Fwb Starts **** Testing Hardcore?

[SargeMaximus]

"it's hard enough finding a girl let alone one I have such good chemistry with in bed. "

BackInTheGame78 was just hinting this to you. There are always girls that can do the same thing that your current girl can. Having sex is not hard. Women aren't that complicated. You will run into women that you just connect with. She is not the one in a million. You gotta kill this. Believe me, we all have been there. When you get multiple girls, you come to find out they have a lot of similarities.

Also, most women just sit there and let you do all the work. If it's the sex, she definitely is not the one good at it.

Bro, I been with a ton of girls. You're projecting.

 

[DonJuanjr]

There are always girls that can do the same thing that your current girl can. Having sex is not hard.

I guess that depends... How often will you find a girl that let's you pee on her?

 

[HaleyBaron]

I guess that depends... How often will you find a girl that let's you pee on her?

Well, if that's his standard for a girl connecting with him, that's something no one can fix. He did this to himself.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I'm just saying I can get where he's coming from in not wanting to drop a plate. Obviously I used an extreme example, to drive the point home.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I'm just saying I can get where he's coming from in not wanting to drop a plate. Obviously I used an extreme example, to drive the point home.

Exactly. Getting sex is easy, keeping plates is where I have issues

but I’m always looking to improve so the whole “move on bro” doesn’t help me improve and is useless shallow advice

 

[HaleyBaron]

Plates aren't important. I won't be the last person to tell him this.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Plates aren't important. I won't be the last person to tell him this.

Go away troll

 

[HaleyBaron]

Go away troll

I don't have a problem with you cause you seem fine in other threads we interacted in. This turn face of yours just proves you have an insecurity that you won't address so you feel attacked. You gotta get rid of that. I'm not going to sit here and get into a childish argument.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I don't have a problem with you cause you seem fine in other threads we interacted in. This turn face of yours just proves you have an insecurity that you won't address so you feel attacked. You gotta get rid of that. I'm not going to sit here and get into a childish argument.

Keep analyzing autist. I know why I'm here and it's to improve my game, not win over a single woman.

 

[HaleyBaron]

okay, I'm done here. Wallow in your own crap.

 

[SargeMaximus]

okay, I'm done here. Wallow in your own crap.

Bye bye darling

 

[2Rocky]

SM When you peak High you can crash low. Because you are coming from a 1x a week meetup and DOUBLING the time together , There is the feeling you have to maintain the high performance of the previous history ( 8x in 12 hours). You are adding more to your plate and it is unbalanced. Try adding less at one time, and spreading it out.

I went from 1x a month to 60 days in a row with an LTR. I've been there. pace yourself bro. Don't over think it.

 

[SargeMaximus]

SM When you peak High you can crash low. Because you are coming from a 1x a week meetup and DOUBLING the time together , There is the feeling you have to maintain the high performance of the previous history ( 8x in 12 hours). You are adding more to your plate and it is unbalanced. Try adding less at one time, and spreading it out.

I went from 1x a month to 60 days in a row with an LTR. I've been there. pace yourself bro. Don't over think it.

Ok thank you brother. Pacing myself is definitely a good idea. Cheers

 

[King Lion]

2Rocky nailed it!

Chill...See her less, as your time and your seed should be valuable!

When you do see her you don't always have to sex her up. Get to know her more and teach her about yourself!

Pvssy, FWBs, Plates, Side-pieces, or whatever dudes like, are a lifelong obsession, so I'm not gonna pretend I don't know or understand how you're feeling or thinking!

Gentle persuasion and good natured self-respect will let you cop the finest females - But it's self-control that should be your top priority because that's what will improve your sexual prowess and let you keep 'em!

By being genteel and good natured you'll the show good breeding and good sense acquired thru refined self-respect, which will make them trust you and feel safe around you!

With self-control you're showing decency, fortitude, true masculinity and self-respect - So they should respect you also!

They must learn by your actions, conditioning, and word game that you don't need their pvssy because you have the ability to entertain a variety of desirable females whenever you choose to!

If she makes herself compliant and desirable enough by saying or showing she's worth the effort - You should too!

Then when you do decide to sex her up - Hit it like it owes you money!!!

Rinse & Repeat!

 

[SargeMaximus]

Update with this FWB. She messaged me and explained how her son is with her till this week sometime and then she’s down to be my plaything again. However, she also asked if I miss her and I wasn’t sure how to respond. See the pic below for my response but still interested in how you guys handle a “did/do you miss me?” From a girl.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Hey guys, hope you're enjoying your weekend.

So here's the situation:

Fwb and I been seeing each other for a little over a month. AMAZING sex and desire from both of us till recently. Recently we decided to see each other more than once a week (First mistake?) starting last wednesday.

Well last wednesday the sex was sub-par and we only fvcked once (as opposed to the time before where we fvcked 8 times in less than 12 hours). I figured we just needed to get used to the extra day.

Fast forward to last night. I started by taking her to a store I had told her about. I didn't buy her anything, I just wanted to show her the place. It has really cool egyptian statues and stuff. Anyhow she loved it then she said she was hungry so we went to a drive thru and got burgers. Before I could grab my wallet she gave me her debit card so I told her thank you and we talked about how cash or paying for things was the best gift.

When we got back to her place she finished off her burger then we fvcked but she got cramps so we stopped. No big deal, I figured just don't have sex so close to eating. All good so far. But then the **** tests started.

We were on her back deck and a guy came by with a dog she had told me about. She says "oh this is that dog I told you about!" and she begins to chat with the guy while I'm there. I thought she would just do a quick "Hey Vern, how's it going?" kind of thing but she gets into a long winded convo with the guy. So I go back inside the house. She stays out there talking to him for another 5-10 mins.

At this point I feel very discarded.

Then later we are browsing netflix for a movie to watch and she starts bringing up all kinds of feminism **** like "Oh my mom and I were watching this one movie, it's very good, it's about women making a stand against the injustices of corporate inequality" I just calmly chuckled and said "Well, to be fair, the divorce courts favor the woman so, I think there's inequality on both sides"

Then we finally picked a movie (Oblivion with Tom Cruise) and at one point he's wearing a new york yankees cap like I have and I go "oh wow, he has my cap!" and we both laughed. Then she tells me a story about how she knew this guy who was obsessed with Tom Cruise and had all his clothes from all his movies and she stopped dating him which I found weird since we just established I had the same cap as he did in the movie.

We had sex a second time that night and it was good but it ended abruptly when my d!ck went limp and she was on top and kind of bent it a bit.

Then this morning she didn't make me breakfast like she usually does and we didn't have sex. Tbh I'm kind of turned off of her atm.

So my questions are:

Do I ghost even though we have plans to meet wednesday? Or do I simply tell her "Yeah something came up I can't make it wednesday. See you saturday" and THEN ghost? Or am I reading too much into things?

Thanks guys.

Man you sound like you are way too worried about stuff that is unimportant. So what, she had a conversation with a guy for 10 minutes. Did it seriously bother you THAT much? I mean c'mon man...sometimes I swear people start looking for things to get uptight about. Go inside and turn on the TV

 

[SargeMaximus]

. Go inside and turn on the TV

That’s what I did actually. But yeah I’m definitely looking for problems. It’s a side effect of trying to improve my game, I start thinking every little thing is the reason for my current level

 

[SargeMaximus]

Update here: I fvcked her last night. And stayed the night. Clearly she wasn’t losing interest in me as some of you said. I now know who is a kj. Thank you all for your insight

 

[zinc4]

Lol except that she's paid for me before. Given me money for gas to come see her, made me breakfast, etc. I also knew a player before who would charge women a dollar every time he made them ***.

That aint no playa. That is a **** boy. Real players achieve wealth/balla status and dgaf about money.

Charging $1? How old are you guys? You might think it is masculine. But it is not. It is something only a little boy mentally would do.

I know because when i was struggling and in my 20s i used to look for sugar mommas or girls that would buy me **** and thought i was this big player or something. In reality i was just a broke guy with no direction going from dead end job to dead end job who never got my **** together until my late 30s....thank god.

OP if she is just a FWB she doesnt owe you anything. She gets wet by you but probably sees you for what you are, no offense. Most, if not all of my exes did. You got your sex. So all is good.

If you feel disrespected by her though or anyone for that matter always feel free to walk away.

I would have left after the guy conversation thing. I am not sitting there for 15 mins even with my best friend while he makes bs small talk. Now if it were an emergency or something very important i can understand.

 

[SargeMaximus]

The jealousy on here is real