Why Have So Many Well Known Pickup Artists Had Major Personal Issues?

[Clockwerk50]

I'm talking in general, IMO women now are not feminine compared to 15 years ago
But then again I live in one of the top liberal progressive feminist cities in the world
The lack of feminity here is truly distburting

I haven't encountered many women who fit that stereotype. When people talk about a lack of feminism, I often think of individuals who don’t conform to traditional beauty standards, like those with purple hair, goths, cat ladies, or alternative styles. Even the ambitious women in MLMs can make a sandwich to their name if they choose to.

 

[Solomon]

I haven't encountered many women who fit that stereotype. When people talk about a lack of feminism, I often think of individuals who don’t conform to traditional beauty standards, like those with purple hair, goths, cat ladies, or alternative styles. Even the ambitious women in MLMs can make a sandwich to their name if they choose to.

I'll put it to you like this back in 2010 I went out with a hot bond on a date who had no clue WTF feminism was when we were talking about something.

Now not only ugly chicks claim feminism but hot women also
Even if a girl is pretty and such, the feminist attitude is sprinkled in @SW15 likes to call them bougie or boss babes which is true a lot of them love to tout feminism when it suits them but then utilize traditionalism when it suites them i.e. they want you to pay for the date, open door, pay all the bills but they want you to treat them as an equal, THEY DO'T WANT TO COOK OR CLEAN, THEY WANT YOU AS A MAN TO BE ABLE TO DO THAT lmfaooo

I remember growing up as a kid, and seeing how my mother would interact with her women friends or sisters. My mother is the old-school definition of a "Lady" but she wasn't a pushover either. I'm not saying I'm looking for my mother but I'm simply stating finding a woman with "Lady" character in regards to her behavior is becoming very rare. To the point now that you have women teaching other women how to be "feminine" or "Soft"

I find women who tend to be the most nurturing, feminine and soft are women who are nurses, child educators, cosmetics or something in the beauty field social workers (not all). Obviously not all women but IMO they tend to be the most femine

least feminine Jobs: Boss babes, corporate America, women who work in warehouses(I'll never date an Amazon Team lead again) women in any position where they feel they have to compete with men to demand their respect or be looked at as an equal

 

[RSDCharlie]

It's the need that hollows you out. Not sex. Addiction is rarely in the substance, but in the need.

Oh trust me, the need was fulfilled thoroughly. Still couldn't stop it from becoming an addiction though. Of course its no longer that much of an issue, but it still lingers in the back of my mind. Alot of PUA's cant handle that.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I'll put it to you like this back in 2010 I went out with a hot bond on a date who had no clue WTF feminism was when we were talking about something.

Now not only ugly chicks claim feminism but hot women also
Even if a girl is pretty and such, the feminist attitude is sprinkled in @SW15 likes to call them bougie or boss babes which is true a lot of them love to tout feminism when it suits them but then utilize traditionalism when it suites them i.e. they want you to pay for the date, open door, pay all the bills but they want you to treat them as an equal, THEY DO'T WANT TO COOK OR CLEAN, THEY WANT YOU AS A MAN TO BE ABLE TO DO THAT lmfaooo

I remember growing up as a kid, and seeing how my mother would interact with her women friends or sisters. My mother is the old-school definition of a "Lady" but she wasn't a pushover either. I'm not saying I'm looking for my mother but I'm simply stating finding a woman with "Lady" character in regards to her behavior is becoming very rare. To the point now that you have women teaching other women how to be "feminine" or "Soft"

I find women who tend to be the most nurturing, feminine and soft are women who are nurses, child educators, cosmetics or something in the beauty field social workers (not all). Obviously not all women but IMO they tend to be the most femine

least feminine Jobs: Boss babes, corporate America, women who work in warehouses(I'll never date an Amazon Team lead again) women in any position where they feel they have to compete with men to demand their respect or be looked at as an equal

Thanks man. I will keep an eye on that.

I guess there are grades of softness. I'd have to disagree with child educators but that is a conversation for another day lol