Tired Of Not Having Any Beautiful women In My Life (besides my mom and sister)

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When that's true, your options are...

1. Approaching strangers in real life
2. Using swipe apps
3. Sending DMs on Instagram and other social media platforms

I doubt you'd make a great impression in DMs on any social media platform. Competition on swipe apps is fierce.
All true. This is why I recommend men get socially adjusted early! While I don’t think thirteen-year olds should have sex, I’m talking that early for socialization with the opposite sex these days. Being we aren’t living pre-sexual revolution, those who win in the sexual market, win early, and win big. Of course things can be reversed, but it will be far more difficult for men who start late and are consequentially out of touch. I believe many middle-aged red-pill madmen have perma-rage because of this, and put overemphasis on improvement. Improvement is necessary but one doesn’t have to become a bionic man-robot as the RP crowd espouses.
 

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gangsta rappers who call women "b*tches" and "hoes" all day are likely getting more action than anybody on this thread
They can get away with this because of several qualities you and most here lack! I don’t want to insult you, but your statements indicate you are not worldly, socially out of touch, and naive.

Such men you speak of are former or current gang members and/or criminals, extremely high status, are or were violent, socially connected since childhood, and screwing women since thirteen years old!

A clue, get one!
 

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Dude, with all the sorts of modern fits out there, this square design of shirt should be tossed, especially considering it’s too big on you and you are slim.
would you say that it could work better if it was more tailored to my size? i thought a button-down white dress shirt was a classic option, i mean it's a fundamental part of a suit
 

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True.

You are only 35 miles from Philadelphia. Philadelphia is superior to Wilmington. I have heard that Philadelphia women are not that impressive on looks compared to a lot of other big cities.



This is generally true. It is inefficient when it is effective. The only thing that keeps approaching strangers in real life alive as an option is that the swipe apps are worse and Instagram game isn't going to be applicable for most men.



When that's true, your options are...

1. Approaching strangers in real life
2. Using swipe apps
3. Sending DMs on Instagram and other social media platforms

I doubt you'd make a great impression in DMs on any social media platform. Competition on swipe apps is fierce.



That's a sign your game is weak. I heard that excuse more in the 2000s earlier in my seduction journey. I haven't heard that excuse much from 2010-present. I thought the IHAB (I have a boyfriend) excuse was dead until I saw this approach video from 2021 with an approach beginner getting blown out in outdoor daygame approaches.




There's a chance that is true. Get the evaluation on it. Being on the autism spectrum makes getting laid far more difficult.
why do you think i wouldn't make a good impression on social media
 

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They can get away with this because of several qualities you and most here lack! I don’t want to insult you, but your statements indicate you are not worldly, socially out of touch, and naive.

Such men you speak of are former or current gang members and/or criminals, extremely high status, are or were violent, socially connected since childhood, and screwing women since thirteen years old!

A clue, get one!
I don't understand how you come to the conclusion that I'm naive, you don't me personally, do you?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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would you say that it could work better if it was more tailored to my size? i thought a button-down white dress shirt was a classic option, i mean it's a fundamental part of a suit
Yes, or if not tailored, a slim, stretchy fit.
 

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I don't understand how you come to the conclusion that I'm naive, you don't me personally, do you?
You referred to gangster rappers referring to women with unsavory names in response to BE stating you look at women as such. Maybe you aren’t naive, but those with a clue know why such men get away with such talk.

If you are not naive or ignorant (neither of which are inherently bad), then I apologize. But you do seem so.
 

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This is why I recommend men get socially adjusted early! While I don’t think thirteen-year olds should have sex, I’m talking that early for socialization with the opposite sex these days. Being we aren’t living pre-sexual revolution, those who win in the sexual market, win early, and win big.
There is value in an early start. I had some issues with this.

My 2 main issues were:

1. Multiple childhood relocations, weaking my social standing
2. Height. With height, I was not noticeably taller than females until late in my sophomore year of high school, when I was reaching the 5'7"-5'8" range. For junior high and the first 2 years of high school, I was essentially invisible to women. Combining this with some childhood relocations put me in a bad spot socially.

During the last 2 years of high school, I made some progress.

After high school, I went to college. When I arrived on the college campus, I was behind some of my peers in terms of socialization.

Of course things can be reversed, but it will be far more difficult for men who start late and are consequentially out of touch. I believe many middle-aged red-pill madmen have perma-rage because of this, and put overemphasis on improvement. Improvement is necessary but one doesn’t have to become a bionic man-robot as the RP crowd espouses.
When I was in college, I discovered the seduction community from online searching. This was the early 2000s so it was a different seduction community then. 2 of my earlier influences in seduction were Doc Love (more of a relationship oriented teacher) and David DeAngelo. I later got into Mystery, Strauss, Roosh, and Rollo.
 
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