Ya, I'm one of the short guys out there.

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
Oh btw, since America's population is now comprised largely of African Americans, many of whom are quite tall, your ethnicity argument holds no water there.
I'm sure your'e basing that on some sort of substantive studies or statistics. I'll go first!

http://www.halls.md/chart/height-weight.htm
white men
black men
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Originally posted by mroriginal
I remember this kid named pedro who went to my highschool even though he was 5'6, all the hot looking girls even the tall ones wanted him because he was really goodlooking. you see my point is if your short make up with goodlooks and game. girls would prefer a short goodlooking guy over a tall average looking guy.

end of discussion

seriously STOP BEING INSECURE ABOUT YOUR HEIGHT! Jay x your 5'9 not 4'9
Duly noted. Really. That doesn't do crap for the short ugly guys, though. :)
 

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Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
[BDuly noted. Really. That doesn't do crap for the short ugly guys, though. :) [/B]
oh but if your short and UGLY .......................
















































then your ****ed
 

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Originally posted by mroriginal
oh but if your short and UGLY .......................




then your ****ed
stop talking out of personal experience!:p
 

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OK, the statistics you cited are the exact ones I used, although I didn't actually look up the black and white individual data, so I wasn't exactly correct about my assumption about black guys being tall.... haha... I just figured there are more tall lanky black guys than white guys: it's an evolutionary adaptation for the Africans to be that way so they maximize their bodies' surface area and in turn maximize body cooling in the hot African continent.... that and all the black dudes in the NBA, lol.

Whatever the case, unless you're under 5'5" (height of Joe Pesci :) ), you should really quit whining about height, and even then, there is nothing you can do about it (unless you have a growth hormone deficiency) so focus your attention on something more constructive.
There are multiple ways to the top of the women's most wanted list:
1. good looks
2. wealth
3. social status
4. and being a DJ of course ;)

There is a history of tall men being more successful in every area only because they are usually more confident as a result of being tall. An equally confident short man is just as capable of that very same success, even though he does have a slight disadvantage in the looks category in most cases.

Look at it this way:
if you were an ugly woman, no amount of wealth or personality or social status or any of that would ever make a member of the opposite sex want to fu-ck you. We men have it made. All we have to do is become a prize of some sort and all of our flaws are instantly overlooked.
 

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Ya know what I hate more than shallow women who judge on height?

People who don't know the difference between "your" and "you're". I think you know who you are.
 

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Originally posted by TubularBells28
Ya know what I hate more than shallow women who judge on height?

People who don't know the difference between "your" and "you're". I think you know who you are.
Those people really piss me off. Their more annoying than anything!
 

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Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
Those people really piss me off. Their more annoying than anything!
"their"?:rolleyes: :crackup:
 

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I tower over 90% of the people i meet but used to have absolutely no confidence and still am not exactly a DJ lol.

whether you're tall or short, u just gotta put out your confidence. No confidence makes anyone look bad, short or tall.
 

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I'm one of the short guys 5'5" and its definately a disadvantage when trying to get women at are like 5'7" and taller. I feel like most girls that are a few inches taller than me usually just see me as being "cute" or whatever but wouldnt hook up with me except for the rare occasion as I have banged a couple girls that were a few inches taller than me. Other than that I would say I have just as much of a chance of getting a girl my height or shorter as a guy who's 5'10 or 6' because of my sense of humor, confidence (when I'm feeling confident) and my good looks.
 

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Originally posted by Brando23
Other than that I would say I have just as much of a chance of getting a girl my height or shorter as a guy who's 5'10 or 6' because of my sense of humor, confidence (when I'm feeling confident) and my good looks.
Good for you, Me too :up:
 

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Alright guys, let me speak on this.

I used to be insecure about my height, but it's just in ya head. If you've read Gunwitch Method then you'll know that height is not a biological factor in attraction. It is merely a SOCIAL factor. Bodyfat is a biological factor. If everybody shrunk overnight by 3 inches, everybody would still be having sex and be attracted to each other. If everybody gained 20 lbs of weight overnight, people wouldn't be as attracted and there'd be less sex.

On top of this, I had a LTR with a girl who's 5'10. I'm 5'6, 5'7 in certain shoes. Okay? She gave me a lot of sh!t about it. She was obviously attracted but during the initial stages of attraction, she kept bringing it up and saying she didn't want to feel weird. In the later stages of the relationship it was a joke topic we'd bring up to bust on each other. It's not like tall girls want to hate on shorter guys. They just dont want to feel like giant freaks in public haha. If you attract them then it dosn't matter. Women seek value, and we are capable of conveying value in many different ways. Sure, height equates to some amount of value, but there are an infinite number of ways to convey value, so if you think you're limited because of this, you need to get your head out your @$$.

As you all (should) know by now, a woman's PREFERENCES don't matter. Attraction is not a choice. Why am I the first person to say this on this thread? Ya'll need to listen to some David D and get Swinggcat's ebook.

Anyways... *ahem* as I was saying. I ended up having a LTR and making out with this girl on repeat occasions. No I never f*cked her cuz she's a virgin and had issues, but point being is that she had a good 4 maybe even 5 inches on me. Yeah I had to look up at her to look her in the eyes. Did it mean that my frame was automatically weakened? Or that I was the submissive one just because I was shorter? F*ck no. When she was in my presence, I owned the frame. She was in my world. She was enraptured by me, a short guy. DOESN'T MATTER.

When we were intimate it didn't matter. Okay? She would try busting on me and calling me small and sh!t. Sh!t tests to see if I was insecure about it. I plowed through them. They follow your lead. If you get insecure, you failed, and they'll be insecure around you. Me? Nah. I told her she had big feet for a girl. So who's reality wins out? The stronger one... so was I really too short for her? Or was she a f*ckin' giant? Haha. Don't let anyone decide your reality for you. If yours is stronger and the other person senses it, yours wins out and they'll question their own view of "reality" since they see that you believe in YOURS more than they believe in theirs.

So pretty much after that, I've never been insecure about my height or made it into an issue. I have to tilt my head to look at taller people in the eyes, but I don't feel any sense of shame or inferiority about it anymore, because that's bullsh!t. The fact that you're shorter should not be an emotional or psychological matter. It's purely a logistical thing, and you should treat it as such. When girls are attracted, they don't care! You can do no wrong!

:)
 

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Style, arguably the best PUA ever and author of The Game, is only 5'6
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by dirtyvibe
Style, arguably the best PUA ever and author of The Game, is only 5'6
Ditto.
 

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Originally posted by Duke
Ditto.
Wtf? You can't ditto a statement like that..doesn't make sense..lol

:D
 

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Originally posted by mroriginal
oh but if your short and UGLY .......................








then your ****ed

Mr.original you seriously need to grow up! :mad:
 
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