didn't buy her anything, I just wanted to show her the place. It has really cool egyptian statues and stuff. Anyhow she loved it then she said she was hungry so we went to a drive thru and got burgers. Before I could grab my wallet she gave me her debit card so I told her thank you and we talked about how cash or paying for things was the best gift.
When we got back to her place she finished off her burger then we fvcked but she got cramps so we stopped. No big deal, I figured just don't have sex so close to eating. All good so far. But then the **** tests started.
We were on her back deck and a guy came by with a dog she had told me about. She says "oh this is that dog I told you about!" and she begins to chat with the guy while I'm there. I thought she would just do a quick "Hey Vern, how's it going?" kind of thing but she gets into a long winded convo with the guy. So I go back inside the house. She stays out there talking to him for another 5-10 mins.
At this point I feel very discarded.
Then later we are browsing netflix for a movie to watch and she starts bringing up all kinds of feminism **** like "Oh my mom and I were watching this one movie, it's very good, it's about women making a stand against the injustices of corporate inequality" I just calmly chuckled and said "Well, to be fair, the divorce courts favor the woman so, I think there's inequality on both sides"
Then we finally picked a movie (Oblivion with Tom Cruise) and at one point he's wearing a new york yankees cap like I have and I go "oh wow, he has my cap!" and we both laughed. Then she tells me a story about how she knew this guy who was obsessed with Tom Cruise and had all his clothes from all his movies and she stopped dating him which I found weird since we just established I had the same cap as he did in the movie.
We had sex a second time that night and it was good but it ended abruptly when my d!ck went limp and she was on top and kind of bent it a bit.
Then this morning she didn't make me breakfast like she usually does and we didn't have sex. Tbh I'm kind of turned off of her atm.
So my questions are:
Do I ghost even though we have plans to meet wednesday? Or do I simply tell her "Yeah something came up I can't make it wednesday. See you saturday" and THEN ghost? Or am I reading too much into things?
Thanks guys.
So here's the situation:
Fwb and I been seeing each other for a little over a month. AMAZING sex and desire from both of us till recently. Recently we decided to see each other more than once a week (First mistake?) starting last wednesday.
Well last wednesday the sex was sub-par and we only fvcked once (as opposed to the time before where we fvcked 8 times in less than 12 hours). I figured we just needed to get used to the extra day.
Fast forward to last night. I started by taking her to a store I had told her about. I didn't buy her anything, I just wanted to show her the place. It has really cool egyptian statues and stuff. Anyhow she loved it then she said she was hungry so we went to a drive thru and got burgers. Before I could grab my wallet she gave me her debit card so I told her thank you and we talked about how cash or paying for things was the best gift.
When we got back to her place she finished off her burger then we fvcked but she got cramps so we stopped. No big deal, I figured just don't have sex so close to eating. All good so far. But then the **** tests started.
We were on her back deck and a guy came by with a dog she had told me about. She says "oh this is that dog I told you about!" and she begins to chat with the guy while I'm there. I thought she would just do a quick "Hey Vern, how's it going?" kind of thing but she gets into a long winded convo with the guy. So I go back inside the house. She stays out there talking to him for another 5-10 mins.
At this point I feel very discarded.
Then later we are browsing netflix for a movie to watch and she starts bringing up all kinds of feminism **** like "Oh my mom and I were watching this one movie, it's very good, it's about women making a stand against the injustices of corporate inequality" I just calmly chuckled and said "Well, to be fair, the divorce courts favor the woman so, I think there's inequality on both sides"
Then we finally picked a movie (Oblivion with Tom Cruise) and at one point he's wearing a new york yankees cap like I have and I go "oh wow, he has my cap!" and we both laughed. Then she tells me a story about how she knew this guy who was obsessed with Tom Cruise and had all his clothes from all his movies and she stopped dating him which I found weird since we just established I had the same cap as he did in the movie.
We had sex a second time that night and it was good but it ended abruptly when my d!ck went limp and she was on top and kind of bent it a bit.
Then this morning she didn't make me breakfast like she usually does and we didn't have sex. Tbh I'm kind of turned off of her atm.
So my questions are:
Do I ghost even though we have plans to meet wednesday? Or do I simply tell her "Yeah something came up I can't make it wednesday. See you saturday" and THEN ghost? Or am I reading too much into things?
Thanks guys.