Just walk away!
Oh well, another one bites the dust. Sadly he refuses to listen to the advice given here. I could care less, if men keep being fools then foolish things will keep happening to them. :nono:
Oh and by the way, am I the only one here who realizes that when a woman leaves or puts a man out they almost always have someone else that they are involved with. The reason that they keep contact is to see if it will work out with the other person, and if it doesnt then they will try to reestablish the one with the person (sucker) that they just left. It normally doesnt work out with the other person and so they almost always make a u-turn.
The trick is to beat them at their own game, and have a backup plan, which nowdays is essential. (oh and and spin plates).
Most men get too complacent in relationships because their are always signs words, body language and phrases, that will tip you off that things have went south. If you watch you closely you will know and your gut will NEVER EVER lead you astray!
I remember one time I was living with this female and she up and out of the blue asked me to get out. I didn't have anywhere else to go, so I asked her if she was seeing someone else and she said that she wasn't, she swore to God that she would never ever do that to me. I knew that she was lying but couldn't prove it. The apartment was her place and my name wasnt on the lease, so I had no recourse. I was literally sleeping in my car and going back and forth to work, So yeah, basically living out of my car (that she bought for me lol).
So, anyway five days later I decided to go do a little detective work and spy on her and sure enough there was another dude invovled and he quit her after he had pumped and dumped her about a week or two after she quit me, she tried to come back, but I told her this:
"What kind of man do you think I am? What kind of person would take someone back who didn't even care if they were living on the streets? You would lose the little respect that you have left for me If I did took you back!"
I told her that there was no way in hell that I would ever trust her again, because to have someone there five days after you put me out means that you had been seeing and ****ing him for quite some time. When I thought back on it I remember how she went for loving me cooking for me and blow jobs, to no cooking and no sex in a very short period. Probably the biggest indicator was her attitude it go so bad that I couldn't stand being around here, in fact that has always been the way I have caught women ****ing around their attitude will get ****ED UP FAST!!!
Here is the key point. They stop doing those things for you because they are too busy doing them for someone else. The good part was that I never stopped spinning plates. Was I hurt? You damn straight I was, but I am old enough and wise enough to know that with most woman even if its someone you trust (and I really trusted this female) that its a crap shoot. They are selfish, manipulative, disloyal, narcisstic and decietful. And those are the good ones!! LOL
No seriously man she did you a favor, when a woman walks out of your life, its usually because they think that they are somehow above you and that means that you have either covertly or overtly indicated to them that their were in control and you have lost the frame. But I swear to God even in my AFC days when ***** said that she wanted out I always helped them get to where they were going, I never begged or groveled never not once. And this has always confused every woman that has ever done this to me. All have tried to come back except one..
Also to dispel a myth about women, they stray for various reasons, but the main reason is almost always, that they've met someone that they are more sexually stimulated by at least for the moment, the bigger better deal and that coupled with their girlfriends telling them that they can do better than you makes a recipe for disaster.
Now a special word about fat woman. In my case it was different, this was a woman who was overweight when I met her but she lost weight and a year later we started dating, but I started to noticed that the more weight she lost, the more she started talking about guys hitting on her at work. Now that was my first sign, and so I knew the handwriting was on the wall and that it was only a matter of time. That why I was able to get about 30,000 from her, 2 cars, clothes and keyboards and musical equipment over the last two years. So at least I walked away with something. I remember the joy and adulation that I experinced when she called me one day and asked me if I was aware of how much money she had spent on me. I laughed and said "You blazed me and I blazed you now were even" she got mad and hung up, then she started, beging for me to take her back calling my job and asking when my days off were and after that she called my brother, I ended up telling her that I was going to get a restrainging order if she didn't stop!! :cuss:
I lost complete and total respect for her, and she obviously had none for me.
She made the usual excuses that *****s make when they get busted, you weren't there for me I got weak, you lost my head, he was there for me when you couldn't be etc, etc. But here's the good part, the guy that she left me for gave her syphillis, I went and got checked but didn't have it. :nervous:
Thank God! Moral of the story is let *****s be *****s and just walk away, there are millions of woman in this world, so why worry over a fatty or in my case a has been fatty. Just walk away. Woman always realize when its too
late.
