What would you estimate your rejection rate is?

[SW15]

speed dating event

Speed dating is a dog crap quality event. Spiritual people would refer to speed dating as low vibrational, meaning that it is filled with negative or toxic energy.

Men who view themselves as quality men are best served by avoiding speed dating and all structured singles events.

Speed dating and singles events have mediocre to subpar women rejecting anything that isn't top tier. Since we are on the topic of rejection rates, avoiding speed dating and singles events will reduce rejection rates.

It is ego crushing to get rejected by such mediocre and subpar looking women at speed dating and singles events.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

And if one resides in any major metropolitan area within The Anglosphere, a substantial portion of the female population will be up on the Non-Binary bandwagon, contemplating a sex change, or in the midst of DEtransitioning from the change they already underwent

LOL. I live in the SF Bay Area. The VAST majority of women are in no way ‘non-binary…’. A ‘substantial portion of the female population’ is Not trooning.

 

[BaronOfHair]

LOL. I live in the SF Bay Area. The VAST majority of women are in no way ‘non-binary…’. A ‘substantial portion of the female population’ is Not trooning.

10-20% of women is several million

 

[Hamurabimbi]

10-20% of women is several million

5% max. Probably far less.

 

[GoodMan32]

Speed dating is a dog crap quality event. Spiritual people would refer to speed dating as low vibrational, meaning that it is filled with negative or toxic energy.

Men who view themselves as quality men are best served by avoiding speed dating and all structured singles events.

Speed dating and singles events have mediocre to subpar women rejecting anything that isn't top tier. Since we are on the topic of rejection rates, avoiding speed dating and singles events will reduce rejection rates.

It is ego crushing to get rejected by such mediocre and subpar looking women at speed dating and singles events.

I only had one official rejection at the event (the woman had good looks)

None of the men at the event were what I would describe as top tier. Yet a lot of the men appeared to do well during the open floor at the end.

 

[GoodMan32]

I've learned on this thread that it's somewhat common for a man to get rejected 90-something percent of the time.

I suppose the difference between myself and other men with 90-something percent rejection rates is my history of the freaky creep stigma.

Ever since the rejection at the speed dating event, I've found myself repeatedly saying (in my head) the words I heard in high school "you're a freaky creep no girl would possibly want" while walking down the hallway at work this week.

 

[SW15]

None of the men at the event were what I would describe as top tier. Yet a lot of the men appeared to do well during the open floor at the end.

I am confident most got rejected when they asked for a date or phone number.

 

[corrector]

I've learned on this thread that it's somewhat common for a man to get rejected 90-something percent of the time.

I suppose the difference between myself and other men with 90-something percent rejection rates is my history of the freaky creep stigma.

Ever since the rejection at the speed dating event, I've found myself repeatedly saying (in my head) the words I heard in high school "you're a freaky creep no girl would possibly want" while walking down the hallway at work this week.

At least the 50-year old lady at work, among other ladies there find you attractive. It's not just only your mother.

Remember you didn't acutally get rejected by anyone that way (ie like being a freaky creep), but were Amogged, which is technically/and in a nuanced way different from a rejection, although they feel the same way (ie I wasn't good enough compared to the other guys). Both are toxic/negative, but I think "freaky creep" is worst than saying you were "not good enough". At least saying "not good enough" could motivate you to self-improve to become more competitive. "Freaky Creep" doesn't help you to motivate.

I often feel I'm not good enough compared to other guys. If the competition is 20-something year old guys, how can I compete if I'm 48 years old? I won't be good enough for a girl who is into 20-something year old guys. Some of these things you can't help.

 

[corrector]

Speed dating is a dog crap quality event. Spiritual people would refer to speed dating as low vibrational, meaning that it is filled with negative or toxic energy.

Men who view themselves as quality men are best served by avoiding speed dating and all structured singles events.

Speed dating and singles events have mediocre to subpar women rejecting anything that isn't top tier. Since we are on the topic of rejection rates, avoiding speed dating and singles events will reduce rejection rates.

It is ego crushing to get rejected by such mediocre and subpar looking women at speed dating and singles events.

Agreed. The less interaction you have with any women will reduce rejection rates, especially speed dating.

 

[GoodMan32]

I am confident most got rejected when they asked for a date or phone number.

I guess we'll never know.

The fact they weren't immediately told to scram (like I was by the one broad I asked) is a promising sign, however.

I know at least one set of digits were exchanged (because I heard a broad bragging to her friend about getting a man's digits)

 

[GoodMan32]

At least the 50-year old lady at work, among other ladies there find you attractive. It's not just only your mother.

Remember you didn't acutally get rejected by anyone that way (ie like being a freaky creep), but were Amogged, which is technically/and in a nuanced way different from a rejection, although they feel the same way (ie I wasn't good enough compared to the other guys). Both are toxic/negative, but I think "freaky creep" is worst than saying you were "not good enough". At least saying "not good enough" could motivate you to self-improve to become more competitive. "Freaky Creep" doesn't help you to motivate.

I often feel I'm not good enough compared to other guys. If the competition is 20-something year old guys, how can I compete if I'm 48 years old? I won't be good enough for a girl who is into 20-something year old guys. Some of these things you can't help.

The "how can a 48 year old man compete with a 20 year old" is precisely how I bagged some of my free cougars in my younger days

You're right, being called a freaky creep gives you less incentive to improve (compared to simply being told you aren't good enough). With 4 years of being viewed as a freaky creep in high school, I eventually started to believe it. To this day, I subconsciously think any woman who wants to stay with me long-term must have something seriously wrong with her.

For that matter, I remember being perplexed at why broads were sad after getting dumped by me (Because shouldn't they be glad to be free of the freaky creep?)