BeExcellent
Master Don Juan
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Listen guys. Make no mistake. Women do use logic. As in “the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over & over & expecting a different result” kind of logic.
This chick got fed up with being treated badly. Being treated like an option rather than a priority. Can’t say that I blame her. She’s pretty, she’s a relationship woman not a c0ck carousel woman and as such she has choices. She is exercising her choice NOT to be treated badly. She is acting with self respect.
Perhaps he can get her back. But to do so he has to show up differently. He has to mature and grow.
And if he expects her to come back on her own? Please. Not gonna happen. His silence simply reinforces her thinking he’s an insensitive jerk and it confirms that leaving him was the correct decision. Period. If he really wants this woman he’s going to have to man up, go get her, and show her he gives a rats ass. That isn’t beta.
When a man has been too ass hole and no heart what the hell do you expect? That more aloofness and more radio silence and more stonewalling will win the day? That is flat out delusional ego preservation at its finest.
I promise that is the wrong advice. For a supplicating beta nice guy it’s the correct advice. For too much ass holery? Absolutely the wrong play.
But don’t trust me. Pick your strategy and watch how it works out. Silence is the wrong play here. 100% wrong play.
This chick got fed up with being treated badly. Being treated like an option rather than a priority. Can’t say that I blame her. She’s pretty, she’s a relationship woman not a c0ck carousel woman and as such she has choices. She is exercising her choice NOT to be treated badly. She is acting with self respect.
Perhaps he can get her back. But to do so he has to show up differently. He has to mature and grow.
And if he expects her to come back on her own? Please. Not gonna happen. His silence simply reinforces her thinking he’s an insensitive jerk and it confirms that leaving him was the correct decision. Period. If he really wants this woman he’s going to have to man up, go get her, and show her he gives a rats ass. That isn’t beta.
When a man has been too ass hole and no heart what the hell do you expect? That more aloofness and more radio silence and more stonewalling will win the day? That is flat out delusional ego preservation at its finest.
I promise that is the wrong advice. For a supplicating beta nice guy it’s the correct advice. For too much ass holery? Absolutely the wrong play.
But don’t trust me. Pick your strategy and watch how it works out. Silence is the wrong play here. 100% wrong play.