What would you estimate your rejection rate is?

[BaronOfHair]

My phobia of pregnancy was why I opted out of sex, despite the fact there was a naked woman in bed with me.

I want to up my free lay count, yet am also terrified of pregnancy

Then it'd behoove you to get past that fear, isn't it? You've mentioned you weren't satisfied with your most recent shrink: Find yourself another one, preferably one who's been trained in the empirically validated approaches(I.E. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in all of it's formulations)and who doesn't hesitate to be brutally honest with his(or her) clients. Also, read some books on the subject, take notes, and practice everything you've learned on a regular basis


"That's why I prefer older (which comes with its own challenges, as a lot of older broads will immediately disqualify me solely based on my age)"

The primary challenge being that most heterosexual women find men decades younger than themselves less appealing than The IDF and Hamas find the thought of spending the day together at Disneyland right now. All the more incentive for you to get off this fever dream, and start rolling with reality, by pursing women your own age and younger


"Unreal. I'm 33; not 20. I shouldn't face ageism for being "too young" anymore"

And I, as a darker skinned man who's descended from immigrants, SHOULDN'T encounter racial/ethnic prejudice occasionally. Alas, everyone is entitled to their own beliefs, and there's little I can do to "fix" a restaurateur who ignores me when I walk through the door, yet greets every pale face with a smile. Thus, I leave and patronize establishments run by less ignorant and philistine operators

Older women don't typically find you/younger gents more generally attractive, because they want a leader they feel comfortable submitting to, instead of another child to look after? Start pursuing women who are more amenable to guys in your age bracket

Here at SS, we have more than a couple of regulars who are older yet successfully snagged 19 year olds... There's no credible excuse for you, a young guy who's apparently fairly attractive, NOT succeeding

 

[Drmuscular]

Just go for what you want and stop trying to avoid pain man, who cares if you get rejected often or not, odds are these h0es don't have a good taste at all.

 

[Vanderdonck]

With my history with the ladies, a rejection carries a lot of power.

Only the power you give it. So stop doing that.