Many young people swear, with all their heart, that they will NEVER end up like their parents. However, 20 years later, they end up just like their parents!
Many young guys today swear they will NEVER get married. Yet, 20 years later, they get married (maybe even some of the guys in this thread!)
The question that has been stated over and over in this thread is: "Why the hell are men throwing away their lives and giving their wife a guaranteed ticket to 50% of their stuff?"
The answer is NOT that "the sexist laws are well hidden," because they are not. Men often joke to the friend about to get married. They tell him things like "Have fun having sex with the same woman for all of eternity!" All men know the downside of being married, yet the question remains.
"Why do men fall for the trap despite being aware of it?"
The reason is because these men have little or no souls. They have no dreams. They have no ambition. They just want to make it through the day... to survive. Eventually, they turn to family and children, thinking this will make their life have meaning. Years later they realize this is not the case, and they become fat and bald and eventually wither away into nothingness.
How to not get married: strengthen your soul.
Take the guy who dreams to one day become a professional bodybuilder. His soul will not let him get trapped by marriage. Why? Because marriage and kids come with expenses. You lose time: taking care of the kids, driving them to school, diapers, etc. You lose money: kids are expensive, wives are expensive. You lose your well being: doing stupid activities that women do and men never do.
The guy needs his time, his money, and his well being to follow his dreams. He needs time to sleep, eat, and work out. He needs money for food, gym equipment/memberships, and supplements. He can't be distracted and be forced to watch Oprah with his wife. If his soul is strong enough, it wont allow him to get married.
But if you're soul is not strong enough, you will eventually succumb to marriage.
You can put a dam to a river, but if there is no outlet the water will eventually overflow.
Many hardcore, man-bashing Feminists in today's world eventually get married. Why? Because they poured their soul into a USELESS cause. They realize this and turn to family and marriage, hoping it will give their life meaning.
It is our nature to seek woman companionship, whether it be marriage or girlfriends or random sluts, but you must harness that nature and direct it towards your goals.
Remember, Nature set us up to be average. Average people have little or no soul. Average people get married. Average people get divorced. Don't let Nature take over and instead try to strengthen your soul. You will be able to avoid the plague of marriage.
Ways to strengthen your soul:
1. Better your personality. If you're confident now, try make yourself "super confident." If you're unique now, try make yourself more unique.
2. Be who you are at all times. Even if it goes against popular opinion, be who you are. Remember, you aren't average, so people will always be disagreeing with you.
3. Strengthen your dreams. If you want to be a golfer, don't just strive to be a pro golfer. Strive to be the best golfer EVER. The more ambitious your dreams are, the stronger your soul will be.
Think about it. Does marriage cross your mind if you want to be the greatest golfer in the world? Ben Hogan knew and openly stated he couldn't have kids, because he was spending 8+ hours a day playing golf. He said that it would be either him or the kids, and he also said that his soul wouldn't let him leave golf and that would be selfish toward his kids.