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Tired Of Not Having Any Beautiful women In My Life (besides my mom and sister)

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OP, you don’t have to be jacked, as a matter of fact your frame and size are pretty good, just get clothes that are slim fit, and wrinkle free. Lose the undershirt, two buttons open, but otherwise a white pinpoint with jeans is classic. Roll both sleeves up just once above the cuff level. Get some sort of bracelet and a watch. Make sure your haircut is clean. You could do long or short hair but the style going for on that photo requires it being kept clean.
 

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You don't get what you want in life
I have gotten what I've always wanted in life if I work hard for it. If that's not your experience, then you need to reflect on why that is.
 

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I have gotten what I've always wanted in life if I work hard for it. If that's not your experience, then you need to reflect on why that is.
I think you should actually read the entirety of what I posted and not just half of it.
 

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You don't get what you want in life, you get what you earn, and by byproduct, what you deserve.
I think you should actually read the entirety of what I posted and not just half of it.
No, you just like to write a bunch of nonsense to sound smart, like you've always done.

I get what I want in life, earned or not, deserved or not, I just do, that's the difference between your mindset and mine.
 

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No, you just like to write a bunch of nonsense to sound smart, like you've always done.

I get what I want in life, earned or not, deserved or not, I just do, that's the difference between your mindset and mine.
Highly unlikely.
 

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OK I've went to school, I've had jobs, I don't really remember girls showing me much interest at all
what if women never give me any non-verbal signs? am I just done for?
And isn't the scale rating subjective anyway? One person's 10 is another person's 7, etc.
This is all situational and stems from not having enough social interactions with women. This is not an easy problem to fix as modern society doesnt have good social opportunities for most people (at the moment).

But heres the thing. The game is timeless and so the game is not sympathetic to any mans situation or opportunities given. Really the game is the coldest and most demanding of things. The game will demand society bend to its rules but the game will never bend to societies rules.

So i am just telling you about the game. For men the game only starts in the 20s although ofcourse lots of young chads csn get laid but that is not the game, its just cultural, situational. The game is situation-free and timeless and unchanging at the deepest level.

For men to get game learn game its all the same it will always take blood sweat and tears. Nothing worth having comes easily. So you have a journey in front of you.

Now how much game do you have? This is like me saying at which level of sport are you competitive. Not even the most naturally talented player gets to internationl level without working his way up. Not the best programmer got there straight from 0 but through stages.

Then some men will be at level 1 or 0. From there it is just about learning the game. Even with the best looks they are still at 0. Evryone starts at 0.

The difference is in personality. Some guys are better disposed to hard work and effort and suffering and intensity. They are the ones who will come up in the game. Some guys want the easy way, often these guys look at successful men and want what they have. But they dont want to put in the work.

Lets take looks and childish games off the table. The core of the game is that it selects for virilty, rigour, intensity, being able to handle stress and pressure etc. This is why females test guys and are so difficult, becaude they want guys who can take the heat.

Guys who dont wanna take the heat and want the easy option may or may not instead complain about other factors such as looks. I dont exactly blame them because not all men are equal but at the end of the day no one cares about that, women will always go for personality energy and game over looks.

Best advice to guys. Get in the game but no ones saying its easy and this is not socialism there are no prizes for low performance and those who have it earned it.
 
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